A Sad And Lonely Soul

   Darling, I was, and I still am, the same as you, so I know very well what you are talking about! And I've felt a thousand times seeing my girlfriends how happy and loved they are by their boyfriends. And I would probably continue to live like this for a very long time until fate gave me a gift. He met me with a great man. Yes, at the moment he is abroad and we can't be together, but besides the fact that I already know that I have someone who loves me, he did something very important for me, he taught me to love myself! So before you go looking for love, you must first learn to love and appreciate yourself! If you don't love yourself, how do you expect someone else to? Yes, it is difficult to turn from an ugly duckling into a beautiful swan and still have self-confidence, but it is not impossible. It took me years and I still struggle sometimes with my stupid fears and insecurities, but overall I'm much better and much more confident than the gray mouse I was 4-5 years ago when we started the change. So, darling, I hope you are lucky enough to meet such a person, but if not, you can try to change yourself. Start with the easiest, the look. Make a new hairstyle, buy new clothes, if you think you are fat, lose weight ... in general, do everything in your power to become at least outwardly the chick you always wanted to be. Then go out like that and enjoy the reactions of the people. I'm sure your friends will notice the mistake and react well, but this time when they compliment you, don't blush or bow your head, but answer them with the same. For example, they told you that you have a great hairstyle, say: "Thank you! And yours is amazing!" In general, show that your new look really makes you happy. This will help you walk the streets with your head proudly raised and see how the positive energy you radiate will affect others. It's just amazing! Well, from there to the impression of the right person there is only one step! Be beautiful, be proud, walk with your head up and you will see that the world will smile at you! Success! And don't forget, first learn to love yourself and pretend to be confident, and then you'll be surprised to find that you've really become one. Remember, every girl is a princess, but sometimes we just forget about it. This will help you walk the streets with your head proudly raised and see how the positive energy you radiate will affect others. It's just amazing! Well, from there to the impression of the right person there is only one step! Be beautiful, be proud, walk with your head up and you will see that the world will smile at you! Success! And don't forget, first learn to love yourself and pretend to be confident, and then you'll be surprised to find that you've really become one. Remember, every girl is a princess, but sometimes we just forget about it. This will help you walk the streets with your head proudly raised and see how the positive energy you radiate will affect others. It's just amazing! Well, from there to the impression of the right person there is only one step! Be beautiful, be proud, walk with your head up and you will see that the world will smile at you! Success! And don't forget, first learn to love yourself and pretend to be confident, and then you'll be surprised to find that you've really become one. Remember, every girl is a princess, but sometimes we just forget about it. first learn to love yourself and pretend to be confident, and then you will be surprised to find that you have really become one. Remember, every girl is a princess, but sometimes we just forget about it. first learn to love yourself and pretend to be confident, and then you will be surprised to find that you have really become one. Remember, every girl is a princess, but sometimes we just forget about it.

   Oh, if you know how I AM the SAME as you ... I don't have a boyfriend, I can't find one, I don't meet anyone, I always hit a rock, I have almost no friends, I don't go out, I don't have fun, I just get depressed. I am a boy and the situation is not good at all :(

   Number 1 imagine if you hadn't met this person who influenced you to change. Now you would probably still be stuck in one place. It is very difficult when you are alone, something to make you get out of lethargy. Judging by myself, I felt the same way. No one has ever loved me without a serious relationship. But a miracle happened and I established a relationship with a woman. It affected me at the moment, I had never felt this way before. All bad thoughts and moods evaporated. Here comes the question of how much a person like us, who has missed a lot in his relationships with others, can be complete in a relationship. I obviously failed to be and it all ended with much worse consequences for me. I broke up and now I'm much worse than I was at. For me, this with the hairstyles, with the new clothes does not help. I changed my car and work, but that didn't work either. Man is nothing when he is alone. For me personally, I already know that my world can be fine again, and only for a moment, as long as I fall in love again. It is difficult for me to change many things in my way of life, which has led me to this situation, but at least I have not lost faith.

