A Topic For Reflection On Reality Nowadays!

   Everyone sees what his mind can accept and interprets what he sees with his eyes in a subjective way. In three words - you are wrong (that this is the situation). Of course, there are a lot of cocky babes with mom's sons. There are them now, as there have been before. But there are just as arrogant girls with decent men. There are all kinds of connections, diversity has flooded us in all directions. And why don't you want to see decent women with decent men? Or stupid but beautiful women with ugly men? Or the ugly cool men with less charming halves? It is a matter of choice what you will see when you look.

   As a girl dating a similar guy, I can tell you this ... although I can't call myself "the greatest beauty" I certainly deserved more than him ... so why was I with him then? Well, how can I tell you. I made the mistake of choosing the average simply because I thought I would never meet the good. And so that I'm not alone forever ... I guess that's why others do it, consciously or not. Sometimes you get tired of waiting for someone decent and just go with the one you can. It's very ugly, but at least that's the truth for me. I hope I helped somehow.

   To number 1! The cocky girls with decent boys are there because they guessed what 99 out of 100 the other 1 in 100 confirms this rule! I have not stared like a horse with caps, because I am not and cannot be. And I don't know if I expressed myself correctly, I was referring to girls with self-confidence without coverage and not those who are, the difference is from the earth to the moon! To number 2! From the dawn of vain not to be alone sense I do not see, better true to himself and real than false in front of company. But it's good that you realize it. And I've thought about it a thousand times as much as there is, I just can't ... I certainly can't, I haven't even lied to a girl in order to sleep with him, and I can't and I don't even want to! Exactly once I really loved, but to the point of pain, if it's easier you will understand me, I will say it this way, if the last things I have are: 10 stotinki, sandwich and my clothes on the back for HER are! That's how I love, I don't know if I should be ashamed of it or be proud ... I only know that 1 in 1000 can do it and I'm one of them, the price of the invaluable attitude is disastrous, but that's why it's a little can, because they are a different type of people in general, but it often happens that while you are a diamond for someone he throws you on the ground because he does not see it, it is felt with the soul is not seen with the eyes or heard with the ears and begins to digging in the buckets for another waste, this is exactly what happened to me and I do not regret it. I can describe the pain simply as if you were dying in agony, but the agony does not end! And yet, never forget the absolute following: Absolutely the greatest love and the greatest success in life is a joke! :) From the author! I don't know if I should be ashamed of it or be proud ... I only know that 1 in 1000 can do this and I am one of them, the price of the invaluable attitude is disastrous, but for that they can do little because they are a different type people in general, but it often happens that while you are a diamond for someone he throws you on the ground because he does not see it, it is felt with the soul is not seen with the eyes or heard with the ears and begins to dig in the buckets for another waste , this is exactly what happened to me and I do not regret it to some extent. I can describe the pain simply as if you were dying in agony, but the agony does not end! And yet, never forget the absolute following: Absolutely the greatest love and the greatest success in life is a joke! :) From the author! I don't know if I should be ashamed of it or be proud ... I only know that 1 in 1000 can do this and I am one of them, the price of the invaluable attitude is disastrous, but for that they can do little because they are a different type people in general, but it often happens that while you are a diamond for someone he throws you on the ground because he does not see it, it is felt with the soul is not seen with the eyes or heard with the ears and begins to dig in the buckets for another waste , this is exactly what happened to me and I do not regret it to some extent. I can describe the pain simply as if you were dying in agony, but the agony does not end! And yet, never forget the absolute following: Absolutely the greatest love and the greatest success in life is a joke! :) From the author! but for this they can do little because they are a different type of people in general, but it often happens that while you are a diamond for someone he throws you on the ground because he does not see it, it is felt with the soul is not seen with the eyes or he hears with his ears and starts digging in the buckets for the next waste, that's exactly what happened to me and I don't regret it at all. I can describe the pain simply as if you were dying in agony, but the agony does not end! And yet, never forget the absolute following: Absolutely the greatest love and the greatest success in life is a joke! :) From the author! but even for this they can do little because they are a different type of people in general, but it often happens that while you are a diamond for someone he throws you on the ground because he does not see it, it is felt with the soul is not seen with the eyes or he hears with his ears and starts digging in the buckets for the next waste, that's exactly what happened to me and I don't regret it at all. I can describe the pain simply as if you were dying in agony, but the agony does not end! And yet, never forget the absolute following: Absolutely the greatest love and the greatest success in life is a joke! :) From the author! this is exactly what happened to me and I do not regret it to some extent. I can describe the pain simply as if you were dying in agony, but the agony does not end! And yet, never forget the absolute following: Absolutely the greatest love and the greatest success in life is a joke! :) From the author! this is exactly what happened to me and I do not regret it to some extent. I can describe the pain simply as if you were dying in agony, but the agony does not end! And yet, never forget the absolute following: Absolutely the greatest love and the greatest success in life is a joke! :) From the author!

