It's me again, the author of the topic about money and the lack of life below :) This is again a kind of "call" for help. It's been a few days since I wrote that topic. Life goes on at the same pace 25 hours a day. What happened, it happened that I found that I became so busy that at a time when I was left with nothing to do and I felt weird. Again from the car window at the traffic lights I look at people, I see happy faces. I see a lot of beautiful girls who look decent, I mentally transfer some drawings and projects :)) The other day I saw such a beautiful girl crossing the traffic light, I want to get down and talk to her in the middle of the road :)) Nnnoo this is Bulgaria: )) I will be cursed to the 9th knee if I block the boulevard for a hello :))) .. Several times I walked with some acquaintances on the main, but after a long time walking around a lot of people I feel uncomfortable, the moment I sit behind the glass of the car I feel good, I'm estranged, almost every night I go to run at the rowing base ... just to play sports :) I go alone because people people around me say that I don't have a mind, it's better to soak in a squadron or in a vision. Strange, I feel good, I feel strong, but I'm really a lonely person, this life has separated me from valuable people. The other day I was traveling to Sofia and I was thinking .. have I loved until now ... There was a girl this summer, I finally decided that she is human, I was wrong of course .. I missed her a lot, but I don't think I loved her, well I was hurt that I was deceived ... I came to the conclusion that I did not love a person outside my family, I was never given the chance to love a girl ... As I thought this nonsense, something very strange happened ... I was driving for 120-130, I don't know .. I was dreaming :)) And suddenly in the rearview mirror I saw that a car was approaching at great speed and I it hits from behind .. I was so startled .. it killed all my thoughts about love in a second :)) And to grumble and not to grumble now, SHE is not here, if she was here I would not write this, now my soul is sick. I want to watch a movie with her now or take her for a walk by car to Sofia, for example, just to talk and someone to make me smile, for a long time I haven't even smiled in business. it killed all my thoughts about love in a second :)) And to grumble and not to grumble now, SHE is not here, if she was here I would not write this, now my soul is sick. I want to watch a movie with her now or take her for a walk by car to Sofia, for example, just to talk and someone to make me smile, for a long time I haven't even smiled in business. it killed all my thoughts about love in a second :)) And to grumble and not to grumble now, SHE is not here, if she was here I would not write this, now my soul is sick. I want to watch a movie with her now or take her for a walk by car to Sofia, for example, just to talk and someone to make me smile, for a long time I haven't even smiled in business.
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Oh, I sympathize with you. I think you need to talk to someone real about this. If you want we can write to you. Good luck, I wish you to find the right solution to all your confused thoughts.
Hello! Expect a lot of suggestions here :) Many women dream of such a man who looks like them :) I am a woman of 28 years, although I still feel like 20 ... The strange thing is that there are many people in your situation and cannot be found. Maybe they're not really looking. I can say that I am one of those who do not seek. I have a friend for 7 years we are together, I love him, but we have other problems ... there is always something in this life that makes you sad. But I'm like that - I'm not looking for anything else, because despite the problems I love it, but according to everyone it's not rational - I could have had a much better life. I hate such statements, no one knows what his life will be like - he is full of surprises. I wish you success! You have a good soul, a woman will appreciate it!
I know it sounds incredibly banal, but ... from time to time (!) Miracles happen when you want them to happen to you, of course. And for now, you can enjoy the peace of mind not to be alone, not to be engaged, not to have to comply with the desires and whims of HER. I guess you just want to feel a warm hug and a gentle look at yourself ... it will happen, just at another moment ... someone more colorful! Natalia
I can hardly give you any correct advice, because I myself am in such a situation. I'm not talking about money. I'm talking about love. I have had love, I have loved and I have been loved. But I have a feeling it was so long ago. Now I do not meet a person who will make me feel happy. On the one hand - as if I have built a barrier in front of me, and on the other - most men only want sex. Maybe the reason is that I generally fall in love with handsome men, who find it a little harder to win a heart. What I'm trying to tell you is not to despair and not to stop looking. Sooner or later you will find your happiness somewhere. And you look good enough to me. Just find time for the important things in life.
Do you smoke weed? Do you take drugs? Do you take any pills or stimulants to give you a boost? I will not be surprised if you answer YES to any of the questions. Regardless of the answer to the questions - you need a break. You have to stop for a while and then decide where to continue. Leave your world of illusions for a while. You are quite divided. You may need a little help, but it needs to be specialized. The line between ILLUSION AND REALITY is very small. But anyone who loses it is in danger. You need a psychotherapist. It is not a shame to seek help. Many modern people have your problems. Don't let yourself be nerdy because that's where you're headed. Do not lose your mind and motivation. Don't go with the flow - take matters into your own hands until it's too late.
Number 5 :) No, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't take stimulants, I'm terribly conservative in this respect, I lead a very healthy life or at least I try. In fact, I'm very interested in psychology and I've read a lot ... I'm completely healthy, my whole problem is my environment, I don't have decent friends and I feel lonely. Reality and illusion I know what it is :)) Do not shoot in this direction anymore because I am offended ... The author.
