Hello, I'm 17, my boyfriend is 18. We've been together for a year and a half, we're having sex, we're experimenting, everything 6. He licks me without any problem, he even said it's very cool. But I hate to blow his whistle. Hem ashamed, but more disgusting. Hygiene doesn't make sense, I just won't feel good if I do. I still eat with that mouth, especially if he's done and then kisses me where he is ... or ... it doesn't sound good to me ... to know that once he licks me, I almost don't have to. whistle, but I just don't want to ... is that a problem, what should I do? I am asking for advice!
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I just didn't know if you gave him blowjobs or not? If not, try it, just like it, and if so, I think you will like it in time. I understand the shame, but not that you are disgusted by it. I don't think that when you love someone you may be disgusted by him / her, unless it is a matter of poor personal hygiene, and in your words your friend does not have such a problem. And think about it - he satisfies you and many women do not receive such caresses, but he himself will remain dissatisfied, which sucks. You have another option - stop with oral caresses on both sides to be even, unless he agrees to lick you without giving him blowjobs. That will be fair. But I think yours are inhibitions because you're new to these things (at least that's how it sounds to me). Maybe it's supreme when you give such pleasure to your partner. Black Sabbath
It's not a problem and I'm like that .. 17 years old, friend of one year, sex life everything exactly, but I don't want to give a blowjob. If yours didn't ask you, you have nothing to do. if you haven't talked about it and it eventually happened just explain to him how things are or in clear words that you just don't want to. I think these things are not for everyone: D Mine is angry with me once, twice for this, but a chick if you do not want, can not force you, and if he leaves you because of this nonsense - the picture is clear.
He was a girl with a condom!
For many people your age, this happens in the beginning, simply because they are not used to it and it doesn't make the same sense. But if they push in the beginning, over time they get used to it and even start to like it and wonder how they didn't like it. I'm not telling you to push either. It may be because you have a subconscious feeling that the boy is not your boy. At 17, I couldn't lick my girlfriend either, and I thought I loved her. Well, over time, I realized that I didn't really love her that much, so I had some reluctance to lick her. If you don't like it, don't do it, but don't ask him to do it to you. If he still wants to lick you, OK.
The monkey wanted to fuck the giraffe. He climbed the long neck to kiss her, then went down to fuck. Then climb again to kiss during the act and go down again to fuck. The monkey got tired and said to herself: "Where I knock, there I will kiss. It will be good for her and for me!"
I have the same problem. But I'm a little older. He tells me that for him in general sex is not the most important thing, but it satisfies me in any way .. I also can not relax to give him a blowjob and I wonder if if I really do not decide and do not try it will become a problem. Can any girl who did it say what it feels like? : D
What experiments, was it a girl? You don't want to give him a whistle, you're talking about experiments! What will happen when he leans his fingers in the anus and ejaculates in his mouth, huh? We are experimenting, everything 6, he shouts ...
If you love someone, if you accept them 100% physically, there are no forbidden and disgusting things. I love to blow my husband's whistles, but it wasn't like that with him before.
Finally to see a man with the same thoughts as mine! DON'T DO IT, it's just not your thing! With that mouth, as he said, we eat bread ... it sounds pretty disgusting to me. Does the boy make you do it? If it doesn't make you lucky! DON'T BREAK .. I don't like whistleblowers .. I'm with you,
Well, you're disgusted, but you don't mind him licking you ?! Not fair! I guess the taste of the female genitalia (I haven't tried it) is like the male ones, after all we are one of a kind! If you're not okay with oral sex, you should deny cunnilingus, not only fellatio, he also eats bread with that mouth, right? Your behavior is hypocritical and sexist. J. 46g.
In principle, I am against the notorious whistles. But I think about your case: "I still eat with that mouth, especially if he finishes and then kisses me where he is ... or ... it doesn't sound good to me ... to know that if he licks me too I almost don't have to give him a blowjob, but I just don't want to ... " and then you kiss. Because you're kissing, right? What kind of couple are you if you don't? I wanted to make sure that you looked carefully at both sides of the situation - both what you already allow and what you don't want to happen. :(
So you are disgusted by the whistle, and you do not say what experiments you are doing, that everything is 6. Obviously it is not 6, but 5 1/2 if the whistle is a problem. There is nothing disgusting about the whistle. Men like it and it's like music to my ears. And I'm not perverted when I think of some porn scenes under experiments. So it's better for a whistle and a man to lie down with a smile than to scold me, slap me and I don't know what else ...
