Hello, for a year and a half since I've been with her, I haven't cheated. I'm just not that kind of person. I want to have a girl with whom I can be alone, just like she is with me. But I realized that she did it twice. We broke up. It is very heavy, almost unbearable. I do not intend to meet again. But still, out of curiosity, is it possible that he loves me and while he tells me how much he loves me to have sex with another She's just a simple whore? I satisfy her. Every time he says how good it is and how he thinks all day how good it was. Or maybe that's why she lied to me? I just can't understand the female psyche. Women, please explain to me, because after this case I don't know how to believe the next one .... :(
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I will tell you only two words: Forget her! She doesn't deserve ..
Rather, she is good with you when she is with you, she is good with the other when she is with him. But to limit yourself to one man - you want too much from a woman. If you ask me (no, I'm not a woman and better yet, I'm sorry) she knows what's very good about you, and if she does, stay away from her. Otherwise, know that no two people are the same and don't let a woman's whore predispose you not to trust anyone. Give it a little more optimism, time heals.
Fuck her! Let him fuck another! The difference between you and her is that she knows her interests and has fun! She knows that whoever fucks you just wink at you and you're with her! Why are you having fun with her. There are so many good and serious girls. There is a difference between a lie and a lie. Infidelity is not forgiven. If he cheats once, he will do it a second and third time. No matter how much you forgive, it doesn't make sense! Nooo the choice is yours, if you want to continue to be a toy for sex :) Or worse - a clown - a lizard forever! The choice is yours! Success!
no female answers :(?
Hi, I'm a girl :) I think if she does that to you, she probably doesn't really love you! Drop it and move on! She doesn't deserve you! When a person LOVES, he is FAITHFUL!
Here's a female answer :) There are really good and serious girls, so don't waste your time with this one and don't let her entangle you in her nets again. Don't forgive her in any case, what she did is not forgiven. She's a whore and she certainly doesn't love you! It's hard to believe again, but there are faithful girls (no matter how few they are nowadays) so keep quiet :)
My story sounds more like a girl sharing a boy, not the other way around. Men are the ones who cheat more, but if she acts like that, then she doesn't love you
Thank you for the answers. I just wanted to hear if there could be any explanation from a woman's point of view. All I wanted was a girl who understood that if we were together, then we were just the two of us. I'm tired of such "modern" girls. They watch sex and the city and this is their understanding of a girl who has taken her life into her own hands. OK not to stay with men who lie to them, trample them, etc. - I understand, to be free to have sex as much as with whom / who they want, but as they are free souls to stay free and not to lose years of life of people. N7, I'm a boy. To know that it would be normal for a girl to say that ... what to do :(. I understand girls when they say that all men are the same. We did it ourselves.
What does having sex with someone else have to do with loving you? She may love you very much. It's a big deal that she fucked someone, don't take it to heart.
It's a big deal for me :(. It's enough to just imagine the picture and my heart breaks. Besides, they had something a little more than one fuck.
Don't think about her anymore. Not worthy. 9, you are obviously a professional whore. You write yourself "MAYBE ..." and "GREAT WORK ..." It's great and how.
thank you 11 :) you are a dude. I stop thinking about her completely. I hope everything goes away quickly. But it's pretty hard because people around me just say "fuck that whore" and I have no one to share it with. Thanks to everyone who gave me answers.
She did it twice - what do you mean with two men or just two sessions. If she is with two men, then there are two options: 1. The sex you had was unsatisfactory for her - not necessarily because of you, it is possible that you just did not fit in, and she did not want to tease you, so has decided to try another. 2. She just likes to have sex with other men. In any case, there is nothing you can do. Next time, I want you to have a relationship with a woman who, if she doesn't feel comfortable in bed with you or something, doesn't manage to share it with you and find the right solution for you.
To the author of the story. I'm from the next story, to which you answered me as number 3. My opinion is the following ... As a rule, women find it difficult to separate sex and feelings. Not that there aren't any, but I think your relationship has been too short for you to get sexually bored and seek only physical pleasure. I don't think she loves you, I'm sorry ... And sooner or later she would dump you when she found a suitable one. Try to recover. It always helps me to meet a lot of people and a lot of women. Become a tailor if you can, but don't get depressed. And among the many, you increase your chances of finding the right one. This is my opinion. Thumbs up and good luck.
Thanks again for the answers. Sex was 6. In this regard, there is no problem for sure. After long conversations, it is clear that the problem was in my behavior (which I find more than nice but it does not matter). Thanks for the wish 14 :). hope to get it next time. 15, dude we'll be fine somehow. I can be a countman, but I'm not happy :(. It will take some time and I'll be OK, I promise! Thank you all. 15, how are you doing (you can write to [email protected]).
