Hello! I am a boy of 17, she is two years younger. I will drive it straight, because if I have to describe our relationship, it will take a long time. These days we will go out with her, I am interested in how to show her my feelings for her and that I want a relationship with her - at the end of the meeting to kiss her, or tell her how I feel and if she has feelings for me, or prefers to stay friends? It's just that she's so old that I'm worried that a direct kiss would startle her. What do you think?
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The kiss will not startle her if she wants and expects it, and before that, of course, there were other touches and intimacy, which does not start with the kiss. Look for contact (give 5, hug, holding hands, etc.), and what I see in your problem is the "escalation" for a kiss. Since there is no 1 explanation, I advise you to see in Google: how to escalate
It's not a direct kiss. Look there, hug her first, grab her by the butt and if she doesn't pull away - act with the kissing;)
I don't think it's right to have a direct kiss unless you have a clear signal that he wants it or if your relationship is already at that stage. It starts first with physical contact (hug, holding hands), communication and only when you already feel that she wants you to move on then other things.
Dude, it's better to find a 19-year-old than a 15-year-old. Unless you're into childhood, of course.
I received such kisses at the age of 15 and I was startled, if it was really unexpected, like thunder from a clear sky. I advise you to look for another type of physical contact to hint at your feelings. Also, you will see in advance how she reacts and whether she wants a relationship with you. Take her hand, hug her, write to her, see how she reacts and if you feel good, then kiss her.
I act so that She kisses me first, it's different with women because everyone is different, learn to recognize who is pressuring you and who wants you to start first. Make a hint, tell her that her hair smells good, get close to her like a kiss, but don't do it, but only to feel your lips to your hair and to your neck and ear, to feel your breath, it excites them more than itself. a kiss, and don't color it like a monkey, the technique is to be sure of you, my way is me and I touch the face, I say that there is a fallen eyelash or the lipstick is smeared, then hug her carelessly so that she hugs you, entertain her, say something funny, do something for her, women like you to be interesting and make them cool emotions, and they kiss you later and want something more. Make her feel as special as she is to you, I cooked on mine and she told me that I am very sexy as I make pasta while I smoke, mostly on a towel ... and then sex is the top, you have imagination, use it! M23
What do you think about the situation I at 30 she at 19? Is it fair to her and her development ... I already know what I want to do with my life, but she is just entering. That doesn't mean I would stop her, but it's time for me to do some things ... I'm convinced it's not fair, it's also hypocritical. I have 1 or 2 friends and I feel lonely most of the time. And she is one of the few girls who deserve it because of her rational thinking, sense of humor, femininity that radiates and many other qualities.