Women who are disgusted by a man's penis are also disgusted by his body as a whole. Such people are not looking for friendship, they are only looking for their own pleasure, it is important for them to get their own. Remember that what is not obtained by one is obtained by another! A washed penis is no more disgusting than a mouth, there is no need to swallow semen, but if you show that you treat your friends without prejudice, such a friendship will be real, not hypocritical. BUT, these prejudices should be eliminated only in serious cohabitation, when you live permanently as a family. If you start whistling from the beginning, be sure that you will be a one-dayer, no man wants a whistleblower for the future mother of his children. Whistle only when you have chosen the man you are with and you want him to be the father of your children. The whistle is for gratitude and recognition to the body that fertilized you and made you happy! Good luck flutist!
Don't try to do it to him, other girls will gladly take your place, you will find another one and it will come to French again, you will be disgusted again, the new one will miss this extra and if he doesn't dump you, he will look for others or he will pay 20-30 each and will blow such whistles that his ears will tremble.
Very stupid of you anyway he licks you then you kiss him again, just do it and you will see that you will like F 32
And at first I thought I would be sick of whistling, but the person I tried with was very nice, understanding and with excellent hygiene. he didn't press me and everything was by mutual consent. In the end, I liked it and now I don't refuse to blow his whistle. And the nikpga didn't end in my mouth, not that I refused him, but he just didn't insist and we didn't get to that stage. My advice is to try even harder as soon as it is distributed for you, you may like it too.
Several people quarreled with the author on the issue of "experimentation" ... abe people, the girl is 17: D I'm very interested in you at this age what sexual feats you could boast of ... in words they are all very strong - it's not fingers in the ass, cum on the face and what not. I think it's normal at this age to worry. Just don't do it - beauty doesn't happen by force. Over time, you may change your attitude. Or you may not change it, but that's okay - everyone has preferences and everyone finds someone to match.
4. A blowjob with a condom?!? !!! WTF. It's like eating a lollipop with the packaging.
And I thought it disgusting before I did, so go ahead. Now I enjoy doing it G19
It is better for him not to start making them for him while you here are disgusted by your friend and pretend to be interesting ... !!!
If you don't do it, someone else will. I had a boyfriend who was considered very experienced and open to experiments, but no whistles. And he even insisted that I lick her. It all lasted until one morning after a party at a hut - they woke me up with a great whistle. But she was her best friend. Even before the morning coffee I was with a new boyfriend. And we have been living together for 7 years. He doesn't miss a weekend to wake me up with a whistle and a swallow. And the former was dumped n - number of times, and all because of the same thing.
Whistle, or you'll be easily replaced. I lost my girlfriend like that because I licked her 4 times a day.
I am a boy. Blowing his boyfriend was a girl ... Don't be afraid! My girlfriend does it whenever I want. If you are disgusted, let your friend maintain good hygiene for his naughty boy, and if necessary, first try a condom until you get used to it, even if it's like a lollipop with the package as number 4 says. If you are disgusted at first, you will get used to it! Think hard when your friend licks you and you're fine and he'll be ready to blow his whistle too. So you can experiment with different things and it will be good for you too ..! I even want to try with my girlfriend to make her insert and remove, say, a vibrator or dildo and my anus. I dream about it but we haven't bought a sex toy yet! If you refuse to do it to him, he can dump you and look for another one but if you do him with pleasure he will love you much more and you will have amazing sex !! As it will be good for him, it will be good for you .. !! I wish you success!
I am a boy. Blowing his boyfriend was a girl ... Don't be afraid! My girlfriend does it whenever I want. If you are disgusted, let your friend maintain good hygiene for his naughty boy, and if necessary, first try a condom until you get used to it, even if it's like a lollipop with the package as number 4 says. If you are disgusted at first, you will get used to it! Think hard when your friend licks you and you're fine and he'll be ready to blow his whistle too. So you can experiment with different things and it will be good for you too ..! I even want to try with my girlfriend to make her insert and remove, say, a vibrator or dildo and my anus. I dream about it but we haven't bought a sex toy yet! If you refuse to do it to him, he can dump you and look for another one but if you do him with pleasure he will love you much more and you will have amazing sex !! As it will be good for him, it will be good for you .. !! I wish you success!
