Hello, I have a great wife, we have been married for 9 years. In the beginning the sex was great, then came the children, a change of job, a lot of stress around everything and gradually we started to do it very rarely, and we didn't have much desire. Our marriage was in danger. In everything we have not stopped loving each other and sharing absolutely everything. She once told me that when a man flirts with her at work (her job requires her to meet a lot of people during the day), she feels good and aroused, but it's sad that it's not the case with me. Then I admitted that I have been thinking for a long time that we should try a threesome and now is the time. She was embarrassed at first, but a few days later she told me "why not". We both thought of a mutual friend who never hid that he liked her very much. We agreed that she would invite him for coffee. He came and again, in his style, began to toss at my wife. I told him he was so curious to fuck her now. He blocked, it came to him like thunder. However, my wife said she was curled up. So that afternoon we did our first threesome. She blew the two of us, then our friend stood behind her and pushed him to her back, we listed different options. Eventually I cummed inside her, and he emptied into her mouth. The next few days we had amazing sex, as if we had just met. We called our man a few more times and each time it was better. Last time she asked us to empty both of her and then into her mouth and swallow it. Now we are more than happy, we have amazing sex, and when we feel bored we use a joker "call a friend"! I recommend everyone who has problems with sex with their spouse to try something new, fresh, varied and shaking! In our case it was a threesome with another man!
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I don't know if you're making it up, but if you're together in 5 years, come and call me. If threesomes and the like start, this connection is already exhausted. The reasons are that sex (threesome) has become almost the only thing that connects you. And if you can secure good moments with other people, even in the presence of your wife, then why look for something familiar and boring. Soon your interest in each other will completely stop, the threesomes and they will bore you at some point, as the couple bored you. And then what do we do? Divorce or will you postpone the problems for a few more years with fours, fives, sadomasochism, dogs and the like? Your problem is elsewhere, and the threesome is burying your head in the sand in front of the real problem, which will sooner or later come back on the agenda after the thrill of the new experience has passed. Think a little and do not give such advice to people. Everyone has a head on their shoulders. Personally, I'm for threesomes, BUT only if everyone is single, otherwise this job is wrong.
Author .... and why not offer her a 3 with a "mutual friend" to see her reaction to yours ... and then share how she reacted as you said .... because to her and she's happy with two ... but she's not going to have fun fucking another in front of her ....!
I wonder how you didn't want to do a threesome with your wife and another woman. Sounds a little fictional to me. Otherwise, I want a threesome with two men. Stella 25
It's all very well, but have you thought about how things will develop in the long run? Do you think that your friend is just a "piece of meat" to fuck, that he doesn't have it or that he won't have any feelings? I think someone will be in a lot of pain in the end ...
He is fully aware that it is just sex, there can be no feelings!
I didn't ask for a threesome with another woman because I enjoy mine as she trembles with pleasure, and what's the problem with my wife liking to fuck her two?! .... regarding the first comment, you're somewhat right that the problem isn't is only in sex, but I will keep this for me. The fact is, however, that since we started with the threes, the thrill between us is there again!
Well, if you don't have enough, call your whole company. And this is written by a person who is married with children !!! And ask yours if she will be curled up if another woman appears instead of a man.
Admiration for the Author - this helped his marriage and diversified their sex life. As they like to do it - safe from idiots here on the site who either HAVE A WIFE FOR THEIR SUBJECT IS THEIR GOODS, and are jealous as, ... his wife also liked the 3rd as she gave in her mouth to finish the 2nd man. I admire such actions and I am For. If only more men could think like the author and do what they like and support their marriage, and not behave like owners of their wives. From: Male 31 years old, married
Man, whether the threesome was constructive will be known when the first family scandal comes, if then there are no attacks in this direction by either of you, then everything is fine, but if it starts - yes, but you are with him or yes I was like that, but you wanted it, things are not good. As for the other, you are not in his head, so you do not know what he thinks, just make sure that the contacts with him are not very frequent and happen only through you. If you allow women to communicate with him and arrange sex meetings, the job is lost.
Well done to you, if true! And I really want to try a threesome with my husband and someone else, but I don't know how she will react if I propose! Dilyana, 27
Stella: So his wife will be 100% against another woman. Right on the first kiss and you will hold on to your hair. And that guy who is your crutch at the moment will not fall in love in my opinion. I strongly doubt it. And it's good that you're enjoying your wife, but why don't you try something other than another? Dunno.. :)
Author you are absolutely right and I understand you! We have the same situation and we always resort to "joker", it's just that a woman becomes a real tigress when two men want her. So unthinkable to stop .... Enjoy the pleasure !!!! The threesome is a completely different thrill and we have a vibrator when there is no joker :))))
Dude, I totally understand you. We were in the same situation and have been living this way for seven years. We meet men, women and couples. The experience is great and I wish it to everyone. The scribblers here have no idea what fun it is to participate in an orgy with many couples, to enjoy the moment, the pleasure of your partner's ecstasy. And it is not true that it destroys the marriage, It is an incredible pleasure to live freely, to have something that you can not share with your partner, not to hide your thoughts and desires, not to wonder what he will think and what he will say .
