My story may sound pretty teenage to you, but I still need advice. I've been engaged for a year and a half, but things haven't been going well lately. He almost owns me now, he is cooler with me, he rarely tells me I love you, I lose sex, and in general I don't feel very happy with him. But on the other hand, sex is just perfect, the best I've ever done. Meanwhile, a friend of mine with whom I had a claim before admitted to me that he still had feelings for me, and showed it to me on every occasion. He always asks me to see you for coffee, asks me when you're free again, to see you and so on. In general, this 2nd man is much more promising than my current one. In a sense, he is more ambitious both as a job and as personal plans. And more financially stable (don't think I'm just another gold digger, I'm not, I'm a girl who just doesn't want to waste her youth and future). But on the other hand, we don't fit in bed, mainly because of the more modest size of his dignity (and I'm used to being bigger and fatter because of my current boyfriend, but I'm not as wide as a bucket, I'm narrow from below) Is it better to stay with a man who doesn't care if he will be with me or not, just for the sake of good sex, or to be satisfied with more unsatisfactory sex for me, but a more stable man who at least cares about him for me and he doesn't care if I will be with him or not. I am 20 years old and the boys are a little older than me. Thanks to those who read my whole topic, as well as to those who left a comment! Any adequate opinion is valuable to me !!! But on the other hand, we don't fit in bed, mainly because of the more modest size of his dignity (and I'm used to being bigger and fatter because of my current boyfriend, but I'm not as wide as a bucket, I'm narrow from below) Is it better to stay with a man who doesn't care if he will be with me or not, just for the sake of good sex, or to be satisfied with sex that is more unsatisfactory for me, but a more stable man who at least cares about him for me and he doesn't care if I will be with him or not. I am 20 years old and the boys are a little older than me. Thanks to those who read my whole topic, as well as to those who left a comment! Any adequate opinion is valuable to me !!! But on the other hand, we don't fit in bed, mainly because of the more modest size of his dignity (and I'm used to being bigger and fatter because of my current boyfriend, but I'm not as wide as a bucket, I'm narrow from below) I wonder Is it better to stay with a man who doesn't care if he will be with me or not, just for the sake of good sex, or to be satisfied with sex that is more unsatisfactory for me, but a more stable man who at least cares about him for me and he doesn't care if I will be with him or not. I am 20 years old and the boys are a little older than me. Thanks to those who read my whole topic, as well as to those who left a comment! Any adequate opinion is valuable to me !!! I'm tight from the bottom) I wonder if it's better to stay with a man who doesn't care if he will be with me or not, just for the sake of good sex, or to be satisfied with more unsatisfactory sex for me, but more stable a man who at least cares about me and doesn't care if I'm with him or not. I am 20 years old and the boys are a little older than me. Thanks to those who read my whole topic, as well as to those who left a comment! Any adequate opinion is valuable to me !!! I'm tight from the bottom) I wonder if it's better to stay with a man who doesn't care if he will be with me or not, just for the sake of good sex, or to be satisfied with more unsatisfactory sex for me, but more stable a man who at least cares about me and doesn't care if I'm with him or not. I am 20 years old and the boys are a little older than me. Thanks to those who read my whole topic, as well as to those who left a comment! Any adequate opinion is valuable to me !!!
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Author, don't be angry, but I'm ashamed of my gender because of people like you. How about starting to be honest with yourself and others, breaking up with the person you're not happy with. Thick dicks are in sex shops for 20 cents each. As for the other boy, don't go with him if you don't love him. At the age of 20, think about your own professional qualifications, financial stability and education before looking at that of the boys. Find a man you love, don't just look at the pocket and the pocket, because the women who do it end up very, very badly! Eva
Shocking .... what a degradation in the future generation ... you have a great problem that I don't even know what to advise you ... a nightmare.
I completely agree with number 1, and I seem to have made this mistake like you before, I compared men as if they were some products of different quality, I think that a real connection is when there are feelings on both sides, ie it should be on first, not some other factor like money or ... a member in your case. You sound ridiculous, one of the most important things about a relationship is sincerity, now imagine how they both read your topic and know what's in your head. Well, honestly, no one would stay with you if they saw that. What is the conclusion - that you are not honest in your relationship and you can not be really happy like that. There is another option - to be with both of them and use the privileges that each of them has - I do not approve of this option, I just point it out, because often people do it. But are they happy?
Eva told you great! You are a gold digger and how, but in a slightly different sense - a kind of accountant. Have you ever wondered what YOU would contribute to a man's life other than your highest presence, instead of constantly thinking about what he (they) would contribute to yours? I have nothing to add.
Author, hello! It's all about business and sex and marriage and relationships. Sex, no matter how good, is sex, without feelings it is nothing, and feelings without money are incinerated. So at first you are too young and do not rush to throw yourself on someone's neck to take care of you. The most important thing is that you are independent, so dare in this direction. You have goals, chase them and develop, and the person you will be happy with will sing when you prove yourself and then you will not have to look for money to support you, as well as a big dick to scratch you - you will have more options to choose from. A person without goals and ambitions thinks about shit and money ... Prove yourself and you will have everything - regardless of your dependence
This is pure fiction. At least 5 sentences, I came to this conclusion.
I do not agree with the above comments. You are not a gold digger, dear, but you are an ordinary accountant, one of those who somehow try to combine the thin counters with the big python
Well, I join my colleagues with the opinion that the author is prolific. Um, so you have to decide between a big dick and money ... a difficult choice - but you're not a gold digger, don't think I'm implying that. Otherwise, I liked the comment that asks YOU what you will contribute to men - may God protect us from people like you. This from me and with health.
Hello everyone, I just want to say goodbye Eva bow and respect, and the author can not help only god can
I didn't really understand from these two of you, do you have any feelings for any of these men at all? One chooses with one's heart, not with one's work. Villas.
The author and God can not help: D My advice is to catch a nigger with 25 cents, so that as you are narrow, at least to expand you a little below. Then you will be able to take all kinds of picks. Thank you for your attention.