A Lifelong Partner?

   Well, there are many who sleep with everyone they meet, not to mention what your girlfriends are like in this case. If you want to be like them - go bold! She missed ... the body is a temple!

   Aha, so he agrees to a threesome with a woman, supposedly in front of you to cheat on you with another, but if a threesome with another man or swing could not be jealous ... Only from this I would advise you to experience your youth!

   I am a man and I tell you - if you are with the right person do not look away !!! . Years ago, I made the mistake of dumping the girl I was with for the first time, and who I was in love with so she wasn't the only one. Well, now I'm 30, I've slept a lot, but I never found another like her.

   See girl what you want is not good first do not speak well of you, because you will try with one, then with another, with a third and you become a rag and a sex subject for all men. You got along well with one, DON'T CHANGE HIM FOR JUST ONE SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN, DON'T MAKE THIS MISTAKE, just look at the one you replace him with it will turn out to be a complete tragedy in bed. Now are the times, but ask your mother or father maybe they did it together for the first time and they were the first and still are together (at least with my parents) and I can say that in their minds they do not something like this has happened. What does it mean to "live your youth"? - to sound like a crazy nymphomaniac, to shake every night, to drink and not find meaning in life or to smoke like a chimney like some TPPs? Think after you love him why are you "cheating" on him

   Emmy ... who doesn't have what - that's what he dreams about. The sage of Shopa, Vute, said: "What you want - you need!" If that's how you feel, that's how you'll do it, no matter how hard you try. After your friend is jealous - this is not a good trait. But even if it isn't, first stop your intimate relationship with him and wait a while before embarking on adventures with others, otherwise you seriously risk becoming the Great Anointing! "I'll be old now and even if we split up, I'll have a hard time finding a partner" - such things you can think of when you get over 45 - somewhere. Of course, you will not stay with one partner for life, especially nowadays. What's more - if you don't go crazy now, you will or will not do it in the "old days", which will be funny and unfortunate, because then it will be time for you to look after children. You are now 19. By the age of 30, think that all men in the world are yours! Then you will have to deal with more serious activities.

   What kind of person can post such a stupid topic. Instead of rejoicing that you were with the right person and that he cared about you, she started thinking that she would be alone with him. You don't love it when you express yourself that way. Love, trust mean nothing to you. You think it's kind of a pride to sleep with a few men or more just because others do. And what do you miss when you're with only one, let's hear if life is over. You prefer to live like a whore who changes them regularly and they consider her a rag. You know you don't deserve this boy, he needs a girl who is next to him and understands him, loves him truly and accepts him as he is. Too bad for him.

   Hah, you're not going to get married, so you're worried you'll be with him your whole life. After another year, you will separate and each will go his own way. If you want to end your relationship - take the first step after you want a new partner, new feelings and emotions ... With this you have already tried everything.

   Look, I've had a friend since I was 13. We went for almost 7 years .... It just so happened that it was time to separate. But you should not ask such questions if you love and want to be with your friend. Under the influence of your friends and others ... You are obviously not convinced that your friend is for you, the thrill is lost, etc. But if I see that one person has been with only one person all his life, regardless whether it is a man or a woman - I would congratulate him. In my opinion, such a person should be proud. And let me tell you - just because you sleep with a lot of boys doesn't mean you make a living. If sex with your boyfriend is satisfying, you shouldn't think that you will feel "alive" with others. Rather, this expression is for other entertainment - parties, travel, crazier experiences that young people want to try in order to finally feel "alive" . Again, if having sex with your boyfriend is good, it doesn't really matter if you've only been with one or 20. At least that's how I think. Ah, yes. And something else. There is nothing more beautiful and beautiful than making love to a person you are in love with. The experience is priceless. Such people who have had the opportunity to experience such a real experience - they are the lucky ones.

   My wife and I have been together since we were little. We only slept with each other and had no others. In the beginning I also had such torments, but now I am grateful that I was not tempted. The feeling of dedication is wonderful. With another, it will be like poking peppers in beans, without feelings. I have a history with my wife, I have feelings, I have reciprocity and many other things that no one else can give me. Think about whether you will lose the tame and have to chase the wild. Keep in mind that it is difficult to find a person with whom you really fit in and are happy for a long time. I don't think you missed anything, you were even lucky. And looking at the others who have been through a lot of partners, a lot of the pain has come from the many relationships, each of which has taken a little of their soul. They are now unhappy in their marriage, and my wife and I have been together for many years, and although we had crises in the beginning, we are now a very, very happy couple. Think about whether it's really worth making a living from, and what they tell you that you should have slept with a few men would really make you happy. Yes, ok, thrill, ahu-ihu a few days / months, but then ...?