Just to tell you that the percentage of open connections that last a long time tends to zero. Ie survivors are exceptions. From there, tell me how many hailstones you want. I believe in concrete data, not in those who want to cover up their infidelity problems, even if they are allowed.
Brother, I can't imagine anyone cracking my wife, let alone cracking her in front of me!
Why didn't you invite the child to watch and become literate. So, we live freely and do not hide our thoughts and desires. ?? Author, if your wife is having fun at 2 now, what will be able to satisfy her by hitting 50 years old? Maybe a pair of elephants? /. And then tell me that you take care of the health of the family.
Stella: Abe, how are you? For threesome, for swing, etc.
For 11 years now, my husband and I have been doing threesomes, mostly with other men. At first we were both worried about how this would affect our relationship, but we were always more relaxed and needed variety once every 2-3 months. Over time, we have seen that nothing bad has happened and that it only brings us closer and helps us live even happier. If a marriage has gone away, then nothing can save it, in my opinion, even at such a time, anything is more likely to prevent it. These things are not done to "save" marriages. F39
Abe, all of the above are right. People like it. They don't know how much to change the marriage and the relationship, because if you are willing to do it and drive along this line of relationships, without any prejudices, you will not have problems, but if you decide to return to the cozy couple, and your wife is already "accustomed" to your friends, I do not know what will happen.
Your constructive threesome did not save your marriage, but freed your instinct. your restraints have dropped, because it is now the same whether you will continue together or separately. And you know it, author! It's not bad, since you are both volunteers ..., but is it really worth it? !! Don't you miss the pure, even naive, if you want love for both of you? That little world of yours intimate? !! When you and your wife looked each other in the eyes with love, trust and ... you were not just enough, but everyone else would be a rude intrusion into your intimacy? !! Well, now that you don't mean that anymore, when you see yourself in a different way ... don't you still think that one day you will look for another opportunity to be loved ... only you? !! Only YOU should be needed / sufficient / desired, as well as the opposite! Probably my writings here for you are too old-fashioned ... naive. And all the same, if you could go back in time before the problem arose, after which you "save" your marriage in this way ... would you? Or would you prefer that?
Dilyana 27, offer it directly to your husband! He will want very clearly. My husband and I have amazing sex with other men and he really enjoys watching me fuck! Go boldly. And I can only give the author a positive assessment :) Sylvia, 34
If this story is true, I think the issue of hygiene in your country is quite lame.
We have been swingers for many years and know only one pair of swingers who are divorced. I can say that swing families are very close and calm. There are no secrets, jealousy unspoken desires. Our intimate world is only ours - love and connection between us, and sex - it is only sex, pleasure, momentary experience.
I think 27 wrote it very well, there is nothing to add. This is not a reproach to anyone, but a consideration of variations, for me personally the world is for two and if I can choose I will choose such a world. The question is, does the author have a choice at all? ... M, 35
My wife and I started threesomes about 10 years ago. I almost never had a strap when we fucked her with another man. It took her a long time to get used to the fact that I also like to be fucked. I imagined she would want us to try another woman, but she says she sucks to have sex with another woman. I personally think that he is afraid of going to the other shore permanently.
As long as you chew it on the man. He just wants to brag. Who told you that what you do in your beds is the most right and innocent? As long as they both love and agree, everything is ok.
I support the author. Why not try to diversify your monogamous relationship? Do those who lie and cheat do better? And what's the problem when they both agree? And I've been wanting to try a threesome or swing with my friend for a while. He's a little conservative, maybe he'll think it's not enough for me ... I don't know. But thank goodness to the liberated people with modern thinking!
I'm sure that everyone who speaks negatively on this topic has NOT tried something like this with their serious partner. I also read some more competent quotes (fortunately), the truth is that until one goes this way, there is no way to understand the thrill, the mutual pleasure, the trust, or even the positive change in a couple. There are many judges, but it would be good for those concerned to be a little more familiar with these practices before they are harsh and negative. And just for info - the statistics do not tend to separate most couples who practice this type of entertainment, you just want it to be so, because it sounds more logical ... F, 31, happily married / practicing this "sin" "with her husband /
Number 21, especially because of you, I took the trouble to look for information about such statistics. Guess what happened - your statement is complete nonsense! The divisions in people practicing threesomes or exchanging partners are the same percentage as in those who are completely monogamous. No difference! These are the results of 9 independent studies conducted in 4 different countries. Please do not write nonsense until you know what you are writing. Do not fantasize, there is a section for this purpose - "fictional stories". And another correction - an open relationship and people who make threesomes are two completely different things !!!
