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By markuslove420 September 11, 2020 20 answers Last updated September 11, 2020

Yesterday we had met with my classmates and word for word we started to share who was cut by the women he took down. From the whole conversation it turned out that women know a lot of ways to cut a suitor, but to attract attention in one way is only one - to dress provocatively and look at him with a 'wet look'. Since the conversation turned out to be interesting, I decided to post a topic here, where every man / boy who wants to share;) how they cut him off, how a woman showed him that he likes him. Women, on the other hand, can share ways in which they show a man that they like him;) And to exchange experiences in one word;) and to hear first hand how women give us signals that (perhaps because we are dumb) we do not notice ;) Me - they basically cut me with the following remarks: "I'm not ready for a relationship at the moment" "I have a boyfriend,

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dorian_mcdon answered · September 11, 2020

   I was cut off with: - I'm looking for something more than attraction. - I don't have time to contact at the moment. - You are not my type (most frankly)

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sswansondesign answered · September 11, 2020

   Me: 1. "I don't want relationships at the moment, I have enough personal problems." - I just admitted that I like her without asking for anything from her. 2. "I have a friend." - Indeed there was, but I did not know. Unlike the mass of girls, he did not publish 300 photos of where and how they held hands. What was written reminded me to write to the first one. Nice topic. :)

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mtvstyle answered · September 11, 2020

   In the age of the Internet, I was most often cut by simply stopping replying to my messages. Otherwise, they cut me with "let's stay friends", and once a girl wrote me 2 pages on Facebook to apologize for not being attracted to me enough. And how they showed me that they like me - well, mostly by looking for intimacy when we are in a social environment (party, party, disco, etc.). Not to directly tell me "I like you", but rather to sit next to me or opposite me, to smile at me, to talk about some things, etc. Most of the time I didn't act, because after so many cuts I don't dare to act first, so nothing happened. Or maybe I just imagined it. Once a chick was sitting next to me, smiling at me and grinning at my jokes, and I called this one I like.

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oficialcap answered · September 11, 2020

   I am a woman for myself I will say. I have always tried to be as honest as possible and I have not used any of the options mentioned by the author for coverage. This with "staying just friends" is my favorite, after you've gone through bed, what kind of friendship can there be? I specifically said clearly and precisely "you don't like me, things aren't going well" or something like that. And to attract attention I did it in different ways, it depends on the person, before I think that I want his attention, first I am a little interested in what he likes and the easiest option is with a sense of humor. There is nothing more sympathetic than laughing, like a big, strong and serious man. I apply this with the appearance then, when I have already won it, I get dressed and I think only about its meaning, not when we go out to be stared at by everyone, but when we are alone,

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sexy_roxx answered · September 11, 2020

   I was also cut off frankly: - I don't think it will happen between us - I didn't feel chemistry / attraction

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thomasbranthome answered · September 12, 2020

   Hello, I am one of those women who fail to refuse directly through words and I have done so through refusals to meet, emphasizing some commitment and at the same time I do not promise to be released soon and I do not offer anything. The bad thing is that once the invitations lasted a long time, apparently the man really thought I was just busy and then expressed disappointment. Therefore, it is best to gather strength and be honest as soon as we are aware of our attitude, whether positive or not.

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giopalmas82 answered · September 12, 2020

   I do not like you. I'm sorry, but it can't be done. Short, precise and clear. Girl, 24 years old

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marcoantonioregil answered · September 12, 2020

   How should I behave if I like someone? I personally behave completely normally, I am looking for some contact with this person - conversations and meetings. I don't think that if I stand in the corner of the room and stare at him, he will suddenly notice me, fall in love, and start the wedding march. I wouldn't say I dress provocatively. I wear skinny jeans because I like them, but anything more challenging than that makes me feel uncomfortable in my skin. Besides, I'm not very tall, I don't like to step on my legs. I support myself in the same way, whether I like someone or I am alone. In case we both have an interest, we communicate and it comes to a meeting, then a second, these are many opportunities for flirting, teasing, dating and finally here is your relationship. How do I show that I like it? I hint, if I get a hint too, at some point I say it directly to myself and the person, as long as he wants, can kiss me or something. So far, every first kiss has been a joint initiative, not an action on one side alone. It usually seems to me that I like someone because I become very positive and smiling around him, I have opportunities for humor, I accept his suggestions, I am interested in his opinion. It is the same in a long relationship, in love I try to be calmer and more cheerful. If only I sympathize, I try to be realistic and stop bothering the man. I am interested in his opinion. It is the same in a long relationship, in love I try to be calmer and more cheerful. If only I sympathize, I try to be realistic and stop bothering the man. I am interested in his opinion. It is the same in a long relationship, in love I try to be calmer and more cheerful. If only I sympathize, I try to be realistic and stop bothering the man.