   I thought so before ... with my ex-boyfriend. So I thought, I ate .. And we broke up, because of my disgusting attitude, I had become unbearable .. Now I have another friend, frankly sorry, for the things tried with the previous, too much experience makes me feel bad, who has not told me what a whore I am, of course it's not true I slept with 2, not with 200, but still, don't think you'll be better ... your girlfriends don't like that they slept a lot or that have had many boyfriends, it is best to have someone to trust, to love, etc. Rejoice, you are lucky :) Ungrateful, besides.

   If you think about it, then you want to be with someone else. You will always wonder what it is. Young you have time for serious relationships now is the time to have fun.

   love your boy, diversify with him, don't think about consumption ... love is giving!

   You ask if you shouldn't "make a living" and then commit ... I'm one of those people with a man as a sexual partner in general. I can say for myself that I did not miss such a livelihood - in the sense of going out with a lot of guys and finally choosing someone, going to clubs and discos ... because I don't drink or smoke and I'm not attracted to such places, and my girlfriend was almost raped in such a place. If we are talking about making a living for me, this includes completing a good education and traveling to various interesting places or just being free and not having any commitments, but not the above. For me, such a way of "making a living" was foreign to me and I do not think that it would enrich me - on the contrary, it would only exhaust me emotionally and mentally, we are not talking about morality at all .... My friend and later my husband was enough for me and I didn't feel the need to be with a lot of different guys - I just don't see much point in it unless something is lame or you're missing out on the relationship ... If you really love this boy and you say he's decent and serious you wouldn't think that way at all, or even less terrified that you'll be alone with him or "you don't want to miss your youth", by which you mean changing different boys to see how it is with others and finally after everyone is tired enough to decide that it's time to catch up with someone because it's time for something more serious .... Somehow you think superficially, and I it seems that you are not ready for a serious commitment at this stage. Which is better - to have one, but accurate as for 10, or 10 men and none of them for nothing serious and still wandering and tormenting and finally catching up with someone, just enough to have someone there. I think the first case ... Another question is that maybe it's a little early for you to get married yet.

   If you think that you have missed something and you are horrified by the thought that you will be alone with him all your life and that if you separate, you will be old ... what can we say? No, you won't be old, but as people say - everything with your time, if you haven't gone crazy, is hard ... There are people who get engaged small and are together all their lives, but they are obviously very compatible ... well I didn't meet one at 15, it happened when I was 28 :) thinking that I also wanted to meet the man of my life at your age, I'm dying of laughter :) well, I'm not ... Don't you think to study? How would your friend react if you became a student and wanted to go to a party, for example ??? I think he will come with you and look suspiciously for a possible downloader, believe me, this is not pleasant at all. So he would only date a woman ... hmmm ... so he can, you can't:) ... think about her again? When you love someone,

   Fuck him. Make 4-5 devastating relationships like all normal women, in addition, 4-5 men with whom you will only be in bed, and then when you are 25-30 years old, look for one like your boyfriend. At least you'll know what you're looking for

   No, you don't have to try other guys. It is normal to have curiosity on your part. How about someone else? The first love is the truest, the strongest. Given that the person loves you and gives everything for this relationship, there is no need to deal with other boys. If you don't believe me, try it and you will see for yourself what kind of idiots there are and how unhappy you will be with them, because it won't be HE. You decide for yourself, but if you do it there is no going back! Look at the quality, not the quantity, like your friends;)

   Just like you, we're with your friend. I'm 18, he's a few years older than me. He had different boyfriends before me, he had sex and so on. It is my first and I have asked myself this question as well as you. I will be happy to read different opinions! Regarding mine, I am happy with him now and I hope to be together in the future. It doesn't bother me that he's the only one I've been with, I'm even proud of the fact.

