Hello! I am a 15-year-old girl, I admit I am writing for the first time on such a site. So my problem is that I am quite depressed and complex. I don't go out without looking in front of the mirror for a long time, I rummage in the wardrobe, I'm annoyed by my weight, I'm about 55 kilograms ... I have my own criteria, which I don't always meet. Honestly, I take a lot of care of myself, but I don't know if it has an effect. I worry when I go out again for the same reason, although I like to communicate with people and make new friends. It's fun :) Well, at least I can't complain about my grades. I don't have any friends in the teacher, they make fun of me and humiliate me a lot, I would be happy to receive at least the minimum human respect .... it's not pleasant to be afraid of being beaten or a nasty trick ... the strange thing is that outside of it I have other friends. We are company and we feel good together. I realize that there are much more important problems than mine and that some people find it much harder ... I apologize for the spelling mistakes. Thank you in advance for the advice :);) ~ l ~ o ~ v ~ e ~
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I had a similar problem at your age. I didn't solve it and it grew into an eating disorder - quite brutal and severe .. Talk to the psychologist at school / no, it's not a shame to do it !!! /, with your mother, father, grandmother, brothers, someone you know ... Good luck, I'm convinced that you are a great and cool person, don't give up ...
Dear girl, if you are in the company of friends with whom you complement and like each other, you have nothing to think about. I know it's been said many times, but don't take a nap. Accept that others are complex, even if they do not show it. The school will pass imperceptibly and you will stay with the friends you hang out with, of course you will break up with someone, but those who harass you - well, you will not hear about them at all. Live your life and don't worry about weight or anything like that. Believe me, who is your friend and loves you sincerely, will do it even if you are a rectangular giraffe. Grit your teeth and move on :)
You are what you are ... there is no way to teach others to appreciate and respect you since even you don't. Learn to accept yourself as you are. Head up;) Gabi, 18 years old.
I am also humiliated at school, and there I am somehow different, I don't communicate much, I don't drool, I look like a bison, and like a very serious and obedient girl, but it's not like that at all. When I go out with friends and I start with oligophrenia, we start drooling, having fun, etc ... I will be insulted at school because of my hair ... that it was greasy and I haven't bathed and the like, which irritates me a hell of a lot, but I know it's not, and I don't care what they want to say anymore. It's my first year in a new school, and maybe that's because in my previous school no one wanted to make me interesting, and they were all my friends, I had high self-esteem there, while now I don't have it here at all ... Strange ...