Well, I've been dating a girl for a while. She has a boyfriend but she told me a lot of bad things about him - he cheated on me, or he hurt her many times and he blames her for everything he did and so on. . :) I was looking for her every day to see you. I am a very polite, kind and sincere person who expresses his feelings from the heart directly and I do not say words that put someone to bed. Well, until recently we went out / we weren't together yet, because she wanted me to wait a while because they've been together for 2 years and he's the first person she had sex with to get rid of him / And, wait till I see where did i get to. It was very nice - we were walking, going out for coffee, watching the stars through the sunroof of my car - it was very romantic. Until one day he started pushing me away and avoiding seeing me.
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I think you should go to her and tell her that you are ready for anything and she can think (I at least would) SUCCESS !!
I'm in the same position as your girl right now. I have a friend with whom I have been for more than 4 years, he is my 1st and I don't know how to leave him. I also go out with another boy, but the thing is that I do everything for him, and he got tired of hiding and left me, I had to give me some time to leave my friend and so on. I can tell you that the situation is terrible, it is very tense and I just don't know. I thought day and night but there is no solution. When you want to please someone, you always suffer. I'm in this situation. Try to find a way to talk to her and tell her in plain text what you will do in the future. Explain without being hostile and try to understand her. This situation is really disgusting, I feel it on my back. GOOD LUCK.. !
Don't call her, man. Last year I was dumped by a girl who allegedly broke up with her boyfriend, but after elevation two months and helping her get through the naughty period when he had to leave, during which time he broke her nerves, according to her, she dumped me. He couldn't even tell me. I was very depressed and asked her to see me, but she had no money, then no money, and finally no connection to this number. If she wanted to be with you, this situation wouldn't have happened. Don't call, you'll just take off your hat! There are other women who would be real with you without using you as a trash can for their mental waste - let them break their heads and you don't get a headache. Believe me, it was the same with me. After all the good I did, I didn't even get a text message, but she was very depressed. I know it's hard! I had nightmares too, but over time it fades away! It's best to find another girl and not think of her! It's really naughty to use you like that - it hurts the most! Raise your head and you will see that what you will be appreciated by the woman for you, and this girl is not! Once she's done that, she just isn't and isn't worth looking for! Don't be humiliated! I heard the same words in my story! I was told that I was very good, and in the end it was as if I was nobody! And the one who was the bad one became number 1! Well, don't be fooled by stupid and disoriented people! and in the end it was as if I were nobody! And the one who was the bad one became number 1! Well, don't be fooled by stupid and disoriented people! and in the end it was as if I were nobody! And the one who was the bad one became number 1! Well, don't be fooled by stupid and disoriented people!
Drop it. She's changed her number, and you want her back. It was the same with me. I know this pain because I am the "abandoned bride". Read on and you will understand that it could have been worse. What if you had reached a wedding like me and you dumped 6 weeks before the wedding ??? As for waking up in the middle of the night, they are up to 2-3 months, but dreams about it will continue, I'm sure. Look boldly in front without her - ok. Everything will be fine. It took me 4 months, not that I don't think about him now - I used to cry and now I laugh.
If you suffocate her, then everything is clear. You better try to fix it!
6. CALL HER AND OFFER HER ONLY YOUR FRIENDSHIP. IF THINGS ARE AS THE ONE DESCRIBED TO YOU BEFORE, SOON SHE WILL SEEK YOU HERSELF TO SHARE AND THINGS CAN START AGAIN, AT LEAST. GOOD LUCK!!!
So look now, if she cared about you, she wouldn't go back to her ex if she really loved him and wanted to be with him, there's nothing you can do. Maybe she would forget to forget it, but if you help her and you're by her side, don't always call her and call her, don't make such mistakes. Otherwise I wish you success;)
Some time ago I was in the position of your girl. I understand that it is not easy for you, but you have to understand it as well. I couldn't break up with my friend for more than 6 months (and we were together for 3 years). However, a sunshine like you appeared - my dear gentleman and showed me that men can be different. Although I pushed him away for 6 months, he never gave up on me. I finally managed to break up forever with this monster-my ex. Understand that people like her friend, like my ex, are extreme manipulators. They always turn things around, their first goal is to ruin your self-esteem, to crush you, to always blame you and to make you believe that no one but them clings to you and will not be with you. And as long as you believe in all this, you are under their power. The boy I met changed all these things, he was so kind ... Reading what you wrote is like listening to it. You have no idea how strong he made me. So don't give up on your girl. Sometimes women are weak and confused and need someone like you to take the right path. I wish you success, be strong and do not give up.
Talk to her, explain how you feel if she doesn't understand it, so she's looking for another chick to be with. But let me tell you honestly, fight for it like you've never fought before. I am 17 women and I know what I'm talking about, listen to me, everything will fall into place !!!!! GOOD LUCK
I think you should go to her and tell her she's very dumb as she lets you go.
This happened to you a year ago and you must have forgotten already .. but it's like reading my story from a week ago .. the next time we were hugging in a cafe I just asked what we were going to do next .. and I got the sharp answer that we are just friends and nothing more can offer me .. What can I tell you - some people just do not appreciate what they miss.
And you impudent and mean people, why do you confuse the heads of girls or boys who have a relationship? And for those who have a relationship and look at the sides, I do not want to talk at all. There are many poor and unfit people in the world.
Hey, if you listen to me, make sure you don't think so much about her (which is quite difficult). :)
Hi, Nina, 17 years old. We, a conversation is always useful, even with already formed couples, the dialogue between the two is always important. In order not to regret that you did nothing and to think, talk to her, tell her how you feel and she will already decide what she feels for him, and you will understand what she thinks and you will decide everything. Good luck
Dati I say dump her, she will put you to sleep, she will bring you to such a state that you do not want to live without her and my story is very nasty with SOORRRIIIii
I don't think she deserves you and I should tell her