   I am in the same situation at the age of 24 and with only one. I don't know if it's normal or not, but it often goes through my head, "with only one"?

   Dude would try another girl, but can't share you with someone ??? I understand what this love is! If he really loves you, he won't make you make a threesome - that's hypocrisy ... Don't live in fictional worlds (like mine, by the way), but either find another boy or secretly find another boy ... As much as to love him is yours - the thought that you missed something will NOT leave you ... That's why I left my first girlfriend.

   I don't think you get involved with this man. Break up with him and live as you want. You will meet another, but youth will never return. Never.

   Honey, the threesome with a girl and your boyfriend won't make you more experienced, at most after that you can't look at each other seriously with yours. He will hardly want children from you later and you will be as experienced as you expect. If you don't want to be considered infidelity, you leave him, you find a partner, you become more experienced and what, one day you feel that you missed the boy of your dreams, for one attempt.

   You should be happy girl! If everything goes well between you, if you love, understand and have fun, that's great, realize it! Look what I'm going to tell you ... men don't like women who have had a lot of friends and slept with a lot of men, these women don't earn much respect. In my opinion, these women do not have enough dignity, honestly, this is the truth. Most men would be happy if the woman next to them slept with few men. If something in your relationship no longer brings you out, stop it, and don't think about nonsense like this, "just a lifetime," because you don't know what will happen tomorrow, you may break up for some reason. You're 19, it's not many years, your youth is just beginning ... and the fact that you spent your teenage years with your boyfriend, I think that you will have a very good memory that you will remember in 10 years with a smile. LIVE IN THE PRESENT MOMENT ONLY HIM. IF YOUR CURRENT MOMENT IS PLEASANT, JUST LIVE IT! x. x

   From the author. Please do not judge or accuse me. I don't want to be a bitch, I don't approve of my girlfriends' behavior, I'm just curious about what I haven't tried. It's normal, as №5 said "who doesn't have what - he dreams about it", I'm not the only one who asks these things. Both №21 and №22 have admitted, and I'm sure there are more. I love my boyfriend and I will not leave him for one sex with other men, I am not so superficial, №7. And to those who advise me to leave it and have fun because I'm young, I answer that I don't have that much motivation to do it. My curiosity is not so great as to ruin my relationship. We've had problems, we've both made compromises, we've built something I wouldn't spoil with infidelity or my imaginary worries. I would rather talk to him and share my embarrassments with him. Towards №2 and №23: He mainly winds me up for a threesome not to sleep with another girl in my presence, but to watch me with her. You know, men get very aroused by female love. I haven't seriously discussed swinging with him with another couple, I just mentioned, I don't know how he will take it. Towards №17: I am already a student and he behaves very well, the halves of my colleagues are much more jealous. She lets me go to parties alone, she doesn't even want to come with me (not only because she's older, but she doesn't think she needs to come everywhere with me). And while I'm out with colleagues, he doesn't call me all the time, he doesn't care when I get home. Well, his colleagues from the company are not very nice to him, he sometimes makes comments about how I would have dumped him because of them, but everything is within limits. Thank you all, who told me not to bother and to look the other way. Apparently someone really needs to tell me that "many women dream of your stable relationship." I really want to be one of those couples - like №12, who even after many years love each other and are faithful to each other. Although you are both first in your family, unlike us. Time will tell how things will turn out with my friend.