A wise man once said, "There are only two tragedies in the world, one is not getting what you want, the other is getting it." Think about it, it's not hard :)
Number 7, the wise man is Oscar Wilde, if you want to read at least one of his works, you will find thousands of truths ... Natalia
Yes, Natalia, I know who he is. Otherwise I would not allow myself to quote him :)
Здрасти. Аз съм мъж, на 38г, симпатяга съм и съм точно в същата ситуация! От работа не ми остава време за някаква сериозна връзка а и май няма къде да я намеря! Където и да отида 99% от жените те гледат с каква кола си, колко телефона имаш, Давидоф ли пушиш и дали ще изкараш от портфейла си цяло 100 лв! Нямам думи просто! Повярвай ми принудих се да си продам колата и да си сменя телефоните с такива за по 100-ина лв! Знам как се чувстваш и знам че ти е много трудно, но не се отчайвай! Знай че рано или късно ще се появи Човека! Е аз поне съм така - вярвам! Успех приятелю и дано скоро да вкараме тема "Намерих жената на моя живот"!
Well, there's only one thing I don't understand from your whole story. Ok. You are smart, you have read a lot of things, you lead a healthy lifestyle, you have money ... Well, everything is ok. But how can you say that the environment in which it does not work. Well, why don't you think a little. Maybe you're not getting up. Could everyone around you be crazy or not aware? Give them a chance. Look for something nice in them. Or get rid of them. Find a new environment. It is so easy.
I happened to read your stories here (they have now become a column in a daily newspaper: P) and I stopped to comment on them several times. The clichés are annoyingly true sometimes, that's why :) Now I couldn't help myself ... I was impressed by the paragraph with the girl at the traffic light - "such a beautiful girl ...". Okay ... I believe you've had a lot of them, but remind me what you got from them? Were they like an expensive needle on your designer tie? And there were at least two people around this crossing girl who went unnoticed and hurried in their busy day, who can give you the bliss of being loved - truly and unconditionally, confident that you are loved for your own sake! In liters of intellectual perhydrol and soul silicone everything real is depersonalized. The search will be long if you search in the wrong places. Still, I wish you success!
Natalia, I'm 7. I know it's Oscar Wilde. I have read almost all of his and accordingly I have discovered a large part of the truths that are hidden in his aphorisms. Otherwise why quote him? :) Author, do your best and read something of his. It will help you - I'm sure! Holly
Here is my opinion .......... you are my boy patient. You're pretending. You colleague are deluded, you imagine that you are unhappy, you imagine that you are lonely, you imagine that you have money, and you probably imagine that your car is shiny. You forgot that the post is anonymous here, there is no way to hammer something with your village number, which on dating sites is very long to bear fruit. I generally have everything you think you have and see how life goes with me. I work 24 hours a day, but it makes me happy and useful, the people around me are smiling, we have fun at work, we love her, she brings us money and with them, we have fun again, we help each other ...... we respect each other each other, we play games. When I feel like it, I pull my counter and rest for a week, where I want and who I want. I go to Plovdiv to have a beer in Rosenhof, that only there is it in all of Bulgaria, I made friends, then I'm in Sofia for a movie. In the meantime, I drive a nice car, I'm calm, I enjoy it, I'm focused on the road and I don't drive with 120. I don't interfere with others, and when I'm alone on the road I fly with 250. (Don't start the speed dispute just for me). There are no decent women and they are hard to find, and if there are, they are only decent for a certain period of time. However, you are the biggest ass if you do not know that you do not go to a meeting by car and with a phone and a watch. 11 had sold the car and now had a phone for BGN 100. Abe, who are you pretending to be, are you still a Lada or do you use public transport? What are you doing to people with money to rob the minds of people without money and to make wise "unhappy" rich people. If you have money, dedicate yourself to one of the tragedies in this country, take care of children at home, give people jobs. Then your life will make sense, then you will feel useful and with money, but without ostentation you will go around a lot of women before you find a decent one. Leave your stroller and rags at home because decent women will not pay attention to your stands. I have my money, I make myself happy with them and the people around me, because whatever we talk about, they are a tool, I help and give jobs to young people like me and I drive my Porsche on the track in Greece. In 1 day 400 km I change 4 tires and 4 tanks and I get a thrill for a whole week, then I go back to the people we feed our families with, I curse the politicians and all the bastards in the country, I wish I could lose some of them, I smile and бачкам. And then I happily go looking for another woman who will disappoint me. Don't complain to me because you're a lazy callus, if you've achieved a little more than others, use it, and I don't think it ruined your life. Lift your fat ass and do something lazy like that. I hope the punch will help you because there is no one to hit you except someone with "money". Read a few people what "real" problems they have and march outside to look for a woman, she will not knock on your cart!
I don't have time :) jeans and a jacket and I couldn't afford to pay her bill. I'm thinking of driving it like that, with the flights ... it's somewhere by car :) I'm very careful, I don't want to see the financial side of things, I'm thinking of hanging it like that for a month somewhere. This time it looks promising, the bad thing is that I have absolutely no time. I go out at 8 in the morning and come home at 10 in the evening ... only Saturday and Sunday are free for me and I wonder how to combine things and what to tell her in this regard. Now I have decided to end my relationship here with a company so that at least my afternoons are free.
