Is it normal for a boy in the 21st century to be a virgin at the age of 20, you will ask. Well, I'm cool, I have friends, I go out all the time, but I've always been somehow more modest and shy. I've had boyfriends, but I've never had sex. I want to go straight from a building. You will tell me that it is not normal not to have sex, but alas, I sometimes think that I am dreaming. After 3 months I turn 20 and if I haven't had sex by then I go to a prostitute but hell I don't want her to be with someone for the first time who doesn't care about anything. What would you advise me to go to a professional or wait to meet a decent girl because I have the feeling that nowadays there are not many.
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Well, you! No prostitutes! I'm a virgin at 21, I'm waiting for someone decent, as you say, and I haven't given up yet. This is not something to be ashamed of. You will find some poisoned babe, WHO WILL SEEM HELLY SWEET AND HAPPY TO BE YOUR FIRST! Trust me!!!
Number 1 is right, it doesn't have to be poisoned, the first time it will be super cool, I have a girlfriend of 22 she is also a virgin, I know and boys your age are like you, don't worry about that at all, but about prostitutes It's stupid, what kind of memory will you have of a woman whose profession is to have sex ... enough.
I know a girl, very cute, she caught a boyfriend and she was very happy that he is also a virgin, she sounds a little childish, but she was happy because they will be first to each other, but as if he was almost waiting for her, she was flattered !!
No problem!!! Rest assured that the first time you will remember it forever. You will feel much older if the first time you are with a girl you have feelings for, not just a desire for sex.
Don't worry at all. I met my boyfriend when we were 20 years old, shortly after he told me that he is a virgin and we have a very wonderful relationship and a wonderful relationship.
Haha aren't you gay ?? Just kidding! Abe doesn't go to prostitutes, you say you have a girlfriend, do it with her :)
Haha yours is nothing I in a few months I make 23 and I have the same problem. Every year I tell myself the next year I hope something happens but it still doesn't work out. I've considered the option with a prostitute but it's not worth it. The first time is special and is remembered for a lifetime. Honestly, I also need advice from the people on the page.
And what kind of person are you, go to a prostitute very clearly, many boys do that. Take it easy and everyone who supports him, I'm a girl and I don't think that's normal. What are these romantic stories, sex is sex, love is love, a moment will come and you will do it with a girl who loves you, but now go tomorrow to find out why people say that there is nothing better than pussy and steam.
Dude, there's no problem with that. I'm 23 and a virgin and I don't care a gram. This is nonsense imposed by society. Try to make money and be happy, this is more important in life.
Abe, it's normal, no ... Well, when I look at them and listen to them, they're 20 years old, and they haven't seen a woman ... Now these computers have drained your brains ... It's commendable with you again that you feel, there is hope that you can find a girlfriend too ... But, know that there are people like you who have so many complexes that they can't even think about the check. Many have become simply dependent on many things. There is nothing good about you, it is good that you have felt. Take action and you will find a babe. Good luck.
Dude, what do you care? You will grow up and see that this is not a big deal in life. At the moment, you are simply influenced by the views of some of your friends there. Try to make money and every day will be Christmas.
23 year old virgin. It's nice to make money, but not everything is money, in my opinion. It's easy to be on the sidelines and have sex talking like that, but put her in our place at 22 or 23 and be a virgin and that will ruin you. Let people talk and you stand in the corner and watch and pretend to be crazy. Or when they ask you to lie. I don't think we need to delve so deeply into the problem, and I think everything will fall into place. The more you look for something, the more you don't find it. Things happen unexpectedly when you have the slightest suspicion that they can happen
You go to a whore and you don't care. First time bang bang.
I think you wanted to stay a virgin because you didn't meet the right girl for you. Being a romantic is normal. It's a wonderful feeling to be with a loved one for the first time.
