I recently wrote a comment about myself asking for advice from you on how to deal with one of my pain - bonding, and then I read a lot more comments about single girls. The only thing I don't understand is one. I do not want to offend anyone and nothing is specifically aimed at anyone. But there really are women who have a lot of defects, whether it's birth, asymmetrical body, disgusting character, unsympathetic people ... and I can list a bunch of other people ... and at the same time there are those who really have nothing, for which one man should be caught, but there is still no one to like them and no passenger to board them. And here I want to say that I do not consider myself perfect, and WHY, hell, there are women who are engaged, and I and all the girls behind the comments here, still no one we really like? For example, I have a job at the age of 20, in which I get up extremely fast, I'm an excellent student at university, I play sports actively, I don't bother to communicate with people, I love fun, I even like relaxation in bed ... but, despite everything, I feel distance from people against me. I usually try to maintain my principles. I would NEVER like girls who offer themselves to men who write to them first and send them invitations like that on social networks without knowing them. BUT !! I tried this too, I started talking to some young people I like, and it still didn't work. I have a girlfriend who is quite short and full, duplicitous and a user. But there is friend after friend. They don't even look at me on the street .. I'm tall, I have a really tight body, I dress well .. and I even follow the fashion trends .. I travel constantly, I study at a nice and prestigious university, I support myself ... I don't know what I'm doing wrong in order to correct myself. I am a broad-minded person and I accept criticism .. but what can I change after everyone, even my most critical friends, say "Everything is fine" or "Today you look very beautiful" .. and in the next moment there is something that repels part from the environment, and in particular men ...
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I have an acquaintance who is a super beater, educated, everything is correct, but she is always alone. Even her ugliest sets, incl. and those over 150 kilos got married and have children, and she left to get married, and she can't even find a man for a relationship. And she envies them a hell of a lot. For me as a man it is easy to see her and judge why it happens, but for myself she is the best and I wonder why no one wants her. A lot of you and people went out with her, spent it once and never again, and they called her because they understood that it was not possible for anything else. Beauty is not just external. The beauty is in the behavior, in the attitude, in the character, in the value system, etc. She is so thirsty for attention that she even repulses and looks light on the side. He dresses provocatively, thinking that this increases the chance of a relationship, but in fact only increases the chance of attracting someone, who will fuck her and fuck her. Constantly self-promotion, this is also repulsive. There are other things, but she does not realize them and in her eyes she is perfect. I don't know exactly what your problem is, but I'm giving it to you as an example to think about.
Hello! I'm a girl your age and I've had a boyfriend of 3 years. Before him I was the same way, I was constantly wondering what was wrong with me, in general my situation was like yours. Like you, I started looking for boys on social networks, I wrote to them myself, which I was a little ashamed of at first, but I think today's boys are somehow afraid that they will do it, so that they might scare us. Communication and chat did not take place with a number of boys. There was even one we had a great time with, but we went out and he didn't like me. I still didn't understand what repelled him in me. I had given up dealing with anyone at one time. One night I stumbled upon my current friend on social media. I wrote to him and the feeling was strange, after a while I realized that it was the same with him, as if we had known each other for a long time. I think, that the right person is coming at the right time. Do not give up, but believe!
They are simply complexed by the good, the smart, the right. See that the lame and crippled spit most of them. They take a totally ugly l *** o and start staring at the beauties on the net and outside, to crack and at the same time to explain about the inner beauty like the one above. Fools have always contradicted each other and there is no chance that they will soon start giving meaningful arguments or cure their complexes. I think it's better to be happy that such people avoid you, for what your malice is crushed by complexes.
You have subconsciously high criteria, nothing happens for that.
Well, you listed the reasons why you are alone. Don't you see them? The whole class above the others is written on your face and reads in your eyes, do not think that these things are not felt on a subconscious level. I'm not talking about flatulence, of course - I'm sure you're not a bloat. But you are well above the others in many ways, which is immediately noticeable. Do you want to have a man next to you who surpasses you in many respects? But answer honestly to yourself, not to me. No, right? It's nice for the person next to you to be lower and to drive his hoops for good and bad, isn't it? That is why literate and real people stand like cuckoos, and the rubbish knocks to destruction and even sticks to them and can't. THEY that's it.
