Well, I don't know how to start, except that I was 13 and he was 28. I was still a child, but I loved him with all my heart and I really wanted to be together forever, someone would think I was with the child thinking, but it is not so. I was with him for 2 and a half years and just when I thought that nothing would separate us, his colleague appeared ... and when he didn't want to wait for me to finish school, because the company he worked for was next to my school, and he left after his colleague, who when she saw me and raised her nose, only then did I realize that it was all over, but to this day I still have feelings for him. Please tell me what to do, I'm 18 years old, I love my new boyfriend but I'm still thinking about the first man in my life and I don't know how to get him out of my head.
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God, I still can't understand how men of that age have sex with children ??!?!?
You have loved him for 5 years and you haven't stopped thinking about him ... Do you think you will stop now? Don't try to forget it and get it out of your head. If I were you, I would fight to be with him again. Sometimes the first love remains the only one.
You will forget it, you are still young ... Time heals. You don't need this one. In 10 years she won't look like anything, and you will be beautiful.
Number 1 .. was the other day they sent one to prison. SANS why not read these topics here not only in frognews. To take this one home. I.
Girl, in years to come, when you become a mother and if you have a daughter, you will understand what I am writing to you now. I can't understand how a 28-year-old man will start a relationship with a child of 13. You were a child, and he ???? !!!! I am shocked and outraged. Where were your mother and father?
As hard as it is for you, you will have to forget about this person. If he listened to your love, he wouldn't do that to you. Hurting a child's feelings is cruel. And you obviously really loved him, but in the end he's not the last man on the planet.
Why do you blame her! It's as if I'm reading my story, years ago, and I was 13 and the person next to me was 27. We both loved each other just as it says in the lines above. Then an acquaintance appeared and stole it from me, I fought for it, but I didn't get it. And a little info - we never had sex, because he knew the consequences, and my mother and father did not know about him at all, so .....! And now to the author. If you really still love him, join his new girl and so you will gradually become closer to him and the flame can ignite. But if you think it won't work, just leave it and live your life with your new friend!
To clarify something we have not had sex for these 2 and a half years because he thought I was too young and my mother and father did not know about it so they have nothing in common ... I am to blame for everything (by the author ).
What is the connection of 13? I can not believe. At 13 you should be excited about other things, there is time for love, you will be busy all your life, but at 13 the priorities should be different! School, music, friends, parents, first love in the nightmare ..... But not a relationship with an uncle, sex, etc. But I don't blame you children, we adults are to blame for everything. It's a question of upbringing, and in some families there is no such thing at all - complete self-sufficiency !!! And here is the result. What child will raise this girl in turn one day? Answer me, I would be most happy for the author to answer me!
I would hardly allow my child to do such a thing and I really do not like your comment because my parents are very decent people and I am 100% happy with them and my child no matter what it is I would raise him the way they are I was brought up, the fact that I was stupid does not mean that my parents are guilty and to clarify one more thing I DIDN'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM !!!
He betrayed you, forgot him and focused your thoughts on your new friend.
On the other hand, I think you have idealized it in your childhood consciousness and you have become obsessed. But if you have the opportunity to spend 6 1 month with him, you will not tolerate it and you will be disappointed. Keep going, these are your best years!
from the author: Despite everything that happened, I'm already 20 and I live with him and I'm calm we forgave everything and now we are together and to number 12 - I endured it for more than a month and to tell you I have no problems :). thanks to everyone who gave an opinion :)
EVEN SOMETIMES I'M AFRAID TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT I'M "HAPPY", IT'S ... I'M UNHAPPY WHEN IT'S NOT EXISTING, BUT I'M TRYING TO SIGN UP IN SOME WAY BECAUSE RATH. I THOUGHT THAT THE DIFFERENCE AGE DIDN'T MATTER .... BUT I WAS WRONG, THEN IT TURNED HUGE MEANING ... SO YOU TRY TO FORGET THIS, BECAUSE OF YOU ... SOMEONE ELSE APPEARED ... AND SO YOUR AGE WILL PASS IN NERVES, FORGIVENESS AND PITY ... YOUR PRINCE IS WAITING FOR YOU SOMEWHERE ... LOOK FOR HIM! SUCCESS! IF YOU FORGIVE HIM NOW, HE WILL DO IT AGAIN ... THEN SOMEONE ELSE WILL APPEAR ... AND SO YOUR AGE WILL PASS IN NERVES, FORGIVENESS AND PITY ... YOUR CHILD! SUCCESS! IF YOU FORGIVE HIM NOW, HE WILL DO IT AGAIN ... THEN SOMEONE ELSE WILL APPEAR ... AND SO YOUR YEARS WILL PASS IN NERVES, FORGIVENESS AND PITY ... YOUR CHILD! SUCCESS!