Hi ace alone at 18 and I was scared that I haven't done it yet. One day I came back from work and my friends and I got drunk and I was inspired to go to an office as a prostitute. I gave 70 leva for half an hour, but I learned so much. Go to a prostitute gather strength, you will learn a lot :)
Hello !!! Regarding your question, I would personally advise you not to be with a prostitute for the first time. You don't care that you're 20 and haven't done it yet! It would be better if it was your first time with a girl you really like! Good luck, take your time!
Abe, man, go to the whore and this was the first time there was a special thunder and dance. Get a whore to shake her to feel like a MAN to forget once and for all this "virgin" no girl likes virgin traffic jams checkers. And you, as a "virgin", will stay that way if you don't start fucking, even for money.
A simple person from №18, not in the whole site ...
№19 you are a woman right ??? Just remember that men and women think differently and just because I think that way doesn't mean I'm simple. If you were a virgin, I would never tell you to go to the gigolo, but understand that it is completely different for boys, there are just individuals who do not understand it and wait and wait until one day they realize that they are old bachelors of 40 and no one will want them.
№20 Yes, I am a woman ...! But what good is it to go and fuck a whore. Personally, I had a friend who did the same thing, a month later he met the right girl and he was very sorry that he did this simple way. Don't you think the best way is to wait for the right person. And he is only 20, he is still young and it is too early for him to go tossing and turning. When he turns 30, that's another thing.
Throw yourself ...
I just hope you don't bother to read comment number 22 !!!!! Let alone listen to him! I am 20 years old and as a girl I can really confirm how difficult it is to find a decent girl nowadays! You don't have to feel depressed because you're 21 and your special moment hasn't come. Most often, the worries of people like you arise from the stories of "friends", but if you ask them for the first time, the answers will be like "I was drunk", "I do not remember anything", it was one-time, and most likely they have never seen the chick in question ... Personally, I find it sweet that in this 21st century, there are still guys like you (extremely valuable rarity) who have still kept your thinking and ATTITUDE to sex . It doesn't matter to me who I sleep with and it was my first time with a person special to me. Everything comes with its time, everyone comes individually, but even the banal one sounds - it really comes at the moment when you least expect it, which is the sweetest :) I wish you luck, end of your thoughts and worries and yes you find a conscientious, good girl :) I will be glad to hear from you soon :) Greetings :)
I am 21 years old and I am also a virgin. I'm not ugly fat or somewhat unpleasant, in fact I don't know why I'm still a virgin .... I've had the opportunity to do it ... I've also thought about a prostitute .... I don't know what to do or not to I'm waiting for the right one or the next salary to go to someone for BGN 100 and we'll finish. But whether we will finish is a fucking FFS question! I am afraid that in the future I will not see anything more in a woman than the next hundred I give, or coffee and dinner that I drink .........
and I'm the same at 21 virgin ... I've had many options, but I can't go to bed with the first rag I saw. I'm just wondering when I find the right person to tell him I'm a virgin ??
I completely agree with №1, there is nothing shameful in being a virgin ... nowadays such people are rare ... now 13-year-olds are professional whores. If you are waiting for the person who will care about you and your pleasure, and you didn't do it with the first person you met, so you respect yourself ... Thank you !!!!
You just don't have to worry, it's perfectly normal not to have sex yet after you're 20 .. you just haven't met the right girl yet. And don't think you have to have sex at any cost, even if you're a little late, which shouldn't bother you at all, don't think that after you do it you will be something different - there is no such thing, you will be absolutely the same person with the difference that you already know that you are not a virgin. where to hurry. I would recommend you to wait for the right girl and then keep a good memory, not like with a fictional whore .. Good luck !!!