   Hello. Where are you from?! :)

   No. 1, thank you for the advice, but I did not specify that when they took me to a disco, for example, I was made - dressed, made up within normal limits, not too much. I'm not fat, even if I've shared with someone, everyone wonders that I'm lonely - they always say that I'm beautiful and that I must have many candidates. But even when I make myself look, I feel that I am still invisible ... And the lifestyle I lead, systematic sleep deprivation, very improper and unhealthy diet, lack of sufficient funds, because I study and work, maybe a little more - few say their word. I have no desire for anything, I'm still tired, asleep (Well, I have good moments, but rarely) when I come home in the evening I cry, I'm angry at the whole world that there is no one to share my pain ... I think no one understands me Maybe I'm tired of everything already and that's obvious to me,

   Ha, this is the female version of me :) And the years coincide, and everything else. However, the situation is worse for me, because it is assumed that boys / men have to take off the opposite sex and take the first step, and I do nothing about it. And I also know very well the reasons for being alone and I realize that the blame is entirely on me, but unfortunately I can't change.

   I am the author again, I will ask only those who want, if it is possible to leave something for a connection, I really need to communicate a little with strangers, with new people. My situation is crazy ... I will ask the moderators not to delete my comments and not to delete if someone leaves a contact. It is very important for me! Thanks in advance!

   I have admirers outside, but I always love loneliness, but it started to get awful, I don't go out or meet anyone, even though they like me outside and talk. Now I only have the desire to find a suitable job for my education and to get out of this hole, the truth is that only when I am financially stuck or dependent (parents) do I get depressed the most! I personally think that we will all find the right person for ourselves, the question is not to rush these events because they are fouls, I think we are all more emotional, sensitive and sometimes we take this very heart to heart. I read, play sports and develop to be someone when I find "The Man" Maybe the time with its melancholy and the approaching holidays will immerse us, I enjoy small things and I manage somehow! I hug you all I want to know you! M23

   author, on the subject I can tell you that the majority of all young people nowadays go through your 'torment'. with the advent of so-called social networks and mass social communications, personal relationships between people have deteriorated. they just degraded :( only 15 years ago, when I was 12, all the kids in the neighborhood knew each other and the easiest thing in the world was to go to someone 'new' and invite him to a game. now ... until you have the courage to say hello to someone, he will have escaped across the ocean: D in this line of thought, I want to make a direct inquiry to the moderators and I hope they publish my comment and their answer - in a case like this - someone shares something here, finds ( possibly) a similar soul, what is the policy if you want to make contact? can e-mail or skype be shared, or just write - at 5 on the carousel! : D I think that there are interesting people here who can be useful and lend a hand to someone in need. otherwise ... we are left with only sharing: / author, say something about yourself - where are you from, what, what are you studying, what are you working on? what are you having fun with Moderator: We remind you that the exchange of personal data is inadmissible and comments containing such data will not be approved.

   Just because you don't have a prince ... Doesn't mean you're not a PRINCESS :)))

   Doesn't listening to music lift your spirits a little? I want to congratulate you with one of my favorite songs, I hope at least that is allowed. http: // vbox *** The song is: Melanie C feat. Lisa Left Eye Lopez - Never Be The Same Again From Number 3, Moderator: Please do not leave links to various social networks (be it for music, photos or other)

