Hello, I am a first year student (I left 1 year earlier) and I am 18 years old. I live with my grandparents, I keep in touch with my father who after parting with my mother settled with his girlfriend in the next neighborhood, after which a child was born - my sister ... The story with my mother is more ... difficult ... after they broke up with my father, she met another man in Italy, where both of my brothers are from, I haven't seen or heard from them for about 10 years ... Later my mother became entangled with some Russian sects that took her money and as far as I know - destroyed her mentally with pills and systematic religious fanaticism ... I shared my family history because I think it has to do with the real problem I'm writing about - anxiety ... In principle, I'm very quiet and meek person,
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You have had a very nasty childhood and it can't help but affect you. I'm glad you found the strength to stand up and move on. don't bother with a tray that you didn't have a serious girlfriend. I know this is bothering you, but you will see that you will squeeze one very soon and you will see that it was worth the wait. i also got my first kiss late maybe 17-18 years old but it was great really. received at a party. so you yourself said that you are not closed, go to some party with friends (why not on New Year's Eve) there will always be a girl you do not know and if you like it, go. download. I don't know if she helped you, don't despair. You have experienced so many things, so this will ruin you :)) wish you much success and write if there is progress
Don't worry, dude. Now you will have many opportunities and you will find a girlfriend. I was like you too. Especially before I became a student. And I went to school earlier (maybe that has an impact, I don't know). I've been in Sofia for 5 years now - this also had an impact, of course. However, I will allow myself to give you one piece of advice - when you catch a boyfriend, try not to sink in too much, because then, if things don't work out, it hurts terribly. And this happens because we have no experience and we have longed for such a person ... and when he comes we give ourselves completely to him. So keep one thing in mind :)
Look, let me tell you, everything doesn't work out in time. Maybe you are closed in on yourself because of your family problems. Do not give up. EVERYTHING IN LIFE HAPPENS WITH A SPECIFIC REASON, AND THIS REASON IS ALWAYS FOR THE GOOD.
Very kind words, thank you ... I know that everything comes with its time, with someone early, with someone later ... I even remember - when I was 14-15, my father joked every time we saw each other - "Come on, don't you like a girl from your teacher, don't you have a boyfriend anymore, ehh I'm your age" - for example ... And precisely because of this thought - everything comes with time, just for her sake so far no I've put so much effort into looking for a boyfriend, to take off, etc ... It was about parties - maybe some of you know how nice it is and at the same time what a pain it is to live with grandparents of thinking, eternal misunderstanding and attempts to protect me from the things that the modern teenager needs) ... To be honest, I have not shared with anyone - my first disco was before my 18th birthday - we were at a sports camp ...The second time, of course, at the ball (it seems ridiculous to me personally) ... That's why I allowed myself to bother you with family history, because I'm sure that if I lived with my much more broad-minded mother and father - things would are a completely different cell!
I am №3 See from you it has become and will become a person. Don't take offense, but from what I read I understood that your parents are more or less judged by you. Grow up slowly. The girls (and I'm a girl) usually look at some pickles until a certain period, then comes another time when we look for more serious and relaxed boys with whom we can enter real life without fear - and you are just like that. Usually, or in most cases, the children raised by grandparents or some other relative perish. There are passengers for each train. But when you find a girlfriend / and I wish you this with all my heart / Do not be very trusting, but also dubious, try to impose yourself on her so that she depends on you and not you on her. GOOD LUCK.
In which city do you study? I'm a student too. If we study in the same city, I will take you with me. I don't think the 12-year-olds have achieved anything. You must be targeting the girls. Bate, I don't want to take one that started at 12-13 and has more numbers than the sum of the faculty numbers of my colleagues;)
Look buddy - maybe that's the problem - we girls are waiting for someone to talk to us, to flirt with us, I personally go with 9th graders, I don't mind, even though I'm in 7th grade !!! I have kissed, pressed, etc. millions of times. Just relax.
The fact that 12-13 year olds had sex should not be a problem for you. I have girlfriends who look much, much bigger. Some started at 11, others at 12 ... Now they are not happy. So take your time! The important thing is when you find it to feel happy. Maybe I'm not the person to tell you about these things, since I'm 14, but when I was 10 my friends laughed at me for not kissing a boy. Okay. It was naughty, but now that they're doing pregnancy tests, I'm sure there's no risk of looking for a test at the pharmacy tomorrow because "it's better without a condom" - This is a statement from a 12-year-old student from our teacher. You don't care at all! Be yourself and sooner or later, but in time you will find your princess (: Good luck!
To tell you the truth, I'm 14 and I haven't had a boyfriend even once, but that dampens our self-esteem a little.
If you only want a kiss, listen to No. 1, that you can get fucking, that's exactly the problem for me, I can't find such parties and parties: S
Hi, I think realizing where your problem is coming from is progress, I know how hard it is to be confident especially if you have even crazier friends. And don't compare yourself at all with 12.13 years old slimy stories who wonder what to do all day. You have lived a lot and you have outgrown your age, look ahead. If you want to talk, write on Skype. 18 years of VP