   Firstly, you do not imagine and secondly, they are looking for fun and simplicity. They are too simple to understand you. I have so much experience with girls that they can't convince me otherwise with their cons in one comment.

   People are attracted to each other, the fact that a woman is beautiful does not mean that she has principles, morals, desire for development, ambitions, etc., respectively, it is possible not to look for them in the opposite sex. Of course, there are less attractive women who also do not have these qualities. That is, you see a beautiful woman with a "mother's son", but in fact I see it this way: Two people who meet their needs. The needs can be very different: the need for emotional / financial support, intellectual "adjustment", points of contact in hobbies / interests / religious views / life views / habits / profession / sexual needs / physical attraction, etc. People are more -protected when they see an attractive person to attribute more intellectual / spiritual qualities to him, it is scientifically proven, but this is not the case at all. If a woman is beautiful, it does not mean that she is looking for a responsible and ambitious man who has achieved everything on his own. Genetically set beauty means nothing. Of course, there are beautiful women who support themselves both intellectually and spiritually, and I guarantee that they are with equally developed men. Lately, I notice that many families do not raise their children properly, respectively, they receive a variety of emotional traumas, which then affect their choice of partner and their own development. It's not just about beauty for a woman. A woman can be very beautiful, but she is emotionally immature / stupid / superficial, etc. She will look for a mirror partner who will satisfy her needs. In conclusion, I know many beautiful young women who have relationships with men who respect them and have a purpose in life, but women themselves respect them and have a purpose in life. Man is a reflection of the world around him.

   To number 5. Well, unfortunately, I came to the conclusion that 99 out of 100 relationships are for people and for fun on call personal benefits, mostly material. To number 6. To be right that beautiful does not mean with qualities. I focused exactly on those who give the appearance of such but have neither qualities nor anything, only self-confidence and I would ask the following question to all who have read or will read the topic and it is: Where do you love this self-confidence and why the hell 1 time so far not I have received respect from a female being and on the basis that there are no benefits because I do not want the other and to comment on it I will add that the insolence of most has long passed in the stratosphere, even my ex-girlfriend who, to put it mildly, loved just demonstrated and I asked her for a simple explanation for some of her actions she replied with " I don't know the other normal boys at 21 with dreams of a whole plan and actions that haven't stopped and 1 second no matter what happens from what angle you look at the problem but I look at it from DIRECT and I don't like it! Maybe if I was stupid and impudent and didn't care that a man with a soul was sitting in front of me but just an object, then they probably wouldn't have let me breathe, and now they don't shave me alive ... Greetings from the Author to everyone !! May we all work together to find an answer to this growing problem! hahaha I don't know the other normal boys at 21 with dreams of a whole plan and actions that haven't stopped and 1 second no matter what happens from what angle you look at the problem but I look at it from DIRECT and I don't like it! Maybe if I was stupid and impudent and didn't care that a man with a soul was sitting in front of me but just an object, then they probably wouldn't have let me breathe, and now they don't shave me alive ... Greetings from the Author to everyone !! May we all work together to find an answer to this growing problem! hahaha probably then they wouldn't let me breathe, and now they won't shave me alive ... Greetings from the Author to everyone! May we all work together to find an answer to this growing problem! hahaha probably then they wouldn't let me breathe, and now they won't shave me alive ... Greetings from the Author to everyone! May we all work together to find an answer to this growing problem! hahaha