   Hahahahahaha interesting thing is life. I very rarely allow myself to post comments, but this time is an exception. On this site I am sure that there are a lot of girls and boys who are alone and with an exchange of e-mail or Skype will come out of the dark corner where they stand and will discover true happiness. The moderators fully understand why this is forbidden (however spodeli. Info led to more sadness than joy) and I agree with them that the rules should not be broken. I just smile a little sarcastically at the man on top, who finds this fun and obvious, and it is, since the chances, the doors and the opportunities are both so close to us and so easy to access, but at the same time so far away from us and so difficult to achieve. and implementation. That's just the way life works. To the Author: I am the same as you. A complete double. Every word what you wrote corresponds to my essence. I sincerely sympathize with you and sincerely wish you to find the path to happiness - your partner in life, who will unreservedly love you with all his soul. My advice to you is not to blame yourself. The problem is not with your TV. Fate is destiny. Our life and the path we will take is more or less predestined. If something is meant to happen to you, it will happen even without moving your finger. If not, even if you pierce the whole world and make the last drop of effort, it will not happen. So stop tormenting yourself and just follow the magical current called life and see where it will take you. My advice to you is not to blame yourself. The problem is not with your TV. Fate is destiny. Our life and the path we will take is more or less predestined. If something is meant to happen to you, it will happen even without moving your finger. If it isn't, even if you pierce the whole world and make the last drop of effort, it won't happen. So stop tormenting yourself and just follow the magical current called life and see where it will take you. My advice to you is not to blame yourself. The problem is not with your TV. Fate is destiny. Our life and the path we will take is more or less predestined. If something is meant to happen to you, it will happen even without moving your finger. If not, even if you pierce the whole world and make the last drop of effort, it will not happen. So stop tormenting yourself and just let go of the magical current called life and see where it will take you.

   Hello. I will be very happy to meet you and help you as much as I can. :) I greet you with a song and it's up to you if you will find me ...;) - *****;) Greetings! The song is: Jean Michel Jarre - Touch To Remember Moderator: Please do not leave links to various social networks (be it for music, photos or other)

   I just wonder why for some it can and for others not? In other topics I've seen people exchange personal information, send links to other sites, etc. But do you see at the moment gentlemen moderators are made strict, anyway ... As you do not want to be helpful , and I asked you several times and most politely. I'm obviously not nice to you. From number 3. Moderator: Please report topics in which you have seen the exchange of personal data in order to correct our mistake.

   And why not go to sites like Elmaz or Gepime, you will surely find a soul mate. M32

   Don't give up, know that there is always light in the tunnel. ;) Instead of delving into the fact that you don't have a friend / boyfriend, try to do your best to develop in life (career, home, etc.) love comes by itself, no matter how worn out it sounds. Dorian Gree;)

   If you want to meet, make an appointment, for example, I always go to the park on Saturdays

   Which city are you from?! :)

   Author, I have an idea. They won't let you leave an email or skype here, but you still try. And listen to the greetings ... they are very cool;)

   It will help you: *** :) Heads up ... and I'm lonely like you (I'm a boy) it's hard for me to talk to people, and I have completely different tastes from others ... very shy ... what girl will like me, who will be interested in me ?? ; (But I believe that I will meet my partner one day ... Every night when I go to bed and imagine her: how I am with her, we talk, I hug her when she is upset or sad, I put her on my jacket when she is it's cold and we're outside :) I'm dreaming ... I'm crying ... I'm calming down :)

   The moderators, let these children see how much he is, then they will be grateful to you if they are satisfied, and if they are not - they will understand that everyone has overestimated themselves - it's still good. _Az_

   Greetings to all single souls on this topic. I want to congratulate you with a song, whoever wants can find it in vbox: Giorgos mazonakis - na me pieis

   Well, there are many candidates for this girl - the moderators are right to follow the rules of the site. And I will wish the author success and I am sure that if you do not prevent something from happening, it will happen. I know because I have been in a similar situation and the only person who stops you from being happy is yourself. Do not be afraid, live. T. 23

   Tighten it up, please :) Have an attitude! Fluid throw! Listen to meee ...

   It's just that some of us are not meant to be happy, don't listen to others, nothing will change, that's what the Almighty has decided, that's how you'll be until the end, so am I, resign yourself and don't film. Various claims that if you change your mindset everything will be fine and you will find a friend are complete nonsense. Don't think what it's written.

   TO 32 I never found out what happened as a result of contact data being exchanged. Will anyone explain to me?

   This is a precautionary measure of the moderators, the exchange of personal data can lead to unpleasant consequences! №35!

   up to 36 what for example?