   A psychologist told me research from other world psychologists, statistics from younger to 50-60 year olds. Somewhere around 85% or a little more (my mistake that I don't remember exactly, I was in a hurry to ask him something else) have cheated on their serious partner during their lives. At least 1 time (or more). This includes very momentary outings, even for one time. Does not include if a person has had 2-3-4-5 etc relationships in his life but have not overlapped in time. It turns out that out of every 10, only 1 has always been totally faithful to his partner. In connection with those who are from a very young age together all their lives. Some family friends of my parents have been together since 10th grade at school. They are already over 50 years old and have always been together in everything, they are financially well, they have 2 wonderful children, a harmonious couple and so far they love each other a lot (it is obvious). But years ago, my father almost missed that I. (the man) told him they were good friends. It has happened to him (rarely for sure) in women, just for sex. His wife in front of people does not believe that he cheated on her at all, he may have his own slight suspicions, but since everything is wonderful between them, why dig deep? On the other hand, we don't know if she has ever been tempted to try 40 years of family life. If they had both done so, they had shown enough wisdom for something very short so that it would not be heard and hurt the other. They look good and have 100% candidates. We are a polygamous tribe of people, but everyone is different and sits somewhere between the two extremes. It is preferable to the more monogamous de. Author, at the age of 18-20 when I was, a very cool man with a lot of life experience told me not to choose a virgin woman. Or some half-virgin, with one having some unspoken sex to open. His words were more or less that it was good for the woman to have seen a little, two, three or a few before, just so she wouldn't wonder what the "other" would be. But even if it's not some messy one, whoever wants to go through it :). In the middle is his mother. If you want to try another man, it will always open an opportunity sooner or later. And as long as you carefully hide it and no more than a few times - no problem. But this other possibility can "take" you far. Sometimes in infidelity, both men and women suddenly realize, discover that the thrill of love is lost somewhere long ago, and only now have they understood it. Anyway, you are both very young, you have not studied, you have fully earned, you have lived together to believe in life plans. Things are going to happen over time,

   You are still young, I would even say "small". Do not rush to commit and create a family, children, etc. The rest will take care of itself. And in the best way, if you don't rush things. Take your time, be honest, the rest is "God's work"!

   I'm number 17. If it gives you freedom, fine :) In my opinion, a serious relationship of 15 years is not ok, but this is my opinion, everything has its exceptions and you may be one of them ... I will not comment what is it called by the law ... Whatever you tell me, at the age of 19 you have no mind, let alone at the age of 15. The situation is both itchy and painful, buy a vibrator and use it .. Now there are so many sex toys, which can replace a third person in bed. Time will tell if he is the man, but there are also people who stay together despite the obvious incompatibility ... it is not easy. Very few men do not cheat, that is, very few men are not complex. You probably meet a lot of cattle on your way and then wonder how you could have been so stupid. You are still young, you will understand many things in time. Experiment, buy a vibrator and try new different poses. And I still think that if you are with the right person, you will not miss contact with other men ... Good luck child

   I am a man and I tell you. Live and have fun. There is no way to evaluate one if you do not know another. Try with others. With young and old. Catch a sleeping boy from the street and take him home and surrender to him. Without asking him for the name. Then forget it. I know many girls who have played bosses for purely commercial reasons and others. And that's not a bad thing. As Lili Ivanova sings ... to go through male fires ... Such are the times - such are the manners!

   I think you're tired of your friend already. You love it, but the strong attraction you felt in the beginning has subsided, and you want to experience this emotion again. Otherwise, I am of the opinion that if you fit in and you like sex and everything you do with it, you would not be curious how it will be with someone else.

   There is nothing wrong with being with only one man in your life. If you don't feel a real need to be with someone else (I mean passion and physical attraction) it's completely pointless to do so. I'm 27, I've had sex with 5 men and three of them were not who knows what. In fact, it was nothing. One was fine. And with my current boyfriend ... Well, I can call it "the most shocking feeling." In general, you haven't lost much and I don't see any sense in ruining your relationship because of one sex. And the fact that you "missed something", that you "had only one intimate partner" terrifies you is a prejudice of your generation because of the environment in which you grew up. Just overcome it! Love your boy, be happy together and stop harassing your beautiful head with nonsense. Success! F27

   To the author from number 21! When I read your last comment (28) I have the feeling that you are talking about me and my friend! I am glad that there are other such couples and I wish you much success!

   Author, it's not a question of whether or not you want to be a whore. It's just that if you're genetically predisposed, whether you want to or not, at some point you'll be like that - that's it!

   just because you thought about leaving him and living your life means you don't really love him. You're with him just to say you have a boyfriend. How can there be people like you I don't know ...? Too bad for the boy, you don't deserve it !!!

   Author, I do not know why you were left with the impression that "making a living" in youth involves changing partners. This is a fabrication of our commercial world. There are many other things you can do as a young person to give you satisfaction. I know you think the problem is with you, but I'll tell you the problem is with your girlfriends. The fact that a vice is committed by the majority does not make it any less a vice. Irresponsible boys and "girlfriends" will tell you that you have to make a living (as already commented here). Don't listen to them, because at a later stage these people usually have unstable marriages, become single parents, get nervous about everything. I guarantee you that there is nothing better than being able to create a deep emotional connection with one person. On the other hand, I don't tell you to stay with your friend if you don't appreciate and love him.