Horror, are you people normal! Why go with your boyfriends! What whistles, what 5, these are children aged 17-18. What does it mean to give him a blowjob so as not to dump her, is that why he is with her, or because he has feelings for her, loves her, wants to be close, to share, to spend time together, where did the romance, the friendship go! You turned the relationship into a market - me to you, you to me, if you don't give me what I want - bye. This is so whore, with an apology. And we are talking about young people !!! For me, whistling and "licking" are a humiliation of the partner. I will not go into details why I think so, I would never do it, just so they don't dump me. I did whistles out of curiosity, well, I didn't like it and I don't think I should force myself to do it. There are passengers for each train,
I had a disgusting girlfriend too. Very refined, very refined, she hated to make me French. Otherwise, she didn't mind putting it in the back. There are strange women.
If I'm a man, I won't fuck a woman in the back if she hasn't had an enema. This is the slightest disrespect to the partner.
number 30, thank you !! At least someone to think like me !! Thanks! author
I am never forced to be licked ... And accordingly I will give a whistle to the one who decides to bury himself there and finish licking me!
I don't know, girls! I especially enjoy feeling it all inside me, tight and deep! I'm not dying to lick me, and he's not a big fan of whistles ... We got along well and it's very nice without oral love! I support n 30 and 35!
Author, I guess you've been having sex lately and you're still researching. I started at the age of 18, until the age of 21-22 I did not do oral to anyone. I had an experience that almost ended tragically, I would vomit at the thought (the crowd) that it sucks, not that his penis was dirty or tasted bad. At almost 22, I fell head over heels in love with a boy. I wanted to "eat" it :) Well, once I drank a glass of white wine (and I do not drink in general) and gave him such a whistle that only I finished with pleasure. The boy was also very clean, he smelled great and even his scent just excited me. It's the same with my current one. We hardly start sex without French, he to me and I to him. We both do it with great pleasure and desire. I just did it when I really wanted to, and I think the glass of wine then put the crowds to sleep, etc. Don't force yourself when you're uncomfortable,
Hi, I'm a 32 year old man. With a partner who was also 17 when we met. I was 1 year older. At your age she was the most ardent, she offered to give me her first blowjob, I hadn't hoped at all until then. From my current perspective, yes, I think it was small for that, well I turned out to be baked in time and we are together to this day :) First think about whether this is your man you really want to be with, or just fun for short. If it's just a passing thing, tell him to look after his work. If you really feel that he is the man, try to overcome your inhibitions. It is written to you by a man for whom whistling is one of the greatest pleasures in sex. It is unearthly. But only if man deserves it.
Your price is falling. And you risk losing it. It is very likely that you will become an old maid or a single mother. Today, all women do fellatio. Keep up with the times, be up to date, be wanted. Do your best to get everything. I believe he understood me. I know the subject is old, but I raise it to protect other girls from such psychosis.
Safe from such disgusting - how do you fall for exactly who you should not. And I'm married to someone like you. But I already have two children, so I have to put up with it. I wish him French with great desire, it is a pleasure for me, and he does not want to. No, he doesn't refuse directly - but he starts with such a tormented face that I stop him myself. Beauty cannot be forced. Do I have to explain that my hygiene is perfect, it's just that. My opinion is that if you love someone - you accept them anyway, there is no disgust. Obviously you don't love enough.
"I still eat with that mouth, especially if he's done and then kisses me where he is ... or ... it doesn't sound good to me ... to know that once he licks me, I almost don't have to. I blow my whistle, but I just don't want to ... "I don't think you've experienced enough excitement yet to take it for granted. And you want to blow his whistle on his own, not because you have to or are expected to. Do you cum during sex or while licking you?
So how is he going to lick you with his mouth, and you don't want to blow his whistle with yours, under the pretext that you ate with that mouth. Shouldn't he drive photosynthesis? Stupid kids ...
Male Male Male ... the whole world makes whistles you don't want ... A whistle is the best way to keep a man by your side. If you are not afraid to blow his whistle, he will find one to give it to him. Is that what you want? In the interest of the truth, I love to blow whistles and for me the porter's job ... is, to put it mildly, superfluous. Given that I finish it with a whistle many times, what is the point of fucking me? In fact, he brings me to a clitoral orgasm when he licks me and that's enough for me. The other is time consuming and not for everyone.
Author, doesn't your friend eat with his mouth, does he drive photosynthesis, what kind of plant is it? So you like to lick you, you also urinate with this organ, not to mention other fluids that leak from your vagina such as the cycle, for example. So the boy doesn't care if you like him and he wants to give you the most out of sex and you don't care. Well done, continue in the same spirit, stay with your selfish thinking to see where you will take her. Good luck!
The topic is old, but I was wondering if the author has changed her mind?