3 and 5, do you seriously think that people run away from the literate and beautiful and that no one wants a partner who is above his level? Because I see the exact opposite - everyone gets fat on the beautiful. Somehow I can't believe that a woman will be offered a man far above her level in terms of finances, profession, vision, character and she will say "no, you won't, because I'm simpler, uglier and poorer than you" . There is no such animal. On the contrary - every woman wants the man next to her to be above her level. So far I have not seen a model fall in love with a turner, for example, or a doctor with a tinsmith. I doubt I will see. Do you believe in yourself at all?
6, yes I think so. The uglier women I met along the way have always been the more impudent, conceited, and generally those who intrigue behind the backs of beautiful women. I am a woman and I have always been careful not to get involved in such conversations and you do not even know how many men managed to deceive certain women, to flood them with mud and they believe them. That they were light, some stories began to be made so that these men would not even want to approach this man. This is quite low, but quite common.
Number 5, in that case, its environment should be of better quality. People 's attitude towards us is a mirror of our attitude towards ourselves. You do not accept something, you need this distance, it is felt in your energy, in the language of your body, people simply inexplicably comply with it. Think about what people might find out about you if they get too close and stay long, which bothers and worries you. And work on it. You can also read about female energy.
And I think they are very tense on the beautiful. They don't even have to get to know them - they just see the attractive person in question, twist their mustaches and push. I mean both sexes, not just men. Women also became very assertive. I say this as a bystander. My friend is quite social, along with him I broadened my horizons and started going out more often. In one of his companies there are various assholes, rich children's leagues with parents, politicians / businessmen / traders, etc. They regularly run with various models, who are much smaller than them on top of everything. Well, around the girls, everyone gathers like vultures - bound, unattached, all sorts of trying to entertain them, to hang out with them, to anoint what they can. Including various intelligent young men, about whom I have a very high opinion, they behave like fools and squirm with a stupid expression around the beauties. One is surrounded by 5-6 and begins with servitude. Not to take it down like people, but just stupid. Of course, not everyone is like that, but my impression is that they would try a lot in one way or another. 7 out of 10 men will try. I also see a lot of women who are trying hard to tease the stronger sex, but the topic is not for them. Well, I think for a beautiful woman to be so lonely, she just isn't really pretty. Good appearance = more candidates (including a lot of mold) = great choice. It also depends on the claims of the lady, of course, but with a solid influx, there is no way at least 2-3 are not adequate. Everyone wants an attractive partner, these fabrications that someone is afraid of a beautiful and successful woman or of a beautiful and successful man, they are blown away by various pseudo-moral individuals, who secretly play leagues on what they can't have. Better sour grapes.
At the risk of getting hurt, the problem for some of you is that once you get the attention of the little and insecure girl (or boy), she calms down that she is wanted and starts making demands from the position of the strong, even though she is not in such in view of the fact that she has reached the uncertainty from before /: to be such, such, so many meters high, such education and so on. She may have been alone for years, but if she sees a man who wants her, she forgets that this may be her last chance and begins the transplant. Men, women - all the same job! It's still not cool enough for us, we can still find something better! No, I'm not saying take the first person you meet, but if you've been alone for years, think about whether you gave yourself a real chance at least once or rejected everyone because you weren't perfect enough? Those who do not want to come will not come, as you know! Tighten up, gentlemen and ladies! If you get attention like Quasimodo, there's no point in sifting them like a McDonald's boss sifting job candidates into his chain! It sounds rude here, but there is at least one other person standing in front of each caller, sitting in a corner, suffering and wondering what's wrong with him. On the conscience of every selector are the unborn children and the murdered dreams of at least one person. This is no longer just our personal life and we have no right to deprive others of happiness! Neither I, nor you, nor anyone! I'm slightly affected today, so if anyone is affected, sorry! I didn't want to do the big job, I just wanted to point to the "elephant in the room" that no one notices. There is no unwanted person on this planet, there are only people who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by these people. The mystery is solved! If you get attention like Quasimodo, there's no point in sifting them like a McDonald's boss sifting job candidates into his chain! It sounds rude here, but there is at least one more person standing in front of each caller who is sitting in a corner, suffering and wondering what's wrong with him. On the conscience of every selector are the unborn children and the murdered dreams of at least one person. This is no longer just our personal life and we have no right to deprive others of happiness! Neither I, nor you, nor anyone! I'm slightly affected today, so if anyone is affected, sorry! I didn't want to do