we live at a distance of about 30 km, for months until the summer when we met, drank coffee, talked, said - that he will wait for me while I decide on something more serious ... We are not the first madness, maybe we are both more cautious, especially me! I had to help him, morally and financially / a little-loan / for the realization of his dream .... But then he became more and more irritable and accusing in our conversations, nervous ... maybe that we haven't had sex yet, but there was so much passion - not physically between us, I know that he thought about me all day, and I admit about him, I waited for the evening of our conversations, sometimes the struggle for supremacy / we are strong characters / .... and probably in my waiting for the right moment, maybe we missed the moment ... I don't know until last night when we said to each other - after a minor argument that we won't hear from each other! I do not know, where does the border of abstinence, passion, the desire to communicate flow !? cheated all this to the memory, I do not know, but I supposedly lived, saw a woman of 50! Maybe it's another trick of my life, and how I'm going to play it ..., the lesson is to learn it, and how like another test of fate for love or infidelity! questions, mazes .... solutions .... guilt and passion intertwined! Thanks for sharing! Be healthy, life is a moment!
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I think he used them and after not getting what he expected (except for the money), he showed his true face. And what you are experiencing is not love, but a passion that will quickly die out if it disappears from your life. Don't deal with it.
It's not bad to find a friend, make sure you're ready for it, but this one doesn't seem very readable to me, just drop it.
I'm sorry for the loss of your husband. This was an extremely difficult moment, irreparably difficult ... Specifically for this gentleman, who was a thrill to you and for whom you are writing, I am very prejudiced. Supposedly a mature person, supposedly courting you, impressing, and finally asking for a loan. I don't know what "dream" we are talking about and what he did with the money, but he is definitely not a man on the spot. No matter how troubled he was, pride would not allow him to ask for money from a woman he barely knew. Because you haven't even had a relationship or sexual contact. If your goal was just to share, fine. You've probably come to the same conclusions as me. Some people are very loyal and can barely shake themselves after losing a partner to move forward. Time will tell. The important thing is to be happy - alone or not. At your age, it's good to have contact with girlfriends, because your children are probably older. Greetings! F24