   From the author. You are right that I am small and my thinking is not quite mature, I do not say the opposite. It would be foolish to get seriously involved and start a family soon, as №31 and №17 say in their second opinion. We are not in a hurry, the time is ahead of us, I have not caught the "last train", as I almost dramatize it. And as for experimenting in bed - yes, it's a good idea, but it's a little hard to curl up. We both offer some new things, but their realization remains in the future. This is good on the one hand, we are not fed up with each other, but we also need action. Towards №34: I wouldn't say I'm bored. Yes, I'm used to it, but anyone who has / has had a long relationship (even not 4 years like us) can say that the relationship can not be as in the beginning. Many things change, I'm not so blindly in love with him, but he is very close to me, sometimes he understands me better than I do. I love him and I am very grateful to him for supporting me and telling me when I'm wrong. Towards №39: Yes, I thought, but I don't feel like "letting go of the tame to chase the wild." Why should I do that? Ah, №37, I really hope I'm not genetically predisposed. I try to think by the familiar logic "all women are whores ..." Towards №21: And I'm very glad I'm not the only one in this situation. :) I admire you for being proud of the fact that you were only with him and you don't have "wrong" thoughts like me. I hope things go well between you and you love each other very much! The comment on №35 gave me great hope. It is very reassuring that my thoughts are "the prejudice of your generation because of the environment in which you grew up." Such is the time I doubt that 50 years ago women with a single partner were as many as they are today. Why should I be like most today? After all, I live for myself, not for others. Thank you for your support and your attempt to protect me from disappointment, after which there will be no going back. :)

   I was like you. I had a 5 year relationship and now I understand that he was my man, no one else would suit me so well. It wasn't my first, it was my second, but I was very young. I was always haunted by the feeling that I lacked thrill and so I found a new thrill - the great love (so I thought then). Now I realize that only once in a person's life is he given a chance to meet the right person. Don't bother with thoughts that you haven't experienced something, because that's not your problem. Maybe you're missing something else, maybe not, but by no means hurt the people who really care about you. If you start "living your life", you may see that the world is full of vulgarity, lies, but everything is disgusting, and sex is just sex - it can be nice with only one person, and you can have them every day. you change and still miss something.

