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A Lonely Boy

By 1duck1love August 29, 2020 16 answers Last updated August 29, 2020

I decided to write here because once again I am alone and lonely and there is no one to go out with to have fun or anything like that. I'm 18 and now it's time to go out the most and have fun, but in fact it's not. I study in Varna, but in general I'm not from here and I don't have many friends. I had a serious relationship for 1 year, but it ended a few months ago and I have already experienced it. Not to brag, but I'm beautiful in appearance and I like girls, but I have a very different character from that of other boys and so far I have not found a girl who is like me and with whom I can be myself. I'm romantic, I watch romantic movies and I want a girl like that. I would give roses to my girl, I would write a poem, I would take long romantic walks, and then I would make passionate love with her. Of course I don't want to do just these things, I like variety, I also like going to discos, for example, and coffee, but not too often. As I read on the internet, all women and girls want this, and in fact I have not met any of them. All the girls I like outwardly, after I started to get to know them, I understand that they are sleazy, selfish, regularly smoking and drinking, bloated and pretending to be the greatest. Maybe my problem is that I'm 18 and I want a serious relationship, and girls my age are not looking for that, but older than me will not pay attention to me and in the end I will be alone again. What do you think I should do? Give me some advice once I started to get to know them, I realized that they were sleazy, selfish, regularly smoking and drinking, bloated and pretending to be the greatest. Maybe my problem is that I'm 18 and I want a serious relationship, and girls my age are not looking for that, but older than me will not pay attention to me and in the end I will be alone again. Tell me what do you think I should do? Give me some advice once I started to get to know them, I realized that they were sleazy, selfish, regularly smoking and drinking, bloated and pretending to be the greatest. Maybe my problem is that I'm 18 and I want a serious relationship, and girls my age are not looking for that, but older than me will not pay attention to me and in the end I will be alone again. What do you think I should do? Give me some advice

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storyofmydress answered · August 29, 2020

   Hello! I'm a girl, I'm a few years older than you, but I'd pay attention to you. I think we would like it. But I'm not from Varna. Otherwise, it makes a very good impression on me that you are looking for a serious relationship these years. It is commendable!

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member8120 answered · August 29, 2020

   It only hurts when I read the post and straight ... you are the boy-dream !! I'm just sorry that he shared it's not a dating site: / And on top of that you're from Varna ...; x because I'm from Varna too. : D I didn't believe that there were guys like you left honestly ... wherever I turn, I meet more and more superficial people. Apparently you also encounter such. I advise you not to give up! (I advise myself the same) You will meet the girl for you when you least expect it! Success!

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nowunitedmusic answered · August 29, 2020

   Hello! :) I'm a girl, 17. I know it's very difficult for people like us, different from the table, to find our soul mate, but I think it's still possible. I guess with vision, intellect and good character, no one is left alone yet. If you were like the others, you would already have a wonderful "muffin" and use it healthily. True, she wouldn't understand what you were saying to her, she would drag you to chalga clubs ... well, and? You wouldn't feel better, rest assured. The guys around me are complete geeks, people with perverted thinking ... I'm disgusted. If the essence of the relationship is sex, and sex is based on a 15-minute push back and forth - no, thank you. We have to look for the real thing. This often involves not only demand but also waiting. Somewhere, some beautiful girl is waiting for you and you will be very happy, I'm sure. Fingers crossed! :)

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sweetiewow answered · August 29, 2020

   If you were definitely the "dream boy", every girl would like to be given flowers or poems, but some of today's girls don't appreciate him and don't know how much they miss, but that's for them. You don't ruin your life at all, look ahead so you don't care and everything will be fine if you have such qualities WOW, I envy the one who will be with you, I'm still looking for such a prince, but I can't find him, I always come across some fallen liglevtsi. ... f17

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inslee answered · August 29, 2020

   The author writes his own comments

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makeupforevermea answered · August 30, 2020

   I've always written this (topic). You're just looking for 18-year-olds, but these girls still have wind around their ears. And I'm 18 years old, and I'm telling you guys like us will notice us a little later. When the girls find out that the boys they are dating are oligophrenic and will look for something else that they lack, but we have;) But I'm not saying that there are no decent girls our age, just most of them are still decent, but they are looking for oligophrenics, they still get to know people, etc. But honestly, see the truth. Oligophrenics are up to a time - they are just the beginning. But then as the girls realize and look for boys like us and so we find friends and prove to them that not all boys are pigs :)

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phoebejtonkin answered · August 30, 2020

   OH YEAH! That's right! When we turn 30, they will look for us as unseen. They will stick to us and suck our blood like leeches. Personally, I do not agree to be "appreciated" after the pickle was shaken for 10 years by batkovtsi at the discos ...