I wonder if this story will be criticized motivated by a person or people who made a threesome or a quartet, who with specific statements to indicate why he thinks that what they did is wrong.
H 37- you're wrong !!! 7 years marriage- 7 gog. orgies. Divorce! The reason - I fell in love! I wanted the man only for myself, (he didn't know the way my husband and I lived) I wanted him to LOVE me, to worry about the other's reactions, to get to know each other with thrill and worry - whether he would like it. To have secrets ... out of fear, not to disappoint the other. Let's try to guess what makes the other happy, what makes him smile .... You say, the other is just sex, a momentary experience. Exactly !!! Only this is already for you, only this was for me! Now I make LOVE! And it is not just a momentary experience, there is no place for another, it is all I need - 10 years! And I will never again allow ourselves to be so "liberated" that we have nothing to be surprised about!
41, who was suffering, said it completely faithfully, comprehensively and impartially. From there, whatever is said, everything is chaff. And just to ask the author if he thinks about what example he gives to his children, because if he thinks that they are grazing grass and do not feel, he is deeply mistaken. If he thinks it helps them have more fulfilling relationships, he's also wrong. I would say, by his example, he dooms them to a lot of suffering and ridicule now and in the future. In addition, health risks are serious with such a lifestyle. I just expressed an opinion, otherwise I don't care who is with whom ... and what price he pays. Everyone decides for themselves, but I think that these people are not aware of the price, which will always be paid in one form or another, and to be honest, I was annoyed that advice is given that would were detrimental to some.
From number 37: to number 41: maybe the problem in your marriage was more serious, the "orgies" were hardly the reason for it to fall apart. And as for falling in love - no one is ever insured / from the most conservative person to the most liberated one /. My husband and I continue to make love, with a lot of emotion, in all possible ways, when we are alone. Don't think that we do threesomes every day or every week - I'm talking about diversification once a month, or even less often. No expectations, no schedules and no tension. So far we have not forgotten who is most important in this - namely ourselves. In both conventional and non-standard families, there is a risk of alienation over time, simply in the first case the risk is greater and more predictable. F, 31, married
Up to 41 out of 37, yes it was, there was a problem - exactly what you say - sex, momentary experience ... and. Until then, just that! Love is for both! This is the situation! And no, you don't make love with music, you know it better than I do :) I don't dissuade you from your position, but ... well, no matter how much you repeat it, it certainly won't happen! And I thought like that for a while, then I was already trying to convince myself ... when I really fell in love, well, I had nowhere to go, I had to admit it! We didn't have any problems with the ex, ... and I think that was a problem too! Yes, yes, it sounds stupid, but it's true! We had no secrets, we had no worries from each other, respectively no one sought, fought, worried, expected, whatever it was from the other! Do you know how nice and thrilling I am now, when I see him look me in the eye with anxiety in anticipation of whether I will like a gift for example? How he tells me in a quieter tone that he will go out with friends. When he wants my opinion on something and is worried about the answer, there is something like a tick and it appears. In "liberated couples" these things are missing. At one point you accept the other .... well, let's say as a "comrade-in-arms" but we don't love! I have deliberately proposed to my current one, I have tried it on this topic - it is categorical that he does not want it. He says that he will have to force himself to see me as a k ... a, in order to allow another to touch me. And that he can't and doesn't want to see me that way :) And that makes me happy! Only I am enough for him, he only wants me in his life and his bed! As with him! No, I would not go back the other way! And I'm sorry, it's not that I don't believe, I KNOW that there can be everything between you, even love, but not love! Ah, here is the time to ask the author, if he doesn't mind, to answer: Do you still love your wife ... with love?
And where is the author for comments?
Up to 44 by the author ... I love her yes, I haven't stopped loving her. What we do is just something new, refreshing and exciting. I don't consider my wife a whore and I don't look at her with those eyes. When we are both making love, when we are with another man we just fuck her, refreshing sex. I don't know what will happen in the future, but I know we are happy now!
Author, that you love each other is good, I wish you to keep your relationship that way. Brag, spit on you, brag, it's normal, I'll just recommend you put a little more emphasis on hygiene. It is true that sex is done for pleasure, but secrets are still exchanged.
Are you Bulgarians or some stupid Americans in our traditions where they have heard or seen a threesome between three people, you have to find a way to have a good time with each other, no matter how difficult it is, without having sex with a third person. this perversion is a manifestation of weakness on your part as Bulgarians. Did our grandfathers follow centuries-old traditions for this, did they defend ours, so that you are free, sir, where you have decided to deprive your relationship of pure love out of low self-esteem. Is an urge more important to you than her integrity and even her health? Would this woman be respected by our people? They will laugh behind your back at you if such nonsense is heard. That murder is justified just because it's intoxicating? Should such nonsense be done for one thrill! you are addicted and you are addicted! That you are a latent homosexual who does not believe in his own ability to satisfy her! Shame! I hope this post is some kind of crazy teenager!