   Author, I married a man who had not "lived" and after several years of marriage he cheated on me. He must have wondered as an author, I married a man who had not "lived" and after a few years my brother cheated on me. He must have wondered, like you, if he was missing something. So my theory is "to be" when you are young and single, so that you are not tempted during marriage. Unlike him, I had impressions of the opposite sex and was aware of myself. So my theory is "to be" when you are young and single, so that you are not tempted later and hurt the person next to you. You need a basis for comparison and if you silence this question you are asking yourself, sooner or later you will cheat. Make a living and then think about serious relationships. Warranty, 4e you will not endure for a long time faithful to your current friend, no matter how suitable he is for lifelong coexistence. Curiosity will eat you away and you will always be tempted. Gain experience - now is your time (moderate and reasonable, of course). After years, the feelings in the marriage fade and each of the partners is more susceptible to "external influences". As they wrote above, 9 out of 10 people cheat on their spouses. So even if you squeeze in now, in years to come it is inevitable for you - you will want it subconsciously and you will most likely go with the flow. Well, I think that even if you decide to be faithful to him now, in time you will look for yourself, because "your life has turned gray, it is not the same and does not love you as it once did, because you want to feel alive again and desired ... Over the years, people and desires change.Success! F 34 however suitable it may be for lifelong coexistence. Curiosity will eat you away and you will always be tempted. Gain experience - now is your time (moderate and reasonable, of course). After years, the feelings in the marriage fade and each of the partners is more susceptible to "external influences". As they wrote above, 9 out of 10 people cheat on their spouses. So even if you squeeze in now, in years to come it is inevitable for you - you will want it subconsciously and you will most likely go with the flow. Well, I think that even if you decide to be faithful to him now, in time you will look for yourself, because "your life has turned gray, it is not the same and does not love you as it once did, because you want to feel alive again and desired ... Over the years, people and desires change.Success! F 34 however suitable it may be for lifelong coexistence. Curiosity will eat you away and you will always be tempted. Gain experience - now is your time (moderate and reasonable, of course). After years, the feelings in the marriage fade and each of the partners is more susceptible to "external influences". As they wrote above, 9 out of 10 people cheat on their spouses. So even if you squeeze in now, in years to come it is inevitable for you - you will want it subconsciously and you will most likely go with the flow. Well, I think that even if you decide to be faithful to him now, in time you will look for yourself, because "your life has turned gray, it is not the same and does not love you as it once did, because you want to feel alive again and desired ... Over the years, people and desires change.Success! F 34 Gain experience - now is your time (moderate and reasonable, of course). After years, the feelings in the marriage fade and each of the partners is more susceptible to "external influences". As they wrote above, 9 out of 10 people cheat on their spouses. So even if you squeeze in now, in years to come it is inevitable for you - you will want it subconsciously and you will most likely go with the flow. Well, I think that even if you decide to be faithful to him now, in time you will look for yourself, because "your life has turned gray, it is not the same and does not love you as it once did, because you want to feel alive again and desired ... Over the years, people and desires change.Success! F 34 Gain experience - now is your time (moderate and reasonable, of course). After years, the feelings in the marriage fade and each of the partners is more susceptible to "external influences". As they wrote above, 9 out of 10 people cheat on their spouses. So even if you squeeze in now, in years to come it is inevitable for you - you will want it subconsciously and you will most likely go with the flow. Well, I think that even if you decide to be faithful to him now, in time you will look for yourself, because "your life has turned gray, it is not the same and does not love you as it once did, because you want to feel alive again and desired ... Over the years, people and desires change.Success! F 34 So even if you squeeze in now, in years to come it is inevitable for you - you will want it subconsciously and you will most likely go with the flow. Well, I think that even if you decide to be faithful to him now, in time you will look for yourself, because "your life has turned gray, it is not the same and does not love you as it once did, because you want to feel alive again and desired ... Over the years, people and desires change.Success! F 34 So even if you squeeze in now, in years to come it is inevitable for you - you will want it subconsciously and you will most likely go with the flow. Well, I think that even if you decide to be faithful to him now, in time you will look for yourself, because "your life has turned gray, it is not the same and does not love you as it once did, because you want to feel alive again and desired ... Over the years, people and desires change.Success! F 34

   You are all great moralists and judges on this site ... each was only with two, three and made a living. In my opinion, if you want to try another person, then you are not ready to get seriously engaged only with him. Look at things realistically, if everything in your relationship was perfect, such thoughts would not cross your mind. You want to make a living, but you don't want to let it go. You miss the thrill of flirting, you want to experience those first moments once again with others, to compare if there are better ones than your friend. You can always flirt secretly, so you won't ruin your relationship, and maybe you'll get answers to your questions and help you decide whether to stay with him or not. Threesomes are not an option for me personally, but you can talk about some distance between you, or an open relationship. I have personally been with exactly 38 sexual partners, and I am 24 years old. I have been having sex since I was 17, which makes 4, 75 (4-5) partners a year. I don't regret anything, I don't think I'm a jerk, no one else thinks so. I've been with a man for half a year now, and honestly I don't feel the need, I don't want to be with other men, just because he gives me everything I've been looking for so far. Your girlfriends change boyfriends often, just like I did, just because they're looking for the One! I hope you make the right decision!

   You will not feel better at all if you try another. I've been with my first husband for 10 years and I've been wondering what it's like to have more experience, but I don't want to get one. This would ruin my current relationship and make sex more banal for me. Now everything is somehow more charming and special. Don't lose the happiness you have.