   The reality these days is very colorful. Things are not white or black. Two people are there, usually in the same environment (think about why), like each other and become a couple. From the side, neither you nor anyone can see the connection well. The bystanders are a very good audience, the spectacle is attractive, but they are not judges at all. Usually everyone is with their partner for some reason. It's good that the reason is love, but sometimes we talk about account or reputation. A beautiful and smart woman will stay with her husband only if he has the qualities she is looking for and if she really loves and cares for him. A beautiful, but hollow and mercantile woman will endure everything because of a gift bag of BGN 200. Author, your failure with the fairer sex is probably based on your poor judgment. If you see signs, that a woman is not dedicated and somehow spends more time on her make-up than listening to your problems, she probably doesn't care much about you and only kills time with your relationship. There is no great drama and such stories do not deserve deep thought. Happens. Rarely does someone come across the right person in their first relationship. Not only for women, but for all people in general, it is important to have self-confidence. Seriously, a person without self-confidence looks more like a frightened child than a responsible and mature adult. It is even more important to build this self-confidence on valuable qualities, and not on appearance and expensive rags. An Instagram profile full of photos from luxury hotels and restaurants is also accepted for the class nowadays. A smart woman builds her self-esteem because she has read many books, because she is open to the world, because she is responsible, ambitious, kind, knows how to deal with everyday problems. Those Lolita, flirtatious and empty women, build their self-confidence because they look good in photos, they know a lot of "important" people (disco owners, disco security, various rich heirs of the shoe business). Hmm ... there are also mistakes in the system, sometimes a person is more proud of his achievements than of his morals. Do you think that such a woman will look for something different in a man of good looks and enough money? That even the greatest idiot could spend his father's money and take his mother's good eyes. You, as a man who is one day expected to be the head of a family - think and watch! Men need to have a strong spirit and enough brain cells to realize which woman will give you what you are looking for and which will be just beautiful jewelry on two legs. Any complaints from the spouses, be they ex, are completely meaningless. Everyone determines what he is looking for and is free to choose. No one else is to blame for our own choices except ourselves. If you choose only by beauty, then you will probably still be unhappy in love. F20

   To number 10 by the Author. Hello first, I'm glad I read your opinion. It is quite normal for me or it happens and I like 2 or not, what irritates me is the arrogant behavior of the fairer sex and that it seems more and more obvious by what criteria they choose a boy. For self-confidence, I would say that it is just as much as I need, because I have always thought that it should be based on qualities and skills and so on, and not on what jeans you wear, what your shoes are, what your car is and so on. But unfortunately this is exactly what girls see with others who do not meet these criteria are treated as lower beings. But they run like a dog after a bone with those who lie to them 24/7, they don't respect them and they just demonstrate how big a job they are, this irritates me and I don't understand it.

   Um, I didn't mean to comment further, but the question you asked later in your last comment provoked me, because you obviously don't really understand the mechanism of needs, which at first glance seems complicated and inexplicable, but is elementary, realized once. So I will start from the beginning to be as objective and useful as possible. People are born without prejudices, criteria, ambitions, purpose, visions of relationships, family model to strive for, worldview, etc. They only need maternal love, paternal protection and satisfaction of their physiological needs. Eventually, however, they acquire reason, become acquainted with the world around them, and begin to "swallow" the patterns of communication and connections around them. That is, the relationship between parents, social environment, friends, school, university, etc. The key, however, is the model which is given by the mother and father (in private cases another guardian - grandparents / aunts, etc.). The child imitates his parents and remembers their relationships, in his mind already arise "right" and "wrong" patterns of behavior, needs and relationships, etc. There, unfortunately, emotionally crippled many children (it is possible to happen and from a social environment at school, naughty friends, another emotionally crippled partner, etc.). You will ask what this has to do with and why I am writing it to you and to everyone who will read this post. Because when a person has wrongly learned patterns of behavior, his perception, criteria are adjusted according to his inner worldview, that is, if a young beautiful woman has been taught and all her life has seen her mother suffer humiliation and verbal / physical violence in the name of material benefits / not to be left alone / fear of not being able to cope without her husband / emotional dependence / need from financial support is formed a girl who begins to think the same way unless she snatches those false impressions of which she has witnessed. Her needs will then be: material benefits, an authoritarian type of man, and no attention will be paid to humiliation, violence and disrespect, because it will be considered something normal that she is obliged to endure. By the same token, people are influenced by the pressure of society, their friends, the media, and everything they see and hear. The examples are endless, but the truth is that a large part of the population is emotionally crippled and does not even realize it. You ask why women go to the surface young people and tolerate disrespect and lack of morals / principles, and the values ​​of men pass them by with an arrogant look and arrogance. I will answer you. Because they are taught that way, their priorities are appearance, material benefits, "complex masculinity" (understand flaunting money, cars, tattoos, "my favorite" Instagram, Facebook followers, shiny clothes, in short cool packaging) this satisfies them, because they themselves are just a package, respectively they are not excited by inner qualities such as ambitions to achieve success on their own, dignity, morality, etc. They are looking for what is a reflection of their essence. Another very common phenomenon is "beat me, I love you", figuratively and not so much. We can see it in a lot of pop folk videos, rap and even in world famous movies, to be scared, to believe that this is how things should happen, to be afraid of being left alone and many other factors. An endless cycle, author, immature people give birth to children, turn them into themselves and the vicious wheel turns. Sad but true. I would just like to add that there are such men as superficial and emotionally immature women. Personally, I have come across all kinds of individuals, including those described by you, but in a male version. But the world is colorful and everyone has the opportunity to choose their circle of friends and partners, I know many valuable men and women, I mentioned it above. Your task is to judge the woman who is standing in front of you and to see beyond the beauty and if she does not have what you are looking for, just pass by with a smile. Whether she underestimates you, is arrogant or arrogant, she shouldn't excite you, she can do so much, you don't leave, you have no future. That's it. Don't wonder why, where and how, you just pass by and keep going. The complexes are many and everywhere, you can not pay attention to all. I wish you success in every endeavor and I hope you find what you are looking for! From number 6