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vidasjovenes answered · September 13, 2020

   (7) In my opinion, many women are like that. And not that they fail to cut them off, but they do it on purpose, I guess in order to feel wanted and wanted, to have someone to take them out here and there, to scratch their ego one kind, but that's for a while. Holding a man or, as often happens, several men in such a delusion that they have a chance (to lie to them one kind) you have no reason to complain that you have been lied to by other men!

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janyluna answered · September 13, 2020

   Авторът: Едно бързо обобщение на коментарите. До тук само /4/ и донякъде /9/ споделиха начин за привличане на внимание на мъж, за което им благодаря, но пък според коментара на /3/ методът на /4/ може да се окаже греда , тоест "нормален начин за общуване с приятел". Иначе се радвам, че повечето, освен /7/ спестяват на мъжете тичането и почерпките ако работата няма да стане. Така и мъжете имат време да се огледат за друго и жените си спестяват досадни лъжи ;) освен ако както отбелязва /10/ не е нарочно ;) С две думи до момента излиза, че жените не могат да свалят мъже, а ние още не можем да им четем мислите ... и слава богу ;) Иначе отказите , които споделят мъжете май са еднотипни. Обещах още за мен - спазвам го. Спомням си как абсурдно ме отряза или по-скоро ме накара да спра да я търся една мацка с която излизахме няколко пъти и уж работата вървеше добре. След 3-тата или 4-тата среща, не помня, поставям ребром въпроса за интимен контакт, а тя ми отвръща: - Не искам да задълбочавам връзката ни защото няма да има за какво да си говорим след това. - Ами последните няколко срещи нали си говорим - недоумявам аз. - Ами говорим си, но за да ме сваляш. Ако ме свалиш вече няма да се стараеш толкова. - Значи излизаш с мен само за да си говорим ? - Ами да. Не ти ли стига това, че те изслушвам ? И до там бяхме.

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coursebuffet answered · September 13, 2020

   The nasty behavior with which they cut me off is not going to meetings. You wait, you call - now. You wait again, you call again - he doesn't pick up. You leave and in an hour you receive an SMS, but why did you leave? !! Twice I stopped looking for her.

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pbr answered · September 14, 2020

   The author: (12) Oooh, nasty, not super nasty, I'm patiently waiting for women to share their methods of dumping, but either keep them a secret so as not to kidnap their men, or, more likely, just do NOT have them. that in the coaching company we were on the right track, which explains the many topics of dissatisfied or women who have sex not with the one they want. don't complain that you like men you don't like;)

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primping_aint_easy answered · September 14, 2020

   The classic: "I'll call you some other time." If he really wants to call you, he will specify "I will call you tomorrow, Friday, next week". If you hear "some other time" it means you don't hope.

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ksw8888 answered · September 14, 2020

   I'm a woman and I usually cut like this: "Hello, yes ... wait a minute ... here I am! How are you? Excuse me, but I'm crazy here, let me call you in an hour." Of course, I don't call. He calls. And then I calmly explain that I have a terribly busy week. Should the other one call you then? he asks. Okay - I say, I'll talk to you on Monday, I'll look to invent something. I don't pick up his phone at all on Monday. He keeps ringing and because I finally like it, I call him on Friday to apologize for catching me in the middle of business meetings and for being busy next week. In the meantime, I also mention that "my friend and I will be traveling in the countryside over the weekend." And so somewhere in two or three months the man gives up. Now you will say, "Why don't you cut him straight? Why don't you tell him: I don't like you, do not worry me? "Well, because I'm so old that I don't associate with teenagers, but with solid, laid-back men who never go forward with their horns. How do you say, 'You don't like me, dude?' "when a person calls with a dinner proposal because he wants to discuss something with me. Yes, but I know very well that this is not just a business meeting, it's about something else. Otherwise, to order him to come to work me, why should we go to pubs! So procrastination is a good tactic. and it is about something else. Otherwise, to order him to come to my work, why should we go to pubs! So procrastination is a good tactic. and it is about something else. Otherwise, to order him to come to my work, why should we go to pubs! So procrastination is a good tactic.