the big job, I just wanted to point to the "elephant in the room" that no one notices. There is no unwanted person on this planet, there are only people who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by these people. The mystery is solved! If you get attention like Quasimodo, there's no point in sifting them like a McDonald's boss sifting job candidates into his chain! It sounds rude here, but there is at least one more person standing in front of each caller who is sitting in a corner, suffering and wondering what's wrong with him. On the conscience of every selector are the unborn children and the murdered dreams of at least one person. This is no longer just our personal life and we have no right to deprive others of happiness! Neither I, nor you, nor anyone! I'm slightly affected today, so if anyone is affected, sorry! I didn't want to do the big job, I just wanted to point to the "elephant in the room" that no one notices. There is no unwanted person on this planet, there are only people who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by these people. The mystery is solved! there is no point in sifting them as the boss of McDonald's sifts job candidates in his chain! It sounds rude here, but there is at least one more person standing in front of each caller who is sitting in a corner, suffering and wondering what's wrong with him. On the conscience of every selector are the unborn children and the murdered dreams of at least one person. This is no longer just our personal life and we have no right to deprive others of happiness! Neither I, nor you, nor anyone! I'm slightly affected today, so if anyone is affected, sorry! I didn't want to do the big job, I just wanted to point to the "elephant in the room" that no one notices. There is no unwanted person on this planet, there are only people who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by these people. The mystery is solved! there is no point in sifting them as the boss of a McDonald's sifts job candidates in his chain! It sounds rude here, but there is at least one more person standing in front of each caller who is sitting in a corner, suffering and wondering what's wrong with him. On the conscience of every selector are the unborn children and the murdered dreams of at least one person. This is no longer just our personal life and we have no right to deprive others of happiness! Neither I, nor you, nor anyone! I'm slightly affected today, so if anyone is affected, sorry! I didn't want to do the big job, I just wanted to point to the "elephant in the room" that no one notices. There is no unwanted person on this planet, there are only people who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by these people. The mystery is solved! but at least one more person stands in front of each caller, sitting in a corner, suffering and wondering what is wrong with him. On the conscience of every selector are the unborn children and the murdered dreams of at least one person. This is no longer just our personal life and we have no right to deprive others of happiness! Neither I, nor you, nor anyone! I'm slightly affected today, so if anyone is affected, sorry! I didn't want to do the big job, I just wanted to point to the "elephant in the room" that no one notices. There is no unwanted person on this planet, there are only people who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by these people. The mystery is solved! but at least one more person stands in front of each caller, sitting in a corner, suffering and wondering what is wrong with him. On the conscience of every selector are the unborn children and the murdered dreams of at least one person. This is no longer just our personal life and we have no right to deprive others of happiness! Neither I, nor you, nor anyone! I'm slightly affected today, so if anyone is affected, sorry! I didn't want to do the big job, I just wanted to point to the "elephant in the room" that no one notices. There is no unwanted person on this planet, there are only people who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by these people. The mystery is solved! This is no longer just our personal life and we have no right to deprive others of happiness! Neither I, nor you, nor anyone! I'm slightly affected today, so if anyone is affected, sorry! I didn't want to do the big job, I just wanted to point to the "elephant in the room" that no one notices. There is no unwanted person on this planet, there are only people who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by these people. The mystery is solved! This is no longer just our personal life and we have no right to deprive others of happiness! Neither I, nor you, nor anyone! I'm slightly affected today, so if anyone is affected, sorry! I didn't want to do the big job, I just wanted to point to the "elephant in the room" that no one notices. There is no unwanted person on this planet, there are only people who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by these people. The mystery is solved! who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by exactly these people. The mystery is solved! who do not want to be wanted or do not want to be wanted by exactly these people. The mystery is solved!
8, you are talking absolute nonsense. How many good and naive people do they have, they don't even suspect behind their backs who is knitting what intrigue and what mud is being poured on them? There is a breed of people who have no hidden thoughts, say what they think and still suffer. No, it is not true that we receive what we have given or the attitude is mirrored. There are so many good, beautiful people who, when I see how they treat them, how they manipulate them, what they say behind their backs, I get scared. Because they live in an illusion and if they understand what is around them, they will just grab each other by the head ...