I am interested to know how you feel about your lovers, whether you are attached to them, in general how you feel about this woman with whom you have been with for a long time and in reality, if you have been for a long time, she could be your wife if you were not married. ? Are there times when you are considering the possibility of parting with your wife and being with your mistress, if not why, if so, what could make you take such action? And maybe I'm really most interested - tell me (those whose wife understood) how you reacted, what you did and what you explained, and those who haven't been caught yet - how you think you would react and what you will say and do?
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I'm not a man, I'm an ex-wife! The answer is as many men as there are situations .. I can comment on my marriage and lovers .. The first one appeared on the 14th year of our relationship, I felt that something was happening around the third month .. I found out the truth from my husband after 5 more -6 months. They were separated by hundreds of kilometers, online acquaintance in an online game .. Loved to the ears ... She was also married. When he decides to talk, don't spare me anything! I wished him luck, we broke up, but ... A month later he started ringing my doorbell every night. After 6 months we got together, we had a difficult period, but .. we succeeded mainly with his participation .. 10 years followed in which I felt loved and loved, we achieved a lot, we experienced a lot .. During this time I was not jealous for a moment .. And at one point a long-forgotten feeling appeared .. This time I was neither digging nor jealous .. I just said "
A 33-year-old man At the age of 27, I married a woman I was not in love with, but I knew he could raise my children. We had two wonderful children, we take care of the family, we go on vacation 20 times a year. I love my wife, but as a man. I was afraid of being left alone, and I had never lived in a loving environment. I have a mistress for 2 years, she made me regret that I was in such a hurry in life out of fear, out of selfishness. For the first time in my life, I began to feel angry, to regret past events. I want to leave her, and since I know she's fine with me, I don't want to cause it. I'm at a crossroads now, I love my mistress so much, I've never had such feelings, so I got married. I didn't know it was possible to experience something so strong.
In such stories there are two victims, the woman and the mistress. You poured his words on her, but she also heard many words from him, bad for you and good for yourself. But it hurt and you wanted it back, I won't judge you. And it was played by your girlfriend, which is low. But she played. And now you have to think how and whether to collect the broken pieces of your marriage. I found it interesting because you asked what he did and he said to himself (conditionally, of course, I doubt he was honest, they are not in front of you), do you think you will be able to swallow all this? I've heard stories of her husband calling his mistress home and fixing her up in his wife's bed while she's in the hospital pregnant and waiting to give birth, that I can't imagine how a relationship goes on after you learn something like this. Thank God I haven't been in such a situation,
If a man wants to break up with her, he will tell you by the first month, rest assured. If he doesn't want to, he'll never say anything about it. I have had a relationship with a married man twice. The first time he didn't say a word about it, he just kept his family from being caught, the second time he convinced me to be with him forever, and he has 2 small children. If his husband is fed up and wants a normal family, if he thinks that his children will be happy only with a happy father, he will want to be with you and how ... And remember .... I will tell you more in the very beginning after falling in love.
Ask a boss - they are usually 99% married to a mistress who is less than mego by about 30 years and thinner by about 30 rings!
I am a woman, I see that the question is addressed to men, but I think I have something to tell you about it, because I work with men, we are friends - yes, only friends, nothing more and have shared many things with me. Personally, I was amazed that their wives were many times better than lovers. And often younger. I have seen so many shocking things that any excuses and explanations to hear from a man and to this day I can not even understand, nor to understand. In the most concise form I can tell you my observations: - men do not cheat because they have stopped loving their wives. In most cases they continue to love and hold on to them. -Most men put feelings into infidelity. Or if there is something, it is for a short time. And it is rather not feelings, but the charm of the new, unknown. When it becomes yours, you quickly get tired. I strongly do not believe
I am a woman and I am interested in what would be the answers of men who have and have lovers? It is a pity that they do not get involved more actively to respond and share how they really accept and feel things. The woman-mistress is always spit on and attacked, she is defined as frivolous and immoral, whether the man who decides to have any relationship with her also accepts her as such or subsequently changes his mind. Answer men, let's see you will find someone to say a good word about your former or current mistress.