Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl. I've been lying to everyone since elementary school. I didn't "go" every night to ice skating lessons, I wasn't in Disney Land and the like. Well, yes, but I grew, and so did my lies. A black belt in a martial art that I practiced for 3 months when I was 3 (for example) and so lie after lie I started when someone asked me something, the lie came to my mind first. I say it quite often because I don't care about explaining my life, and I don't want to. Today I can't say that I relax in front of anyone to tell him what's going on around me, I keep everything to myself and no one understands why I'm being mean to strangers, for example, but of course it's only my fault . I'm a closed person, I have friends, but I prefer to hear about their lives, than to talk about mine. Recently something bad happened to my thing and I lied again, so it became clear after day two that I was lying and I promised not to do it again, but I know very well that I will not be able to keep my promise. I'm not from a poor family to lie and steal to survive, but I'm a divorced child, not that it ever bothered me. I am very ashamed of my actions. I don't know how our people can still trust me. If anyone has advice for me, let them share, and I accept any criticism, etc. I don't know how our people can still trust me. If anyone has advice for me, let them share, and I accept any criticism, etc. I don't know how our people can still trust me. If anyone has advice for me, let them share, and I accept any criticism, etc.
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This is dangerous. In time, you will start to deceive yourself and you will become completely entangled. It is important to answer the questions for yourself: where does this need to lie come from and does it really help you with something ?? It can get you out of a situation, but for yourself, as a person, does it help you ?? Be aware of yourself! There is also nothing wrong or embarrassing about turning to a specialist. Why don't you show courage and go to a psychologist? You understand that this is a problem, and now find out how to solve it. Good luck!
See now child: If you don't lie to your friends (the good ones), nothing bad. The important thing is not to lie to your parents. That some stranger who spoke to you lied to you, big pig, that who hasn't done it at least once. I personally did it too. When he spoke to me, I showed him that I didn't want to, but he asked me for details and I knew that he was a neighborhood gossip, I said that I had apartments in the big cities, a businessman and so on. What do they care about? Look at the gypsies just lying, but it's in their blood, they can't stop, they do it out of habit. You also started at a young age and it has become a habit. It is difficult to give up this habit. For example, I have a habit of arguing with people, of being picky, even because of that they call me Hayter. I keep telling myself that I won't do it again, but it's inside me and I can't stop.
Unfortunately, there are such people. Read the story of the lying shepherd - he is lying, but when you have a certain goal, when you have something to gain from it, and when you are a pathological liar, you just don't succeed. Everyone lies. I had big secrets about my personal life and I eventually lied to the people around me, but the trick is to lie cleverly - to lie like 90% is true so that you can't go wrong in your story, and only 10% most you need to hold it as a lie, which you remember exactly. I'm not lying otherwise, but then it was imperative. Everyone lies unintentionally or something. However, you lie to make yourself interesting, which is unfortunate.
Take matters into your own hands, because if you continue in this spirit, everyone will get tired of your lies and one day you will be left completely alone in this world!
When I benefit from something or just so that my parents don't quarrel or my money doesn't stop lying. Otherwise, my best friend just didn't lie.
This is a reaction to your parents' divorce. Maybe when you grow up, you will be cured of it. And if not, go to a psychologist. You are somehow hiding behind lies. Are you hiding yourself, or maybe the fear of being hurt?
That we all lie, that's how we lie, but to do it out of habit, every day and in front of all kinds of people, is already a problem. Obviously you distinguish good from bad, but you do not follow the good, you follow the wrong path. There is no point in lying to your parents, because these are the people who will correct your mistakes in any situation, even if they have to take a lot of risks and make thousands of their mistakes. The bad thing about lying is that one begins to believe that one will always pass between the drops and that one's lies are almost true. It's scary here, you become an overconfident person and you get entangled ... the other bad thing about lying is that no one knows the truth and everything you build in your relationships with people is a great illusion. Imagine you meet a boy, you meet him, but all he knows about you are lies, you fall in love, and he understands, that you are actually a pathological liar and lose interest in you, you keep spreading lies to keep it to yourself, but that's the same thing that repelled him ... he really knows you and what he sees in you is that he can't trust you. This also applies to your friends. If you really like someone and he doesn't know anything real about you, at some point you will lose him, and the truth is that you will never have him by your side, because he loved someone he only thought he he knows, but in fact he did not know.
I have this problem too. I'm 23, so it's deepened. And everyone is right. Even if you are not literally alone, you will feel alone. People don't like you because of the things you tell them 8 they don't care if you have a black belt, etc. Show yourself what you are. Make a conscious decision to tell only the truth to your loved ones at least. You will start to feel better, first. Second, you will see which people are next to you, for your own sake.
Wow, I'm the same as you, an empty-headed fool who sometimes lies to people about everything, but then I tell the truth, and the truth itself hurts, the lie heals - that's how I know it, I know it's not good, but I'm used to it - I've been lying since kindergarten that it is my habit, but to tell the truth, it is hard, no matter how much it hurts. I am already a 25-year-old man and a 5-year-old lie. Not that I like it, but I do it to protect myself from the problem and the reactions
Yes, I lied about a lot of things, but I never regretted it. I am used to