   To number 12 from the author. Thanks for the kind comment and I have thought and I am of the opinion that everything starts from the family and social environment and I have to learn to take it to heart, because personally I hate people using other people for anything that is not for me. is good, that's why I never did it. It is just obvious that it is fashionable to look for the simplicity of the packaging and the interests, and not for the girl to support and help a boy to achieve his vision and ideal for a successful life, as well as for him to do the same for her. I'm just offended by user thinking. Greetings from the Author

   Don't you remember the last time you saw a pretty girl with a "dude" who was on the ground? Is that how I understand? Well, then it turns out that if I understood correctly, then these guys are either alone or going out with NOT bad girls. I will not comment on the lonely ones, but on the ones with the NOT nice girls ... Why do you underestimate the chicks next to them? But do you expect the "good ones" (in your opinion) NOT to underestimate the guys discussed? Well - the problem is obviously in your head then! ;) Ж30

   ... I dare say that you think a little extreme - and the posts of strangers above prove it. The quietest thing here is a lot of valuable people. Instead of creating black ideas about the world, be who you are and live fully - and SHE is still somewhere there ... I hope you meet her. I wish it to you. Agape

   From the author to number 15. To be completely right, I think extremely and soberly, this is what my eyes see and don't think that by cool chicks I mean what is understood nowadays, namely extremely artificial! I just don't see the girls in question supporting and helping the man next to them, namely the exact opposite to use and transmit him at a time when it is difficult for him and they no longer benefit from it! Greetings, I may be very pessimistic on the subject, but I also judge based on my experience, and it is that when you are not comfortable, I just won't even look for you.

   To number 14 from the author. I mean that I am underestimated and those like me en masse do not care at all about others at all! Greetings

   Author, you are basically right. I'm a little older than you and I used to think the exact same way. However, the problem is elsewhere - in the middle. There are a lot of literate people outside, but when they are not around you and you do not know them, you start to think that everything is chaff. My environment for years was basically the same. My parents tried to open my eyes, but I thought I knew everything and things were much clearer to me than to them. At one point it happened that the users withdrew and I was just left alone in a very difficult moment for me. However, it is said that God knows best and always does the best, and rightly so! Thanks to what happened, I was able to realize many things and get out of a deep grayness, in which I sank more and more. There are a lot of decent people, you just have to want to find them. You know things matter, and not the words. I can introduce you to women who look perfect at first glance, but in fact it is better to stay away from them.

   I observe the same thing, only I am a girl of 19, also from a big Bulgarian city and in the fall I move to Sofia to study, but I have no expectations. I'm looking for a serious boy, but I can't find one. I dare say I'm beautiful, but the guys who pay attention to me end up just wanting to put me to bed.

   To number 19. Hello, I'm a 20-year-old boy, I live in London. I'm looking for a serious girlfriend. If you are a good and down-to-earth woman, not a muffin, write me an answer in a comment here. Although the site is anonymous, there is always a way for two people to meet, this is the smallest problem. When you come to study, you can even save on rent by moving in with me / the only condition is that you don't have a muffin like 90% of the sets /. Think about it.