you are gay
To all who are in this situation - DO NOT LISTEN TO WOMEN WHAT THEY ARE TELLING YOU !! , they are not in class at all :))) First - if you ask yourself such a question then it bothers you and just ignore it, overcome it will not happen, no, unless you make a huge mental effort to turn your psyche, which is also a bad option except that it is not guaranteed and very difficult :))) If the fact that you did not _go_ harass you - there is no escape :)) Second - except for the so-called. everyone wants a romantic relationship and something primitive purely sexual, eh? :))) or even more primitive, he just wants some female :))) a little experiment something :))) Third - there is no such thing as "the amazing first time", this is nonsense. Just more special is the 'first time' with a particular girl, not in general. When you are with a boyfriend, he has his first time, right:
Hello, I am 22 and I am a virgin and my problem is as if in my self-esteem I still think that nowadays women have great pretensions to men, especially in Bulgaria, I say this because I have friends who have lost their virginity abroad and have caught boyfriends from there to our country the main driving force is money and great self-confidence ... nobody likes good and modest boys.
I am also of the opinion that the views of women on this topic should not be taken into account. How can a person who has never been in the same situation help you? It's a bit like believing that someone can teach you to swim without him ever jumping deep! It's easy for women, if it's going to be a fat troll, she's going to put on some sexy clothes, she's going to turn her ass in a pub and there's always someone who wants to brush her up, it's true, it won't be Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp, but it's still something. There is nothing wrong with going to a prostitute, if necessary several times, just use protective equipment. You will both see that sex is nothing special, and you will get rid of this shyness and insecurity. As all predators sniff fear, so all skirts sniff a man's narrowing and insecurity. Just say to yourself inwardly, "Great job,
My first time was with a pretty-looking girl, and to be honest, I didn't like it, even though I wanted it a lot. I can even say that I have made sweet checks 10 times. Indeed, these films play a major role in building this fictional "romance." Give it to a prostitute and don't care a fuck doesn't make you a man.
I was in the same situation. Yes. Number 1 explained to me what are these poisoned babes who find it sweet and nice to sleep with some like the author and others in a similar situation? That, unfortunately, they will not do it. Of course, number 2 supports her. She knew various boys who were also virgins. Number 2, if you knew what was wrong with these guys from the inside, but they won't share, and even if they do it in front of a girl, they will get idiotic advice. Number 15, are you okay? Sam had wanted to be a virgin - another time. It's one thing to be aware of yourself and know what you want ... it's another to sit on various sites and seek approval or advice on the case. If someone really wanted to wait for the right one, he would not sit here looking for anyone's approval. And 21 and 23 and 27 and I don't know yet which abe what you give stupid advice. I haven't wandered from listening to people like you for how many years ... as well as the others who will listen to you. Someone waited until the 22 right and went to give advice - the boys and they do so. As she herself is in such a situation - I do not know how many complexes and fears that prevent her from satisfying her natural needs. Number 23, no matter how super cute and sweet it may be for you to have such boys ... you will not go with such a boy, like most girls who say so. Because self-confidence and virginity are incompatible concepts. Those virgins over 20, if they had the self-confidence, would have found the right one a long time ago and had had fun. 29 and 31 - they give good advice. What is this thing Women to give advice on work that must be done Man. You need to be quite aware of things to give advice in such cases.
I am a com. 30 yes I agree with you com. 31 I think 4e so they should women do not know what is easy for them ...
I was 26 years old when I had sex for the first time, so there are more severe cases than yours :)
Author: Ihaa can not be after 2 years again there is activity on this topic :). Well, let me tell you then that I haven't had sex yet, but I don't care anymore, I had a girlfriend with whom we almost did it, but we didn't have a condom and I gave up because she slept with the whole neighborhood, so to speak :)) and I only wanted sex de but she after this situation went to spit there with one and so it happened that I stayed dry again but I do not regret it very much because it was such garbage that it makes no sense. to do something to improve my English to take the title of engineer :) etc. I am almost finishing technical I have 1 year left I have no exams to take I go to the beach with friends. From time to time I go when there is something and in general I am aylak. However, whom I deceive I lack a very feminine presence, I'm still a little drunk at the moment (for which I apologize I don't know what things I wrote above), I want to pour out my soul just like that without caring. I don't have an environment, somehow I have nowhere to find a decent girl, I always don't have as much sex as to have a girl, I'm tired of rams to get drunk somewhere and go to discos drunk, how to take down a chick like that. Abe and I are a mold, some stranger who just complains here, you probably think I'm super pathetic, not that I'm not like that, but damn stupid, I think I'm a smart boy. Smart smart how smart I am a simple engineer people have said. I am writing some nonsense and I apologize I will not read what I wrote above and when it is published in a sober head I will read it and I will regret it again. I think next year when I finish taking my bag and going abroad I know what good English I can do I have a good mother and father who will help me and and that is I do not know if I have balls for such a thing but why not here except my mother and father didn't hold me back for who knows what. Off off I'm going to finish my bed, go to bed and don't curse me too much, please, I'm super simple.
