Many things have changed in my life in the last 5 years. I see the pros and cons and I'm glad it happened. From an accelerated teenager in 8th grade without principles and morals, I have become a very serious person. A few years ago, I spent my evenings partying and being a big whore. I drank because others drank, I smoked because others did the same. Now everything is very different from before. I am a very exemplary and honest person. Far from home - my hometown, I realized many things I had never thought about before. I have few friends left, but they are real. This is the most important thing. We have nothing to talk about anymore with most of the people we were partying with. The truth is that I have outlived puberty stories and they no longer affect me. Everything seems to be fine and moving in the right direction. There is only one problem - women. As I said, I am very serious and looking for a serious relationship. I believe that there are many conscientious and good women, but for now I am alone. The truth is that I find it difficult to let strangers in. Maybe it's due to some fear of being played and abandoned afterwards. I am sincere in my feelings and I do not like infidelities and lies. I hate infidelity and people with multiple relationships at once. What I'm looking for is a good girl or woman with whom to spend something real. Love without lies and infidelity. Love, romance and feelings are the things I look for in a person. A quiet life does not bring me much success with women. I'm alone. Maybe most of them like bad boys. I'm not like that. I don't want to be either. However, I see that my friends, much more crazy and nasty, are much luckier than me in this regard. They decide they have to have one ..... and they have it ..... It doesn't work for me. My favorite does not appear out of nowhere. Maybe I'm bored and that bothers me. Some friends tell me to wait - they are just waiting and I will meet her when I do not expect. I don't know if they are right or wrong. Don't women like people like me Tell me your opinion. Give me some advice.
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Hey, boy, take things in stride! No woman likes an introverted and thoughtful man, because it is an expression of insecurity ... and women need security and a strong shoulder to cry on. YOU ARE NOT BORED - YOU THINK YOU ARE LIKE THAT! First, you can't find common ground with every woman. Second, get rid of this thought so that you can freely and naturally express your emotions and positions on an issue. TRY to change the company ... maybe male women are not the best place to look for a serious relationship. Call an old classmate and ask him to go out together, in company ... just see you make an interesting contact. BE YOURSELF and do not allow negative thoughts and hardships to hinder your communication. He does not lose his self-confidence in front of the woman. Repeat to yourself "Calm down, everything is OK" Good luck and write again!
You said yourself that you were a whore, maybe now it comes back to you because of the women you abandoned as a whore. I wish you success, but whether you will find a decent person with your past is destiny, with such a past no decent person will wish you success! However, if you have become a decent person and you will ever smile at your happiness, patience!
Do not be discouraged, these are moments in our lives when we have the opportunity to realize our past - what we have done wrong and what we do not regret and even rejoice. I have also had such moments, but I have learned to look more optimistically at everything that is served to me. And everything with its time! And everyone has something that bothers them, and your problem has nothing to worry about!
Do you know what happens to me! I am a girl and right now, when I have to party / according to the ideas of my friends / I calm down and look for a person who will understand me. I may not push myself wherever and with whom I fall, but I have and I hold on to my dignity! Do the same, change the company or stay alone for a while!
Bate is on the right track, but things are not so simple. I wish you strength, if you find it you will find something to do, there is no way if you change the way of life you will eat the negatives of the new style, but if you find it you will find it. It is difficult, but if it happens, the head of the seeker will find it. And the worst thing is that if you find it again there is no guarantee. But this is the direction of fighting. No way much is sought can be found. Good luck
It is not true, this is my story experienced by another person. I can only advise you wait a minute and she will come will appear ...