I write once again, but now with pain and sadness, not ceasing to listen to Anelia's song. Why are we hurting each other, I guess I'm a masochist ! It hurts, I can't catch my breath. I'm married. I had another person next to me, with whom we rarely see, but every night we heard each other on Skype and text messages. It is far from me ...... above all we were friends; He is alone, divorced, free. I'm not jealous, we didn't promise ourselves anything, although like everyone swears that he loves me, but ..... So two days ago he mentioned to me that he went out in the evening ......, there was a babe, but nothing, I don't know if she didn't like it or it just didn't work out. I don't know if he tried, but I think he's changed since then. In order not to suffer more later (after a day) I put an end to it, I realized that maybe the time has come to share it with another, because, I'm sure, there was no connection, but jealousy drove me crazy. And despite his pleas, I put an end. It hurts now, but I'll swallow it too! And why I did it, he said he was hurt, I behaved disgustingly out of jealousy, but it drives me crazy. And despite the distance he gave me so much love and tenderness. I shared that my marriage was successful, I don't want to fail it, but ... I don't know. I do not know what I want! I miss! But I said never call again! I'm dying of grief, I don't even know why I did it, we couldn't talk. I just said end! I can't stop thinking about him. Give advice, call him or let time heal the habit of him, the habit, because I do not know what it is ........ I don't want to fail him, but ... I don't know. I do not know what I want! I miss! But I said never call again! I'm dying of grief, I don't even know why I did it, we couldn't talk. I just said end! I can't stop thinking about him. Give advice, call him or let time heal the habit of him, the habit, because I do not know what it is ........ I don't want to fail him, but ... I don't know. I do not know what I want! I miss! But I said never call again! I'm dying of grief, I don't even know why I did it, we couldn't talk. I just said end! I can't stop thinking about him. Give advice, call him or let time heal the habit of him, the habit, because I do not know what it is ........
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Apparently you really don't know what you want. Maybe the gray everyday life made you look away. Be strong you will overcome it. People have said time heals and is true. If you have a good family, take care of it, otherwise loneliness is a bad thing, and it's worse if you stay deceived, think carefully about what you have and what you really want.
Honey, if you really don't want to ruin your family and the other is free, let him find his happiness too. Call him if you want, maybe he's very hurt now and suffering, and he doesn't even know why you dumped him ... I think it's best to call him and explain that your relationship has no future and it is better to separate now, because the more time passes, the more memories you will accumulate, and to know that good memories hurt more. Let the boy find his happiness, do not act selfishly.
RE: People, believe me, I tried, but I couldn't. He writes constantly on Skype, and in the morning I received the most beautiful orchid in the world by courier. Do you know how long my husband hasn't told me I miss him, how beautiful I am ... and so on. I will not abandon him, not now .......... And when the time comes ... I will suffer again.
Take it tight and as a mature person listen to your heart and do not eliminate love so easily. I know it's safer and less scary in the familiar, but don't let fear guide you. What does a good family mean, and there is no thrill! FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE BECAUSE NOT ONLY YOUR LOVED ONE WILL TAKE YOU ...
Don't regret your relationship at all. As they say, the love of the man is to blame through the stomach and the woman through the ears. When you're tired of coming back from work and grabbing the pan without any gratitude, or at least noticing that your workday lasts until 10pm, it's not worth thinking about whether to call him or not. What if you share it with another woman. Doesn't he share you with another man? I think act forward and don't worry about him cutting you off or not. After all, you have a husband (you think he is loving and faithful). And to whom does he return in the evening? There is no point in jealousy if you are married. Live the moment and move on.
It is normal to get bored with your husband after a while. And even if you are with the other, sooner or later you will get bored. But that's not a reason to break up right away. What if everyone starts doing things like you, what will happen? People will not marry again. What if you find out that your husband has cheated on you, how will you feel? Although he, too, may be tired of the gray routine. To me, you are a weak, undeveloped girl. Not because you cheated, but because you did just that. If you were a WOMAN, by now you would have agreed with your husband and confessed everything to him. And try the other. Or at least look at how to fix things with yours. I think I would meet a girl like you. To have something to hit from time to time. The married k ... and still remains k ... a.
Hello - my life is almost like yours. I can't give you advice, but I want to share my life over the last 18 months. I started work, I liked the boss - but after 2 months I realized that he had a girlfriend. Without anyone suspecting, I withdrew. Then the other one appeared - after 6 months we decided to marry him. The wedding did not take place (I will never understand the reason why he changed his mind). The boss I was in love with at the time was friendly. Only now (after a year and a half) I wrote him an e-mail. In it I revealed my former intentions. My last sentences were - "We will not see each other again, because I can not contain my passion for you. When you read this and - e-mail I will no longer have any of your data. I wish you all the best." Unlike you, I do not regret it.
Number 8, if you don't understand what it's about, don't write! If you understood, you would not write what you wrote. Because you have no idea how women feel, which means you don't understand women. And for hitting, I'd like you to hit some men, not kill your complexes on women! Woe to this woman who is with you at the moment, if there is one at all, which I doubt very much.
Thank you all for the comments! I just wanted to share that we are with this man again, albeit indirectly, I am happy again. Indeed, only a woman can understand! A woman who takes care of a family, a woman who, after returning from work, starts a second shift, nothing that earns as much as a wife, or a little more. A woman who forgot to feel like a woman !!! I wish everyone a lot of love and luck!
Hello, one thing I want to say. The emotional connection is more important than the sexual one. And I think your relationship with this man is just like that, so don't be sorry. But still be honest with your husband and tell him you will feel even better be sure.
:) One is not jealous of the "habit". I understand. Look for him. And I'm in your situation. But he is married, I go crazy with jealousy. But even in front of me I do not want to admit and I tried to break, but he did not allow. He is now abroad for the weekend with his wife because I told him we were going to a wedding. I think he's jealous too, but he doesn't admit it.