   Let me tell you, I'm from the city on the hills ... From the author

   I'm from the same city, I'm a girl and I can tell you where you can, if not find someone, then at least start working on yourself. There is a salsa club - the biggest in town is, find it. I warn you that this is not a place for a serious relationship, although who knows of course ... the ways of love are unknown, it is full of many social gentlemen with tender souls, in any case they will look at you with great respect just because you are a woman :) But the place is good especially to rediscover your feminine nature, at this age it is time to understand that a man is not won by appearance, but by radiance. What creates it - self-confidence, and it is a question that depends entirely on you. A little of the women's kitchen :)) Go at least once and you will understand what I mean, you will get a lot of attention, and you try to imagine how beautiful you are and repeat it all the way home. Let's see if the Plovdiv swinging men won't notice you :)

   I think how many lonely souls we are, and we are still alone, we have to make a place to gather, there are dating sites but it sucks, I myself dig there but without success, there are many frivolous people and perverted uncles and at presence of such and girls behave so frivolously, we need a place separately for such infirm souls as us who want love, attention, friendship joy who have not tasted love, but it is difficult to make such a place without bending and frivolous and perverted, and yet we can try number 31 has greeted us all with a song, I suggest we gather there, you can easily find it no matter if you like the song or not, the comments are important

   I am also alone ... I am 21, I have no friends, I communicate mostly with my family and another person - I have limited social contacts. I'm tired of this, it's just depressing me ... I don't feel complete. I really think that there should be room for people like us, to support each other, we need a little to be happy .. really a little .. Unfortunately we can not exchange personal coordinates, but the fact that there are people like me makes me not to feel so lonely and desperate. Congratulations everyone .. do not lose hope :)

   Hello. How did you spend the holidays? Did you solve the problems with "loneliness"? From Number 15. :)

   Number 45, open the song on Number 15 and find the message .. :)

   Young souls, reading the comments of your tortured souls, my soul hurts me too. I am far from your age, I have a son in your situation and I am worried about his future, and he is already 30 years old. In our young years we lived in a time of limitations, but really, then we had more opportunities to communicate live. Yes, live, not virtual as you are now in contact. Then our only entertainment was cinema (not from the monitor), restaurants (in the role of discos, but much more modest and the songs mostly blues, helping us get closer easier), there were a lot of parties (music and people play in the hall just dance, no alcohol). In general, we chatted live with each other. Now your computers are anchored at home and you only communicate virtually, but it's like licking sugar through a jar, there is no live contact. №9 asks how personal contact information can be transferred between you. Why do you want to contact the Internet again? Here you have gathered kindred spirits, most with the same problems, you can start the rapprochement in this forum. What prevents you from communicating in "Share"? Write your years, coordinates of cities, nearby areas. If you are from a city or region, what prevents you from making an appointment here in the forum? If other curious people come, even better, you will form a company. The author has already suggested the first trump card, she is from Plovdiv, make an appointment somewhere, set a recognition symbol, for example a red pin pinned in a prominent place and everything is ready, the friendship will begin. Don't procrastinate, time flies. most with the same convergence problems you can start it in this forum. What prevents you from communicating in "Share"? Write your years, coordinates of cities, nearby areas. If you are from a city or region, what prevents you from making an appointment here in the forum? If other curious people come, even better, you will form a company. The author has already suggested the first trump card, she is from Plovdiv, make an appointment somewhere, set a recognition symbol, for example a red pin pinned in a prominent place and everything is ready, the friendship will begin. Don't procrastinate, time flies. most with the same convergence issues you can start it in this forum. What prevents you from communicating in "Share"? Write your years, coordinates of cities, nearby areas. If you are from a city or region, what prevents you from making an appointment here in the forum? If other curious people come, even better, you will form a company. The author has already suggested the first trump card, she is from Plovdiv, make an appointment somewhere, set a recognition symbol, for example a red pin pinned in a prominent place and everything is ready, the friendship will begin. Don't procrastinate, time flies. what's stopping you from making an appointment here in the forum? If other curious people come, even better, you will form a company. The author has already suggested the first trump card, she is from Plovdiv, make an appointment somewhere, set a recognition symbol, for example a red pin pinned in a prominent place and everything is ready, the friendship will begin. Don't procrastinate, time flies. what prevents you from making an appointment here in the forum? If other curious people come, even better, you will form a company. The author has already suggested the first trump card, she is from Plovdiv, make an appointment somewhere, set a recognition symbol, for example a red pin pinned in a prominent place and everything is ready, the friendship will begin. Don't procrastinate, time flies.