52, your post gives me hope.
52 and 53 I just don't understand what's bothering you, who's messing with whom in the holes ??? Did they kill someone, did they rape someone, did they steal something ??? That "Americans", "Bulgarians", "centuries-old traditions" are still involved here. I'm not a fan of threes, fours and their derivatives, but honestly I'm tired of reading the verbal vomits of low-intelligence, pishman-patriots at every turn!
The trio is the beginning of the end. Rejoice that you will cry soon. It has been proven by both science and practice. You are no exception. You will soon be divorcing and you may become a porn actor. Nice, huh? Congratulations number 52 !!!
Congratulations on gaining the confidence to fulfill your wish. For some time now, my girlfriend and I have been involving another man in sex, and I can say that our relationship is the same as before. I don't think it threatens our relationship to a greater extent, because it's not just about sex. She is with me because she likes my overall image and character, and whether sometimes another man participates in the sex itself has nothing to do with our desire to be together. Male 32y.o.
I guess a lot of people will take a peek at such a spicy topic. This provoked me to express my opinion. "Intimacy" is a truly intimate experience for any couple. No one else can be attached to the most personal feelings between two. But! Who said the more broken script hurts this intimacy? I will never forget the first time my husband and I had a threesome with another man. We were guests at the neighboring villa. I had made sure our friend was warned about the script (this is very important, believe me!) Everything happened according to plan, and when my husband and I left ... we just couldn't stand the twenty meters to our gate and overturned in one meadow. We had mind-blowing sex, and then we continued at home. This adventure turned out to be extremely stimulating. None of us had guilt, we were only a little conscientious about the neighbor — we seemed a little worried. We tried a second time, with another person, it was no longer the same, somehow the freshness of the feeling had diminished. My husband and I have an extremely strong relationship, we are Siamese twins, but I love to see him flirt with other women, I dream of seeing him in bed with one of them, but I think he is a little lazy about courtship, and girls they are startled to learn that he is married. I can't explain to a woman that most of all I want her to take off her panties and let my handsome man get into her. They will think I'm crazy! Don't judge people like us! We love each other deeply and sincerely, but our imagination comes in more perhaps. But everything constructive in this world is created by imaginative people. And this with divorces ... People, I'm divorced. Because my ex-husband hadn't had sex with me in 10 years. So which is better? A life of a chaste matron or exciting adventures with an adventurer like me?
Eh, how I wish my husband was so broad-minded. I really want to experiment like that, but he gets mad when he hears it.
Well ... he's obviously not gotten to that point yet. And I used to say, "Oh, someone else fuck my wife," and the truth is that if you (women) decide whether or not to fuck your husband with the consent of your husband. At least there is no lie and deception here, everything is transparent and everyone is happy. For all the comments back .... and I am the author, my wife and I are still together, we make threesomes with another woman, but just the degree rises more when it is with another man. After all, she started wanting to fuck her quite often in the ass, which is great. I encourage everyone to try, and if you don't like it, you won't continue, it's simple! The author
Eh, I want my wife to be so open and not angry when I offer her to invite another man :)
By 64, your wife will be threesome. The reason she refuses you now is the fear that after a possible threesome with a man, you will want to make a threesome with a woman, and this is obviously unacceptable for her. During sex, tell her dirty how you two would fuck her, and after sex do not wind her up or ask if she wants. Just say you want it, and that's your fantasy, no matter how hard you try, and if she comes to try it, you'll never make her do anything else, like a threesome with a woman, just because you've tried a threesome with a man. Convince her that one would not automatically lead to the other. When you convince her that the threesome remains a threesome and doesn't make her feel obligated to do anything in return. It will work out. Believe me, it's worth trying a threesome, but with the right man.
Not bad, you did well. Prejudices in sex, as long as they do not turn into homosexuality, are harmful.
Congratulations to the author! And my husband and I have a great desire to try. I did threesomes before we met and I have unforgettable experiences that I shared with him, and he really wants to "share" me with a friend and see me with another man, knowing that I am his. It's just that we're hitting a rock with the search for the second man, because we both want him to be a close friend, to be discreet, and not to expose ourselves if we offer such a friend of ours, and he refuses and gives us a name. . Any ideas? Ralitsa, 32
We faced this dilemma some time ago, but we never solved it. With an acquaintance, I think it's quite risky. That everything will be okay is not at all certain. That it will remain without any consequences - too. I think it's best to find someone online. Correspond for a while in order to explore the individual as much as possible (keeping your identity to the max). Finally - a meeting in a third city in a public place, in order if something you do not like to disappear without a problem. If you like - hotel.