   From the author For the last month or month and something I realized that these thoughts - that I want to try with another, appear when we argue with my friend. There is no way everything is perfect, it happens that he is jealous of me for no reason, that he wants me to spend all my free time with him. Then it seems to me that I am angry that I am with him despite his small shortcomings. There are also moments when everything between us is perfect, helps me and supports me as my closest person. Then I wonder how I could think of other boys. I even shared my worries about him being my only partner. He didn't like it at all, he listened to me, but he didn't seem to realize how deep in my head this curiosity was. He mentioned in words that he allowed me to try another, but only by imagining how much it would hurt him and I gave it back. Lately we are trying new things in bed. it's cool to diversify, it definitely refreshes our relationship. Well, there are other worries that new things will run out and there will be nothing else to think about. What nonsense goes through my head when something is wrong between us. maybe I should talk to a psychologist, or nz and I kfo. I'm not going crazy, yab

   Author, problems are born in your head and that's where the movies start. This is true for every person :( So talk about these things with patillo, not old! If your family is adequate talk to them! If you sleep with another boy / girl do not think that your problems will disappear !!! EVEN THAT MUCH MORE WILL HAPPEN TO YOU !!! I don't invent these things, these are facts !!! I have to admit that you do well to talk and them, with your friend, this is the first step to solving a problem. In every relationship there are good and bad moments and quarrels and romance, etc. Get used to it! If you are going to sleep with another boy, yours will not look at you as before. You know what is happening when you sit on two chairs alone. you're with someone, stay with him! If you don't say goodbye to him, you break up and you go to the other one! It's just words, I write it easily, but in reality it is much harder to do. If you have money, talk to a psychologist (but not a young woman, because they don't get up - they don't understand their job)

   And I plan to stay with a girl all my life, but I'm also number 9 on the list (and 8 serious relationship), and at times without wanting it when I think of numbers, etc. I get angry when I imagine how much they have still touched her, but it is a fact that I see the best of her, she is frequent, open and frank, so I will be with her. The bad thing is that I'm impulsive, and if it makes me angry I can take it off. I count her as the first and only one in my life, because only with her I made love, I have a few pathetic experiences with one-dayers that I want to forget, but this malice that she was with more is nasty at times, psychologically I have to heal

   But you are very open, you were a girl! I slept with a boy for the first time at the age of 20 and I didn't like it, after which I had sex again after 3 years. And she, since she was 15 years old! That he talks about group sex too! And she is only 19 years old. Most decent girls, according to my criteria, lie over the textbooks and do not think nonsense and compare themselves with other, light girls! Because education is the most important thing in this life, even more important than the partner! At least that's what I think

   From the author: I'm thinking of finding a discreet lover to see 3 times a week to check my watch with other men!

   And what exactly are you going to check - do you think that this "discreet lover" will be great in sex, that it will be more exciting with him ... or what. How do you think it will be more interesting than the current one. I think it's just that your man is more or less tired of you, your curiosity prevails and your feelings subside when it comes to your mind and you want to try others. This is no longer a connection. Scratch your itch with someone / s, but you will hardly benefit from it. Then you will feel used and discarded ... If I have no feelings, it is pure prostitution. And you can only become like a rag that men just have fun with and then throw out of their lives ....

   Ade moralists attacked ...