Number 13, tell me which are the SUITABLE PLACES according to you, please !!! Bars and discos are clear that they can not be! There have been no libraries and community centers for a long time / only in schools, as far as I know, there are /!
Well done! I hope this really turns out to be your favorite. Relax and don't be afraid to fall in love. Even if you get hurt. Know that you have to go through everything! I'm the worst of your previous topics;)
Number 15 .. you have experience with them ... you know what to do with your money, I obviously don't know how to use them rationally. I have a friend who is already an incorrigible drug addict, his father is a big businessman, it's just that we younger people, when we are given more money and don't know what to do with them, most often do nonsense, up to 19 my father limited me financially with in order to protect me (now I realized it) then I roared. Now that he gave them to me, my "friends", my classmates, gathered around me, for example - I had one or two with whom I had a lot of fights. Look, I still have a lot to learn, at least I realize it, I haven't become a drug addict or a slacker, I'm learning WORK. The only thing I'm ashamed of is that I didn't feel it before. Drive your Porsche, my father is a fan of the 911 1985, the American version with the big armor.
Ugh! When I read stories like yours, I get very angry !! You say you can't find a "decent" girl! And have you ever wondered what you can do to win such a girl! ??? He didn't have time to make money! Haha! I am 31, I am an office manager of a large company abroad with 38 subordinates + a production team of 50 people! I have been living with my friend for 9 years and despite the fact that I work from 7 am to 10 pm + Saturdays, I have time for him and for my personal life and for my home and EVERYTHING! So as long as you grumbled and complained! And remember that CONSCIOUS WOMEN DO NOT CARE AT ALL WHAT CAR YOU DRIVE IN, WHAT YOU ARE DRESSED WITH, WHAT YOUR PHONE IS, ETC. Simply because such a value system does not belong to them!
Hello, 17! I'm 13 (with these numbers we looked like sports tote balls :))) I wish I had a specific answer to your question, but unfortunately I don't! We both know that for everyone happiness has different dimensions, respectively, and is located in different places. Discos, libraries ... People everywhere, and some are even Humans! :) With my comment I just wanted to say that the valuable things are most often the ones that the eye misses, especially the male one. :) At the second reading, beauty should be in second place for everyone who really loves. Ooooo, I'm carried away! I'll finish, but I especially want you to find without looking! (It already in this way everything turns out the most casual and beautiful). Postscript (long :))): I found it where I saw everything else before, but not THIS kind of love! In some eyes that cry and laugh with mine. Isn't that the most important thing after all? Bye!
20 ... I'm not writing here in order to anger someone, I was just looking for advice ... 100 people is not a big company, it's completely normal. Well, I don't even have time on Sundays. Tomorrow I have to travel to Sofia, on Monday I have to travel to Austria. Then who knows where :) I was just looking for psychological support because I'm tired. By the way, I met a decent girl, unfortunately and I spend very little time, but I have so much. Now I'm happy, I enjoy my daily life knowing that there is someone there ... but I hope he doesn't get nervous because of this trip to Austria now.
20 съм. Знаеш ли, аз не парадирам с това колко е голяма фирмата, просто искам да те убедя, че със сигурност нямам повече свободно време от теб, а се справям с всичко, бидейки жена! А освен това си спомни, че ТИ си писал: " Сутрин излизам в 8 и се прибирам вечер в 10... само събота и неделя са ми свободни " Проблемът е само, единствено в теб и в нещата, с които би могъл да привлечеш една свястна жена, които - уви, не ти принадлежат! Вече съм убедена! p.s.: Психологическа подкрепа търси при психолог! Тук е грозната, но реална действителност!
I'm 15. I see you understand me. Here's another fact, get used to it. YOU WILL NEVER HAVE VEME. Time is stolen for the things you want, and it is stolen mercilessly, because otherwise you will be nerdy. And in addition, hide your situation for a while, how much you will judge for yourself. When you feel that the girl is talking to you and looking at you with that flame in her eyes ... then gradually let her know about the money, next time take her with you to Austria. Take it to the Christmas market in front of a townhouse or some ribs in Fiorino to the Prater. I recommend De Capo an Italian restaurant in the 1st district. Just a tip DO NOT overdo it with masquerade, there is a variety in which decent women then take offense. Colleague, you young people, but I'm 34, I'm not that old. You set the rules, play your game :)
Hello, I had a serious accident last week, I was on my bike and a pishligar hit me at an intersection, I'm alive and well, but I'm pretty scared, the bike is a corpse, I wonder how I'm fine (I was with a good team) so I think I'm fine. The girl in question understood me as I was ... I only called her to come, luckily my uncle passed by, he saw that he had already called and half of my family had gathered. She did not react sharply, I had told her that I did not have a car, let alone a motorcycle ... it was rumored that I lied to her, but she kept her level and I like that. Hey people, I had to do this to warm up that not everything is money ... you get away from this world and all the money in the world can't save you. My guardian angel protected me. By the way, I was not to blame for the accident, they took away my advantage, I just knocked on his bumper and fell ... I rolled at least 10 meters but without obstacles,