It's pointless and I still do it and on top of that I hope that someone will be found to understand me, to advise me… A year ago something in my life changed. This affected me very negatively. I think, I think, I read, I eat, I think and so on… In a few words, this is the life I lead. I often go back in my memories to see if I've been like this before, if I've changed, if I've gone crazy ... I feel like I've lost my memory… I can't remember what I was… and yet I come to the conclusion that I have always been like that, there was just a way to get distracted and run away from my thoughts from time to time. No, there is no point in writing about myself and waiting for you to judge… I just want to see what you think about the questions I will ask you, so I will make my judgment. Does it make sense for a person who does not love and is not loved to live Person, who has no friends, no relatives, a man who doesn't even love himself? Who can't be happy, to smile, to be happy..who prays for his death every day… Is this person alive and does it make sense to live, since he doesn't even want to change something да his soul is dead and the body not ли Does it make sense to live?
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It makes sense because all these things can change them and be back!
Do not give up! Now you don't love and you think they don't love you, but that will change, it just takes a while! As for friends nowadays, there are fewer and fewer friends for loving each other, I don't understand, I think everyone loves each other! Happiness depends on what you mean by happiness and what will make you happy! Again, I think you have to take matters into your own hands and change something in order for your soul to live! AND THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS NOT TO THINK THIS WAY AND NOT TO LOOK AT LIFE THAT WAY!
LOVE TO BE LOVED !!!
Of course it makes sense. You determine your own life, so try to change it in some way. Good luck and head up :)
But he doesn't want to change them, so what's the point?
Life is not always what we want it to be. You may not have relatives, friends, even a person who loves you and is loved, but do you have to give up? Maybe you are the only one with such a destiny and that is why you have to fight. Life sucks, yes, but make sure you do something every day that brings you joy. I wish you success and hope you find your way. Kisses. :)
It always makes sense. Tighten up!
If you ask someone on his deathbed if he wants to live, what do you think he will answer? Everyone will tell you that if he can go back in time, he will fight for love, he will look for real friends, he will hurt, but he will forgive, he will cry, but he will also laugh, but only if he has this chance. Death is the only incorrigible thing in human life. Everything else is fixed. As for the meaning of life, everyone finds it in different places. One earns money, another helps the elderly, and a third simply enjoys his grown children. You found yours. Learn to love yourself first, because otherwise you can't love others. Don't think much about your life, because it happens while you think about it.
It makes sense. I have experienced it. Write if you want [email protected]
God gave you your life. That is why no one has the right to commit suicide. This is one of the gravest sins. The suffering that God gives to people gives them to appreciate what they have.
Thank you for your attention. I really don't have the strength, I know there's no point in continuing like this, so I don't live, it's not life. I kill myself, but in a very painful way. People want to live when they have something to lose, someone who has something to hurt, something to care about, something to fight for. I do not have. I feel a failure of nature, so I hate myself, I can't love myself. Every day, every second I think, I wish, the moment will come when I will close my eyes, and I will not be there, I will not feel, I will not be in pain, I will not cry… Isn't it the same whether you do it or just you will desire it, isn't sin equally great? from the author
If you haven't touched your life yet, then there are still sparks of life to warm your heart. Friends and love sometimes have to be sought. Don't be afraid, live your life. It will end someday anyway. There is no point in ending prematurely. There is something true in the saying "One does not know what tomorrow brings." It can bring you love and new friends. Don't shut yourself in and torture yourself. There's no point. It's all a matter of worldview and a desire for change. If you want and try to change your life, you will succeed. If you have no one to have fun with, go to a folk dance club - Latin. Find people with your interests (because I guess you have them :) From the way you talk, I judge you're in your forties. That may not be the case. But if the emptiness in your soul is connected with the years, do not think about it. There is a place for everyone under the sun, find your own and enjoy it while you can. And don't forget that there are people who are much worse than you. I personally know a woman who can't leave the house at all because of an illness. She is not old, she is intelligent. It is not easy for her, but she still finds solace in the little things and continues to live. Not out of fear of death, but out of love for life. And I don't know how it will sound to you, but ... go to the nearby temple and light a candle. The flame will warm your heart. Everyone sometimes feels emptiness and meaninglessness in their lives. Wish to change your life and find the happiness you deserve. Leave behind a bright trail, not impersonal tears :) who can't leave the house at all because of an illness. She is not old, she is intelligent. It is not easy for her, but she still finds solace in the little things and continues to live. Not out of fear of death, but out of love for life. And I don't know how it will sound to you, but ... go to the nearby temple and light a candle. The flame will warm your heart. Everyone sometimes feels emptiness and meaninglessness in their lives. Wish to change your life and find the happiness you deserve. Leave behind a bright trail, not impersonal tears :) who can't leave the house at all because of an illness. She is not old, she is intelligent. It is not easy for her, but she still finds solace in the little things and continues to live. Not out of fear of death, but out of love for life. And I don't know how it will sound to you, but ... go to the nearby temple and light a candle. The flame will warm your heart. Everyone sometimes feels emptiness and meaninglessness in their lives. Wish to change your life and find the happiness you deserve. Leave behind a bright trail, not impersonal tears :) Everyone sometimes feels emptiness and meaninglessness in their lives. Wish to change your life and find the happiness you deserve. Leave behind a bright trail, not impersonal tears :) Everyone sometimes feels emptiness and meaninglessness in their lives. Wish to change your life and find the happiness you deserve. Leave behind a bright trail, not impersonal tears :)
A girl writes to you who, for her fragile age, already has 2 suicide attempts behind her back, so I can be completely honest. You do not love and you are not loved, because you do not love yourself, and there is nothing more deadly. The hatred you feel for yourself eats you from the inside, kills you slowly until there is nothing left and you no longer know if you have a soul. I don't know ... at least that's how I feel, but I continue to live because I realized that the life we have is our greatest gift. Because even just out of gratitude to our parents we are obliged to rejoice in spite of everything, that's why they gave it to us. Now I feel like you, a wreck and I can't recognize myself, but I will try to change and look for meaning. Do it yourself. You know that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and after that period, because this is just a stage of your life you will be stronger than ever. Maybe you should see a psychologist. He may be able to help you cope. If you are still in the same condition you can write to me, I would leave Skype. I would like to help you if I can, although I can't help myself. Believe that after every storm the sun rises !!! :)
It makes sense, because I've been many times, I've tried to get poisoned with pills and all sorts of other nonsense, I've been in terrible states ... and because I'm very emotional I experience everything more than I should ... but it makes sense to live. YOU MUST LIVE! Because sooner or later everything will be a little better, never perfect, there will always be more to be desired, but if you manage to smile every day, not because you have to, but because you want it, then there is a change ... so there are things that they make you do it. Don't give up :)