   Author, please! Why do you listen to this advice? Just to be 19 and already want a lover? Nothing keeps you from your friend! You want - go after others, but why with a lie? !! This is complete nonsense about discretion and "reason" - the truth always comes out, just a lot of people pretend they don't know how to keep something - family, home ... It feels sooner or later and it hurts a lot when you trust and it collapses like thunder from a clear sky. Why do you have to do this to a person? It is clear that you do not love him as much as you intend to break. No one is to blame for your torments, and everyone has the right to an honest treatment, and a lie is in itself a disrespect, no matter what it is or for what reasons. It's also horrible selfishness - both you want to be well and you're not too bad with it, so he has to put up with all your whims and God forbid he just doesn't know you're hurting him. And the man left him and that's it! He has the right to choose, and to choose, he must be aware of the facts. Concealing facts is depriving him of the right to choose. There are men who are not jealous, there are women - free relationships and more. similar. I do not understand why, in the 21st century, lies must be at the heart of everything, when there is such a variety of possible attitudes. To be deceived once - to be broken by some delusion and then to regret - I understand that, there is a mistake - there is forgiveness. But to plan it and then expect a future with this person? You will have a discreet lover until you meet someone to replace your friend, and now you are afraid of "missing" him, because there may be no better. Parasitism is this ... that you are doing him harm. And the man left him and that's it! He has the right to choose, and to choose, he must be aware of the facts. Concealing facts is depriving him of the right to choose. There are men who are not jealous, there are women - free relationships and more. similar. I do not understand why in the 21st century at the heart of everything should be a lie, when there is such a variety of possible attitudes. To be deceived once - to be broken by some delusion and then to regret - I understand that, there is a mistake - there is forgiveness. But to plan it and then expect a future with this person? You will have a discreet lover until you meet someone to replace your friend, and now you are afraid of "missing" him, because there may be no better. Parasitism is this ... that you are doing him harm. And the man left him and that's it! He has the right to choose, and to choose, he must be aware of the facts. Concealing facts is depriving him of the right to choose. There are men who are not jealous, there are women - free relationships and more. similar. I do not understand why in the 21st century at the heart of everything should be a lie, when there is such a variety of possible attitudes. To be deceived once - to be broken by some delusion and then to regret - I understand that, there is a mistake - there is forgiveness. But to plan it and then expect a future with this person? You will have a discreet lover until you meet someone to replace your friend, and now you are afraid of "missing" him, because there may be no better. Parasitism is this ... Concealing facts is depriving him of the right to choose. There are men who are not jealous, there are women - free relationships and more. similar. I do not understand why in the 21st century at the heart of everything should be a lie, when there is such a variety of possible attitudes. To be deceived once - to be broken by some delusion and then to regret - I understand that, there is a mistake - there is forgiveness. But to plan it and then expect a future with this person? You will have a discreet lover until you meet someone to replace your friend, and now you are afraid of "missing" him, because there may be no better. Parasitism is this ... Concealing facts is depriving him of the right to choose. There are men who are not jealous, there are women - free relationships and more. similar. I do not understand why in the 21st century at the heart of everything should be a lie, when there is such a variety of possible attitudes. To be deceived once - to be broken by some delusion and then to regret - I understand that, there is a mistake - there is forgiveness. But to plan it and then expect a future with this person? You will have a discreet lover until you meet someone to replace your friend, and now you are afraid of "missing" him, because there may be no better. Parasitism is this ... since there is such a variety of possible attitudes. To be deceived once - to be broken by some delusion and then to regret - I understand that, there is a mistake - there is forgiveness. But to plan it and then expect a future with this person? You will have a discreet lover until you meet someone to replace your friend, and now you are afraid of "missing" him, because there may be no better. Parasitism is this ... since there is such a variety of possible attitudes. To be deceived once - to be broken by some delusion and then to regret - I understand that, there is a mistake - there is forgiveness. But to plan it and then expect a future with this person? You will have a discreet lover until you meet someone to replace your friend, and now you are afraid of "missing" him, because there may be no better. Parasitism is this ...

   54, why do you hate "moralists" so much? Didn't we live in a free world? Why should anyone reproach you for having morals just because he lacks them?

   From the author The comment under number 52 was not written by me !!! Of course, I wouldn't lie to him. Everyone can write that he is the author and invent nonsense !!! It is too naive to think that we will be together forever, because we have been going for 4 and a half years. I realize it, it's childish. To №51: You can't say such things about me without even reading what I wrote! Just because I've been dating him since I was 15 doesn't mean I've been sleeping with him ever since. If you want to know, I was almost 17 when we did ... And you can't talk with disgust about experimenting with sex! Just because society seemed a lot more conservative in your day doesn't mean the same things didn't happen! And who tells you that I do not lie over the teaching? Should I show you my high school diploma or my grades in the student book? Everyone talks like that! To №52: Let's write a topic of your own, not introduce yourself as the author in mine! Thanks in advance. Please, who has nothing to do with the issue, do not write nonsense! It's just that everyone judges others without looking at themselves. I wrote the topic to reassure myself that there are other people in my situation, to share and make it easier for me. I don't want you to play any movies about how I'm another bitch who wants to sleep with everyone I meet. I am a completely normal girl! who wants to sleep with everyone she meets. I am a completely normal girl! who wants to sleep with everyone she meets. I am a completely normal girl!

   ... there is no monogamy for life and it is not necessary in my opinion and the absence of monogamy in a long relationship does not mean a lack of morality or responsibility ....

   Author, live as long as you can. Change 200 if you want, that doesn't make you. and. Live your life, because if you break up after marriage, it will become very ugly and complicated. There is no point in this topic, you know that while you are on Earth you have to have fun. No matter how worn out: "You're made for fun, live for fun."