Hello! There is a girl in our class who envies me for everything. For boyfriend ratings for all the best. She says she was better than me, more beautiful and different. She even clung to my boyfriend. He constantly says come on M (let's assume that M is my boyfriend) come with me to go to the store come to the chair to eat. And when I try to talk to him to be with him, she still bothers me. So it is with all my friends. Help me what to do I want to get out of my life ... and stop watching me. She also has friends but I don't do that with her friends!
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This is modern and therefore is not called envy, but is a completely normal female behavior.
ST1: Do as you do with annoying flies, don't pay attention to them, don't wave and they will get lost on their own.
Do you happen to be in 4th grade? I still think that a girl over 9-10 years old cannot write such nonsense. Does anyone know ...
Beat her in a fight, don't let him
She is impudent and intriguing: (... Is your friend stupid that he can't put her in her place? It is enough to answer her with a sneer or to tell her - stop, you are already exposing yourself. Or - you are very annoying, tired If she succumbs to courtship and does nothing to distance her - you should even be grateful to the league in question, because that way you have the opportunity to convince yourself personally that your boyfriend is not worth it.
From the author: This girl is so cheeky that I pushed her, I told her many other things to get away so she doesn't follow us, she goes on and on!
I told you - not you, but HE must expel her. When she tells him: come with me - if he is on the spot, he will simply tell her: yes, march. And look, it's another thing if he doesn't mind her and follows her commands like a dog on a leash or he likes her presence ... Then not her, but you should have someone come to push you, because obviously you don't feel it and you disturb them. Respect yourself! Either your friend is very stupid and doesn't deserve you, or he hesitates between the two - but in both cases his passivity is humiliating for you. Only once did she ask him to be masculine and tell her to leave because you are not the man to defend your relationship. If he is not able - this means that he is a fool or a thug and there is no point in bothering with him anymore.
Do not pay attention to such people there have been, there are and there always will be. Ivy
Mila, there are many such girls, but she is hardly more beautiful than you or something like that, don't get complicated! So my best friend and I had sex, and she asked me who I fell for from school, and I told her, and the next day she started taking him off, and his cousin told her that he would tie her up easily, to me. It got really nasty, and she started sticking to him on purpose, whether to annoy me or something, just that kind of people are a little nasty !!
Well, slap 2 times when you see her walking with your boyfriend (or they do a quota there) and tell her that you don't want to bother with sticking to some other boy on the ass and if she complains to the director, even if they punish you, if the director asks you why you hit her, say that you wanted it and it was worth it, but before that explain to your people what the situation is and why you will hit the girl not to come to them like thunder from a clear sky!
Number 7, as an idea I agree with what you say, but still the author did not ask "is it worth it to be with my boyfriend", but asked how to get rid of the annoyance. Leave their relationship with her boyfriend to themselves. And since when only (I emphasize ONLY) a man has to defend a relationship? And I will deviate a little from the topic, but when it comes time to wash the dishes, suddenly there is no male and female work, all the same, but otherwise "who is the man in the relationship." When you talk about respect, respect the role of women in a relationship. Otherwise, I agree that the author, no matter how much she "pushes" the annoyance, will have no effect, the one who is the object of courtship should cut off the intruder, and not the one who is in the role of the competitor. This is true no matter who the man is and who the woman is. On the other hand, it is possible that he is really pleased with her presence, without it meaning any intentions towards her. My wife has a few acquaintances with whom she can't last, but I get along well with them and see you over coffee. This does not mean that I have any intentions, just that everyone has personal space and personal contacts. But looking at what kind of "kindergarten" the author is talking about, I don't believe any of the participants are mature enough to be able to separate things. Kubrat it's about the author, I don't believe any of the participants are mature enough to be able to separate things. Kubrat it's about the author, I don't believe any of the participants are mature enough to be able to separate things. Kubrat
From the author: Thank you for your attention on this topic and the written comments, but plus my boyfriend yesterday and two slaps to stop following him !! But I didn't tell him anything ... about it because I wanted to hear your advice. And this girl only continues that yesterday she continued with my friends! BUT now I know how to fix it!
I understand that you are uncomfortable, but I think you should talk to your friend and find a solution together. And as for her, she probably feels isolated and desperately seeks your boyfriend's attention, good luck!