Hello! This is a typical teenage drama that may have happened to everyone. In general, I like a boy of about 4 months, but it's getting complicated. We have known each other for about 5-6 months. I really like it. but I recently found out that one of my closest friends also likes it. He is the perfect boy: nice, with a nice body, unique character. We have common interests in the field of cinema, celebrities and not much in music :) We become closer and closer: we spend a lot of time together, laughing at school, looking at each other in class and hugging from time to time. He is very kind and treats all girls with respect. I don't like a boy for the first time, but this time it's different. To my girlfriend ... she's never liked a boy before. * To note, we did not quarrel! (NEVER ARGUE WITH YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT BOYS / GIRLS) * I'm telling this story because I can't talk to anyone about it, and you may be in this situation .. But please advice! How can I show him that I like him without being afraid? Maybe body language will help? Thanks for your time! <3
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Hello! Maybe you should talk to your girlfriend first and admit to her that you like this boy. If he already knows, then you can move on. You just have to choose, hurt your girlfriend or give up your feelings. From the thrill. From a story you will remember for a long time ... I'm not saying which is the better solution. It is possible that your girlfriend is not offended so much, but you must talk to each other ... To understand exactly how much she likes him. But still, if you feel good with this boy, he makes you smile, I think it's best to follow your heart ... It's not wrong. But first think hard. Discuss with someone who has more experience! I hope things develop the way you want and stay friends with the girl! Success!
It only takes a few seconds of courage, you don't have to be afraid at all. At puberty, everyone is afraid to admit their feelings, you have some bad and good scenarios running through your head, it's hard for you to be scared. Remind yourself that you will not achieve results with inaction, take a breath and say / show it. Otherwise, such love triangles are really a typical drama, I've always tried to avoid them. Talk to your girlfriend first, and if you feel that she's really obsessed with this boy, do nothing behind her back and nothing that would hurt her.
Does your girlfriend know you like him?