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blaquexxkeetit answered · September 15, 2020

   I am a man, but I will share the coolest dump from a woman. I do not remember the third or later meeting was, we talk common things and she at one point says "I never refuse sex." I flinch for a few seconds, but then I check to see if that's the case;) After a while I ask her "are you serious" and she "no, I just wanted to encourage you".

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jaroslawkuzniar answered · September 15, 2020

   Well, if they tell you at least why they're cutting, fine. It has happened to me to get down, to kiss one night, to part like boyfriends and after two days a complete, but complete ignore - as if nothing had happened. I ask her why, what I did wrong, I didn't do anything, there was a mistake in her, this should not happen. SHASH !! I myself, she herself, was neither rude nor insistent and she just deleted me from everywhere without explanation or reason. If that was all that was left, fine. See you later, me and another boyfriend. Call me in the evening - you played with me and then with another ?! Now what ??!

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angelaowens answered · September 15, 2020

   You can't understand these women. Some time ago I liked one, I invited her to dinner - she agreed immediately, it was cool and because I really liked it I didn't force things and just sent her off as a gentleman. A few days later I invited her again, but she refused and I said to myself - ok, as she wants. However, after two weeks he started writing to me and hanging out when I saw him, I was wondering what happened - he obviously doesn't like me and he refused me. Then a mutual friend told me what she had shared - she wanted me to fight for her. Emmy, good, I started flirting with her again and we went out again, but I finally kissed her in the end, but only there. After 2 days, however, we write to each other and she tells me that she did not want anything and there was someone else who she liked more. Emmy, I said to myself, wondering what was going on. After 1 week the same thing again - he writes, this and that and the conversation becomes more interesting and personal. I invite her again - we go out and it is obvious that she wants me to kiss her at the end, but this time I pretended to be interesting and just sent her to see if she would look for me if she wanted something more. That evening he wrote to see me again one day. Yes, but after a day it still wrote to me that she didn't like me so much and I burst out laughing, you can't understand that women: D: D I'm not trying to

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sharkyqueen answered · September 15, 2020

   The author: (14) - It's like in an old movie - Dad will buy me a bike another time;) Otherwise very rude, but at least you know. (15) - I very much doubt "settled men" to call you for 3 months. In general, the whole opinion seems fictional to me. (16) - the chick was very strong, but to say that you need courage. The writers here will hardly be inclined to say it because ... but what will he think of me;) (17) - I think she wanted you to fuck her - supposedly to be seen as an irresistible, irreplaceable, unearthly beauty, and you / how are you not ashamed;) / to find another one. That's what it's for;) (18) - classic;) Take me, treat me and I'll think;) And so - a kiss, dinner, a kiss, dinner ... and so on until you realize that he uses you for an ATM;) From me: It was a nasty cut with the one I met, he gave me a phone / called me / and told me - call. I called the next day - no one. I call in an hour, nobody. I send an SMS - who am I, call when you can - nothing. The next day she called and picked me up and started arguing that I was bothering her - I was crazy, but when she finished shouting (I hadn't hung up yet) I heard her say, "Done, she won't call YOU anymore". Apparently she had given it to some other phone, as if I had mistaken the number to lose me. Nasty, nasty. since then if someone doesn't pick me up 2-3 times and doesn't answer the SMS - I don't bother to call. Who cares to call;) but when she finished shouting (I hadn't hung up yet) I heard her say, "Done, she won't call YOU anymore." Apparently she had given it to some other phone, as if I had mistaken the number to lose me. Nasty, nasty. since then if someone doesn't pick me up 2-3 times and doesn't answer the SMS - I don't bother to call. Who cares to call;) but when she finished shouting (I hadn't hung up yet) I heard her say, "Done, she won't call YOU anymore." Apparently she had given it to some other phone, as if I had mistaken the number to lose me. Nasty, nasty. since then if someone doesn't pick me up 2-3 times and doesn't answer the SMS - I don't bother to call. Who cares to call;)

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xanchovies answered · September 16, 2020

   I've often been told, "You don't know how to ask." It follows from the topic that they themselves do not know how, but on the other hand they find flaws in us that we do not know how. Abe's a woman's job

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modesty20 answered · September 16, 2020

   The author: (20) Bash! I don't know how, but it's not like that;) And in another topic they are wondering whether to choose a handsome man or a hard worker.