Hey, with these topics, I just want to serve you on a voluntary basis, so to speak, to end your suffering. He roars every second that he is a virgin, I feel sorry for you already, I'm not kidding. They have to open a unit at the Red Cross to save virgins, I will be the first volunteer to sign up.
comment 36 I am in almost the same position, I am graduating next year and I came to the conclusion that I will find decent women abroad, believe me, Bulgarian women are the most pretentious women in the world ... and even if we realize ourselves professionally, the time will come! :)
comment 32 just tell me where are you from? : D
comment 37 I wanted to say: D
TO THE AUTHOR: If you are a virgin, then you are lagging behind, ha and how many non-virgins there are who are lagging behind in mind instead of thinking about craziness, be complete, and there are many good men and women for sex in the world;) Nowadays being a virgin at 20 or over 20 is a shame, and before it was pride. Well, 12-year-old girls are normal, doing it for the first time, and no matter what the stranger's personal life is, I don't care. My advice is to dedicate yourself to your studies, your work, be independent, because it is more important to make a living for the next day, as there are millions of men and women in the world before sex, just click your fingers and ask for something to be yours. . And to get up at the age of 30, if it's for one entry, you will still find someone, but you better wait for the man, those who tell you to go to a prostitute have a perverted psyche like most men, you probably have a very pure soul. I don't know if that's what you decided, and it's good for you, you know, but think about it, your problem may be mental, there may be something in your past that makes you repel sex, I know . The fact that you have not had sex means that you have not met your partner, you have not met a person whom you can trust, to reveal yourself, to feel protected, falling in love with another song you will sing. FROM ME: Good luck :) when you fall in love you will sing another song. FROM ME: Good luck :) when you fall in love you will sing another song. FROM ME: Good luck :)
Man, if you're the way you describe yourself, it's really hard to have sex. If you want to have sex, you need to invest minimal feelings, such as love, and the most important thing is not to have low self-esteem and not to be ashamed. There is no sex with CPAM. And as for these nonsense with the first time-obsolete. And for the prostitute as you choose. Not bad: D; P
43. Love is different. wait for her: D
I'm a virgin at 23, and I can say that it doesn't affect my self-esteem much. I don't think of it as a vital necessity.
dude, feel sorry for yourself and go to a whore, otherwise you died a virgin :) who knows, you may become a woman after that :) greet your grandfather
Honestly, I see no reason to worry. I had sex for the first time when I was almost 21 and the woman I did it with then is now my wife and we have two children. It may seem old-fashioned to some, but in my mind since I was a child I imagined things this way and I'm glad that I was lucky to have it happen, not a relationship, a second relationship and bad memories, frustrations, etc.
so many women dream of being your first, and № 47 is right super cool is the one who is the first to marry you damn cool is at least that's what I want
I want to meet the guy who posted the topic, is it possible ???? :)
ok me, how did you know you were cool?
Number 49 is possible, but I'm not a virgin anymore and I'm 24 :). And I'm not sure that we can exchange any coordinates on this site.
See how many celebrities have lost their virginity only after 21 years. I was younger, most of my friends lost their virginity with prostitutes, not that there was anything wrong with that. But they had to pay. Literally. I wanted to wait for the right girl and she showed up when I was 25. " - so there is no need to worry, it is absolutely normal!