   Another idea how to discover yourself. Check out a store (not very big, but familiar to everyone), somewhere in the center (it is important to have a kind saleswoman) and ask her to accept an envelope containing your email address. If necessary, you can treat her to a coffee. She is only asked to deliver the letter to a person who went and asked for it. There are other options, this can be done in a large supermarket. There is a bulletin board at the entrance. Write an ad, for example "...", specify here in the forum what to write in the ad, write your phone number and the link is ready, then you will understand. I will think of other options, let them offer others. You have to invent something, the most humble people can't be the most unhappy, it's not fair. A boy next door, very modest and shy, was forcibly introduced to an equally shy girl, but now they are a wonderful family, still modest but very well-mannered and their two children are wonderful. May happiness come to you too!

   Hi, I'm Nikolai and I understand how you feel because I get almost the same things as you.Don't worry, I haven't had such a serous relationship either and so far when I've tried to do something serious with a girl it doesn't always work out and I don't know why it always happens, it's been years and I'm starting to get scared myself because I'm still alone and I'm selling to be alone I'm very scared not to be alone forever because I'm almost 26 years old and I think about it every day and I'm even more desperate I get up Now I'll tell you something two weeks ago sends an invitation on facebook a girl and I accept this invitation for a moment wonder at me so send me a girl invitation something is here and decidedx to write to him in the chat because I found it interesting and curious what this girl wants Whatever happens I start to we write to him, I ask him where what is what and so and I come to the question to ask her on what occasion she sent me thisinvitation for friendship and she writes me well I have a reason and I ask what is the reason and she answers me I like you and that's why I sent you an invitation for friendship I am very happy and feel quite happy and I start asking her where she saw me why didn't I pay attention And she tells me well I saw you on the train then you were at work and you even checked my ticket but I couldn't tell you anything and you looked at me with good feelings towards me and then I decided to send you this invitation but I couldn't right away because I couldn't read your whole name on the badge but one day I was traveling on the train again and you passed the test again and then I managed to read your name and so I found you on Facebook Ithaca I realized that someone still respects me as a person and what happened to me and set a date to see her and she accepted became quite happy Met me with her for the first time separates meI was happy in the evening looking forward to the end of my working day to talk about us she was very happy as I am and so I sell with the story was Sunday I was at work and decided to call her to talk and she told me she got up and was very happy that I remembered to call her and she talked to me and the two happy even made an appointment with her the next day to send her to Montana because she studies there and she is happy because we got along until she goes to school we will be together because it was the second shift of school And here on Monday we leave for Montana happy and we both went to Montana and left my things in the boarding house and told me do you want to go to one place to be alone away from the city and be alone the two of them took me to a fortress in Montana called Diane, from there you could see the whole city.kiss me and she told me i want to be in you a lot if you turn something around you don't know how you feel and i saidx i also want to be together i will make you very happy believe me just give me time she told me you will I give because I want you to be with me, it was a real beautiful morning for me and two happy people, it was time to send me to school and she went to school and what happened, she sent me, kissed me goodbye and hugged me ...This was the last kiss and hug with this girl who gave me hope, she didn't write to me anymore or answer my calls more, she even bothered me on Facebook, everything ended and so I couldn't understand what happened and I will never understand and see what I feel for now very unhappy and lonely and I don't stop thinking what I did wrong and I remember everything the words and what she said to me about me and now I'm on the old dare and how long I will be lonely I start to hate I hope you read all this and if you want walk to my e-mail

   № 50 I couldn't understand much why you write all this, what does it have to do with the topic itself? I don't know, are you talking nonsense or are you really writing it? And how do you think you can do something to help the girl I do not know?