Hi, I'm a woman. My husband and I have been married for 8 years. We have been separated for more than half the time. My studies in a foreign city, his work abroad, I also worked abroad. Sections longer than 7-8 months, no Skype available. I have not cheated once. I don't have complexes about my appearance, so that wouldn't be a problem if I decided to cheat. It is important what signals we send to the opposite sex. I have met many interesting and successful men. But I have my limits. I do not expect "well done" from you or other participants in the forum. I'm just telling you - there are all kinds of people. There are women around me who cheat and those who don't. A matter of understandings and values. But those who do do not have the habit of giving it up. Good luck, don't judge hastily the next time after a bitter experience.
HELLO! I AM IN YOUR SITUATION, BUT TO HONESTLY TELL YOU, I THOUGHT THAT THE BETRAYALS ARE 2, AND THEY TURNED OUT MUCH MORE. I WANT TO DUMP IT, BUT IT'S VERY DIFFICULT FOR ME AND YOU FEEL LIKE ME AND I KNOW WHAT IT IS TO YOU. WHAT DO YOU THINK? I HAT VERY MUCH, EVEN NOW I HAVE SEX WITH HIM AND AFTER THAT I CRYED, IMAGINE HOW SORRY I WAS THAT HE DID SO !! BUT TO HONESTLY TELL YOU I WILL CHARGE IT!
Hello, Author, I want to tell you my point of view in the shortest possible way..I am sure that there will be a lot of negatives in my address ..but I don't care .. I went with my boy for 3 years ..by I cheated on him as much as my soul wanted .. a meaning such that the one I didn't want was not mine .. at one point when he got tired .. he dumped me .. Not that I didn't love him .. even sex it was perfect for us .. it just drove me inside .. Over the years I may not have realized how much I care about this person .. but now 1 year after we are separated .... the pain I feel kills me .... and the fact that he never once followed my example torments me even more ..that's my thought ..let go of his girlfriend .. if he loves you ..believe your separation will not be for long .. And yet ..if I was on the place of a decent boy,I would never mess with one .. just because people have not said in vain ..the wolf changes his fur ..but temperament never Good luck
Drop it! You have nothing to feel sorry for him! Did he feel sorry for cheating on you? Take care of yourself, one life is not 100 for you to waste with this loser! :)
From the author: Number 17: Thank you. I believe that one day there will be a person like us next to me and I will find this whole story funny. Number 18 ... sweaters huh? I only know about 2 for now, but it could turn out to be 20. I don't think I'm digging any further in this regard. Even if he really doesn't want anyone else anymore ... it won't be the same anymore. I think it's right for you to forget about your relationship. I know how sad and nasty you are. As a girl, I guess you also have girlfriends with whom you can find solace after you dump (and he deserves it) ... it's a little worse for me because my friends usually say "you were asleep, why are you messing with a whore" and when you're alone it's naughty ... I'm glad you have this site and all of you. It may seem super silly because I'm not generally a person who shares my problems, but I was very relieved after I talked to you. It still weighs on me, but it's not so bad anymore. People like the girl who cheated on me and your boyfriend cheating on you have to get together. There to lie and hate each other, not to involve decent people in their lower forms of relationship. Number 19: I hope it will be easier for you soon and you will find a person who will make you start a real relationship.
I'm a girl. Well done to the same answers, proving once again that our men (and women? !!!) are conservative. If the topic was that a man had cheated, what would the girls say? Would they lynch him in public like this woman. This is what I call the infantility of feelings. Isn't she human, no urges. Infidelity is the test of the relationship, you claim that you love her, will you prove it by abandoning her .. When I cheated on my friend was in my thoughts and I love him even more. This is the engine of my love. Don't forget the thought from the bible - who has no sin (we even talk in his mind), let him be the first to throw a stone ... To the remark about "girls who watch sex and the city" -no
About 22. We are all wrong. There is no sin only in God. So it says in the Bible - who has no sin to be the first to throw a stone at the harlot. No one threw, but what did the Lord say to her - never do it again. The author here knows about two ...
Um, I know about two. 22, I agree that this can strengthen her love, but I do not agree that this is how my life should go. I can forgive once it has been checked - OK, but it is repeated. I don't want to be with a girl who will be "checked" in a few months. I hope you understand me.
Hmm ... women: D, they were not created to be understood. They cannot understand themselves. I have just witnessed paradoxical and absurd judgments so often ... "I love you, no one has treated me better ... we will part ...". or "He gives me everything, I'm fine with him and I know I'll be fine. I want him ... but something draws me to others (some oligophrenic, between the two there is no basis for comparison with superiority for the first) ... will he leaves it. " Don't try to explain things to yourself - it means to go back and one does not live in the past but in the present with hope for the future :) Walk on ...