Hello, this is my first time writing on such a site! My problem is that I am lonely. I am a boy of 20 years old, I have no friends, I have no girlfriend (boyfriend) and I have not even had, I have not kissed a girl, I have not slept with a girl (I am a virgin). So I decided to write on this site for some advice. Because I'm starting to think I'm ugly and stupid to girls. And if I'm bad I'm not, I'm good, nice, I don't smoke much but I rarely drink, it's true I'm not a little muscular, but I train and I plan to change that, I dress as well as I can; (Sometimes when I go out with some acquaintances all talk about their boyfriends who does what, who costs what and it becomes hard for me (when I come home to us), I even cried (but I'm a man, I don't have to cry but I just can't stand it), which for some can to come out funny, but it's not like that - I've always called myself one day, someone (day) but that day never came anyway. I'm starting to think I'm not wanted in this world and I'm thinking of killing myself (I've even figured out how). It's just that I'm obviously not meant to love and be loved by a "girl." This is my story. Thanks in advance for the hearing. I hope someone will give me some advice. (Sorry if I have spelling mistakes).
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I'm like you too (I'm even close to your age), but obviously that's our luck. I don't know what advice to give you, except don't despair ...
What kind of suicide was a man? !! What nonsense! Come on, we're unhappy and we're having trouble killing ourselves! This is nonsense. Are you going to die for one "love" ??? !! Don't think about how unwanted you are and that you didn't have a girlfriend or kiss a girl. And your time will come, do not give much trouble! I also don't have friends and I haven't had serious relationships, but I don't care! I wish you success in the future and NEVER CHANGE BECAUSE OF OTHERS !!! :) Ж20
A few days ago, I read the "confession" of a 16-year-old boy who had committed suicide because he did not have a girlfriend. It was funny to be honest. Strangely, I've been reading a lot of them lately. And I will repeat again - TIGHTEN UP, man !!!! And half your life isn't over yet. There is time for everything! What are you sitting down to complain about? !! Any news to listen to? Our country is in a state of emergency, people are dying, others have nowhere to live. You are healthy, you have a roof over your head - enjoy life. Stop focusing on not having a girlfriend. I know it sounds hard to you, but try not to think so. The more you think about it and compare yourself with your acquaintances, the more you will become depressed and find flaws. Here - you set out to change your appearance, to become "muscular" - great, keep going. This will give you more confidence. But also think about whether something in your behavior does not repel others. At 20, I don't think I need to tell you that looks aren't the most important thing! Don't bother with such nonsense! xperia
are you doing something about it, isn't it? Is there a girl you're interested in right now? Or is it all the same to you, the important thing is not to be alone? What do you expect a girl to throw at your neck? As long as you behave like a teenager, and as long as you do this nonsense - I dress well, I have a nice body, etc. and what charm do you have?
Wait with suicide - death will not escape you, but life is one. Otherwise, I welcome your decision to go to the gym, to do sports to lose weight, but that's not your problem. Rather, you are obviously a little shy, and your virginity is evident from afar. As a woman, I tell you - find a way to get rid of her and you will be more attractive. Is it just repulsive for a woman when she is opposite? is a sweating and stuttering virgin. Another way would be to try yourself on a dating site, why not? However, don't have high expectations, Pamela Anderson is not looking, but start a little with some less attractive girl. There are many girls who feel like you, but men do not notice them because they look ordinary, slightly plump, have short hair, glasses. He is looking for a girl according to the yardstick. After all, even less attractive girls need love,
Лол. Здрасти авторче :) От сега ти предлагам да не слушаш 2ри и 3ти коментар, защото очевидно не говорят от опит. (Но бих те посъветвал да не хвърляш топа все пак ;) ) Виж, щом работиш по въпроса да си в по-добра форма, нямаш проблем. Продължавай да работиш, и не мисли за самотата, защото само ще си тровиш душата, и до никъде няма да стигнеш. И както предложи номер 2, виж си и поведението.. тва е. Вяра трябва да имаш, ще ти дойде времето. Xperia, не виждам как той може да помогне с бедствието в България.. какво, ще ходи да изпие цялата вода, която е преляла от реките ли? Или за секунда ще построй къщи за хората без покрив, или сготви хиляда манджи за гладните? Или се опитваш да му натякнеш че той е маловажен спрямо другите. Че неговите чувства и мисли са по-глупави и безсмисленни от тези на останалите? Стига глупости. Повече от очевидно е че в България външния вид е всичко. Човек, който да не се интересува от своя външен вид, или този на някой друг, е немислима рядкост в тази страна. Всички хора (освен изключенията) се заблуждават че те могат да преценят човек най-добре, а всъщност една мравка ще разбере повече. И очевидно липсата на любов при този човек далеч не е глупост, иначе нямаше да има този проблем. -Death_Blade ^
So am I. If only I could meet you ... ~ Bloody victory ~
ST1: Well nz. what can I tell you no one here can help you no matter how much advice we give you no matter how much sympathy we have. Only you can make a change. My advice is to be yourself, don't change, have fun and go out, meet new people, communicate with everyone on any topic. I believe in the theory that there is time and place for everything. I want to be of use to you and keep it as frankly and I was like you stoqn_4o4o. If you want, add me.
By no means a suicide. Believe me, you will find your soul mate and I wish you with all my heart. Patience is a will, man, have this will, don't give up, you will find it!
i am 21 years old and i am in the same position as the author.
So in order to make contacts and to meet girls, a man has to go out. He can't come home from heaven all day. Secondly, there are passengers for every train, so if I am ugly or stupid, please stop using these tales, especially with suicide. I also went through this period, but better days have come, the most important thing is to keep your head up!
When I was 20, I was like you. I was a virgin until I was 31 years old. But I didn't feel sorry for myself, I just used the time to learn a lot, including psychology. Then, at the age of 31, I met a shy, rich goldsmith - 10 years older than me and we have been living together for 8 years. Don't be afraid to find your girl. Read psychology. -How to make friends and influence people - by Dale Carnegie. For starters it will help you a lot. Good luck, boy!
I'm 14. I was in the same situation. I had no friends and whenever I thought that someone was a real friend of mine, it turned out to be another hypocrite .... But everything changed because I said to myself "fuck, I'm going to change my life" and I changed it . In the summer I almost caught a boyfriend! I failed, but I still raised my self-esteem. Then I started school and at first I didn't have many friends. But then I started hanging out with 5-6 girls in the class and they are my main friends. And I talk to the boys. Now there is a group of 4 boys who regularly call me to go out. So believe in yourself and believe that you will change things for the better !!! Try to change things, and don't wait for someone else to do something !!!