   I don't know № 50 what exactly he is trying to achieve, but this is very similar to the action of another person ... it's about launching a topic ...

   Number 50, I'll give you a piece of advice, make a new profile, even a different name if you want and try to write to her again, I was very touched by your story.

   Darling, you are not alone. And I feel the same way - very fake, hypocritical and lies everywhere you look ... And I have the feeling that no one understands me, but what to do ... Life goes on. There must be people like us. You know, in fact, when you think about it, we are happy - we may be uneducated and lonely, emotional, but we know how to rejoice and appreciate the little things. Head up and boldly forward. Maybe one day you will meet your soulmate, but apparently he has not come yet. All in good time! I hug you tight

   Hello, № 54, I'm glad that there are other girls like me :) I don't want to feel sorry for myself or someone to feel sorry for me, I've been used to living like this for a long time. But I have moments when I start thinking about so many things and wondering why different people and people with hearts should be so lonely. It always happens to me that if I find someone who I think is different, they either back off or think I'm lying ... or they tell me they have a life of their own. That's why I can't even find friends. Someone will say instead of saying this, seek and act. And let me tell you, it doesn't work. I feel like I'm pushing everyone away. I don't care and I repeat to myself that life is good, that there will be a shift for the better. But there comes a moment when I realize myself again in reality, again alone, again without support, without understanding.

   Hello, № 54, I'm glad that there are other girls like me :) I don't want to feel sorry for myself or someone to feel sorry for me, I've been used to living like this for a long time. But I have moments when I start thinking about so many things and wondering why different people and people with hearts should be so lonely. It always happens to me that if I find someone who I think is different, they either back off or think I'm lying ... or they tell me they have a life of their own. That's why I can't even find friends. Someone will say instead of saying this, seek and act. And let me tell you, it doesn't work. I feel like I'm pushing everyone away. I don't care and I repeat to myself that life is good, that there will be a shift for the better. But there comes a moment when I realize myself again in reality, again alone, again without support, without understanding.

   Hello author! I'm number 54. Don't worry - I know and believe that the sun will rise with you one day. Someone will fall in love with your smile and love you for who you are. You write above that you pay people with something, maybe you have so much love to give that it pays them. According to my observations, people have forgotten how to love, but there are exceptions, apparently you have not yet met yours. Take your time and go with the flow - read a good book, take a walk in nature. Do something that gives you pleasure and do it. Believe me you will feel great. Everything is inside us. And now put on a nice smile and smile ... you don't know what's waiting for you around the corner ... maybe your soulmate

   Aren't you Iliana Vukova, number 54?

   I want to reassure you that I am in the same situation. I am shy and do not communicate enough with people, especially with boys. And I can't find a boyfriend from there. I was so desperate that I even started crying because of it. I'm trying to change, I really want to have more friends, I've even changed my appearance, but somehow I isolate myself from everyone and nothing happens. I'm already wondering if I should be more relaxed and not care what I'm saying. I keep trying not to say something you shouldn't, maybe that's the problem with you.

   Love is for a while then respect remains

   What do you mean №61?

   You are fixed on the negative. It is not always bad to be alone. But you definitely need to communicate with people, whether or not you will have a relationship soon. You're obviously an introvert, but don't shut yourself in. Try dating a friend who is more experienced in dealing with men. It can teach you some tricks. No one was born a scientist. Ask her to tell you honestly what she would correct in your appearance, your behavior (and without offending her, she will still tell you the truth). By the way, in my opinion, if you want to meet more people, it may be enough to smile more and be positive. I am also an introvert and I have similar problems. I'm older than you. It would be interesting for me to meet you, but the rules of the site do not allow;) I wish you success.

   You really can't do without a smile and positivism :) Where are you from № 63, how old are you? :)