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crimebydesign answered · August 30, 2020

   It is true, as number 8 says, and by the way I am number 7, and I say that this is true, but still there are girls (decent) who do not pay attention to you at first, but pay attention to those who are disbanded and go with one and they see that he is not aware, they go with another, and the same thing, but I'm talking about those who realized in time and those who are looking for love, not looking for sex, but just think that these drunks will be able to give them love, but almost not a month and realize that they are not with the right and so after 3-4 fleeting relationships, without any serious things and sex, etc., these girls begin to pay more attention to inner beauty than on the outside :) and slowly realize what they really want and know how to protect themselves and really protect themselves more :)

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iamchrislane answered · August 31, 2020

   Preferably look for quiet and shy girls, they are good and over time as you get to know them they open up. But they need more time. In most cases, they are even unnoticed under your nose.

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sevillanegocios answered · August 31, 2020

   "5. The author writes his own comments" - Ahahahahahahahah crazy, crazy: D .. sorry for the spam, I couldn't help myself.

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presidencebenin answered · August 31, 2020

   as if you are my second ME! I'm a girl of 17, write me on skype: ....... moderator - in your interest I did not post your skype - there are a lot of people who would abuse it and you would not have peace. I advise you, if you want us to publish contact information as an exception, to write to the lonely boy, to send an e-mail address, WHICH MUST be fictitious and not related to Skype and Facebook profiles. I hope for your understanding, we do everything in your interest.

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psisfcofficial answered · September 01, 2020

   "As I read on the Internet, all women and girls want this, but in fact I have not met any of them." Mdaaa :(

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martymarty4242 answered · September 01, 2020

   Hello dear boy! I'm a 20 year old girl and I still don't have any friends. I'm delighted to be who you are. And be like that! Do not despair, do not let loneliness overwhelm you! Sooner or later you will find a nice, romantic, smart, good, decent girl (although there are now a lot of poisoned, slimy, spoiled and stupid girls who make poop). Have dignity and don't be like other "males". Such muzzles are everywhere. It is a pity that they are preferable to the many muffins in Bulgaria. Do not despair, look - a girl will notice your dignity, spiritual beauty and charm. Emphasize especially the spiritual beauty, because it is a very strong quality. This is what made you stronger than the brainless fitness boys. I wish you success!

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establishedblonde answered · September 01, 2020

   The tragedy of all is that they are looking for both perfect beauties and great people. In our time, bloated and beautiful curans and muffins rule ... Well, there are exceptions, but I don't know. I personally don't even look for it, it doesn't happen by force. If one day it comes, it will be surprisingly good

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danielleyayalaa answered · September 02, 2020

   Hello boy! Well, what can I tell you, I'm like you, I've always wanted a serious relationship, but I, like you, can't find my boyfriend (dream)! To love me, of course, we support, to accept me as I am, not to lie to me! I've been looking for it for a long time and I'm tired! Like my friends, I want to have someone with me to rely on, to share, to bring back the smile on my face, to be happy with him!

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charlesmichel answered · September 03, 2020

   You are a one-to-one person like me .. when I read what you wrote it was like reading my story .. I am 18 and I also fall in love and I want a serious relationship at this age, but as I told you girls at this age are from the big good morning .. as if their mother is the Queen of England: X I'm glad that at least I'm not the only one with such early intentions for a serious relationship .. as for the problem "our" to tell you honestly I do not know if there is a solution .. I think I should to spend another year or two and hopefully then we are "batkovtsi" on which one can stick :)