Hello, because I can't share my problem elsewhere for a number of reasons, so I remain anonymous. That's how my story begins. Five years ago, I met my girlfriend, and later my wife. In the first years everything was fine. In the third year we lived together. I loved her (and still to such an extent that I don't even think it's normal). After we got married a few days before the wedding, he had to have an abortion for medical reasons. Then I had the feeling that my life was coming to an end. The first months after that were hell for both of us, most of them landed on me. All these years I tried to be the perfect husband. To pamper her, to be her support, I tried to find the right solution for everything. Of course you make mistakes, but she is the fried woman who took my heart. Another has so far failed. In the last years after the abortion, she has always become a little estranged from me, which has put me on fire. Now, a few weeks ago, she went on a business trip for three days. When she came back, she told me that she had seen a boy who was her burning love 8 years ago. Now she's acting weird. I asked her if she wanted us to divorce and come to him, she said she didn't want to and that she cared about me and our family. I suspect he got into my head somehow. He is from another city, etc. What do you think is happening thanks she said she didn't want to and that she cared about me and our family. I suspect he got into my head somehow. He is from another city, etc. What do you think is happening? thanks she said she didn't want to and that she cared about me and our family. I suspect he got into my head somehow. He is from another city, etc. What do you think is happening? thanks
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Entered? is primarily between the skirts. Divorce and you're done. You deserve more.
I agree with 2.
Be patient and wait. Every relationship has its ups and downs. Arrange if you have the opportunity to go somewhere for a few days. Be romantic. Surprise her. Win it again. But without being intrusive and annoying. Don't ask about this man again unless she takes up the subject again.
You're too good with her. This sometimes kills the thrill. Especially when you let the woman get on your head.
women don't have a husband - they whine when they have one - they don't appreciate it, the answer "what's going on" is encoded in the very confession of burning love and her strange behavior, think a little - you're 26, your wife must be around 24, you say 8 years ago, so she must have been 16 then, so at this age can stupid teenagers think ... great burning love blah blah, children's stories ... on this business trip there was 100% playfulness and not with memory 8 years ago and with potential infidelity, remember - the strange behavior comes from the fact that your wife is effective, women cheat with feelings, remember that they do not tell the whole truth, the woman is cunning and cunning and you feel trusting, and be careful, think real, the strength of us men is that in addition to listening to our hearts, we also listen to our minds,unlike women an experienced man
I think you made a mistake by settling home so young. As they wrote above, she was 16 and had such a long relationship. She didn't make a living, she didn't see who knows what. She probably feels like her life has passed with you. I am convinced that she loves you very much and cares for you, just for her maybe it's more of a friendship, respect, security, habit. Let her go, give her freedom. When he meets one or two unsuitable people, he will open his eyes and realize what gold he actually has next to him! Don't be sad, there are ups and downs in every relationship. All the best and I hope things get back to normal as soon as possible! Bad
Hi, I'm a 29-year-old woman. And I'm in a hurry to answer your question. I don't think anything happened. Calm down for a woman, the loss of a child, even unborn, is severe. Now you have to be very patient and very careful what you say, what you do and do not overwhelm her. This trauma can continue until you get pregnant again. Calm down. Good luck
If your wife is generally serious and has not had any rough shoots (infidelities and lies) so far, then she has done nothing with it, but most likely she wants to do it. The fact that she shared it with you shows that she cares about you. No woman will dump a loving husband because of some thrill from 8 years ago. Maybe we anticipate and to some extent you are tired of her, and he is something interesting that intrigued her. Provoke her interest, be mysterious for a while, hold on and grab her when she least expects it. Make friends with her as if you were a woman who should impress you on the 1st date. She loves you, you just have to make sure that she gets what she wants from the other - unpredictability, strong sex and variety. It is very important for a woman to feel not only loved, but also WANTED! Try to find the difference ... SUCCESS!
№9 All women are whores except my mother :) All buzz or at least almost all. I hold the opinion of №7 Do we still have to be careful? In slachaya she does the nonsense and then be gentle, careful .... Having already torn his heart to 1/2 I hold the opinion of №8 Leave her free to do whatever she wants. At a young age, I had the same situation, except that we were not married. My father told me to release the "bird" and if he returned it would always be yours. That's what I did. She had a marriage behind her and I had several boyfriends. She divorced some of them and flew to me and I thought she would be mine forever, but alas. The one who is used to walking, walks all her life, who spins the numbers, spins them all her life ... Good luck
from the author: Yes, the pain is very big for me!
11: "№9 All women are whores except my mother :)", let me finish the quote for you: .. but let's not forget that she is also a woman .... and now let's remember that it is said an individual with parts of a bomb in his head ... do I need to add anything? 11: "Everyone is buzzing, or at least almost everyone." You know the saying that God created three things imperfect: A floor that is always clean, a baby that never cries, and a man that never cheats. So you also do not stay very meek and feel obliged to put in bed everything that can wear a skirt, especially individuals who open their mouths like you. 11: "I hold the opinion of №7 Do we still have to be careful?" Given that you behave like elephants in a glass shop, you have to be careful ... and you still can't handle it. Author: It seems to me that you give a lot and you have lost yourself. The funny thing about humans is that they want someone to change in a certain way, and when they do, they get bored and leave. I think it's just time to sit down and think about how you would feel best, how you feel best about YOURSELF, and how you can achieve that state. If the way is to break up with her because otherwise you feel tense and insecure, this is best for you. Be selfish, and do what makes you feel good. Lola how you feel best about YOURSELF and how you can achieve this state. If the way is to break up with her because otherwise you feel tense and insecure, this is best for you. Be selfish, and do what makes you feel good. Lola how you feel best about YOURSELF and how you can achieve this state. If the way is to break up with her because otherwise you feel tense and insecure, this is best for you. Be selfish, and do what makes you feel good. Lola
If it makes you happy to be with her, but if she pretends to love you, of course, you've been with her for more than 3 years. Find out if she's sincere, then women are a bit hidden, artistic, but understand. If you're not happy with it, it's just not worth fighting for. Good luck
author, grit your teeth, who does she think she is, make yourself a sharp boot, ah jes ma, you'll make fun of yourself, flirt and then you'll admit, get to fuck off, whip, squat in the bathroom and touch yourself without splitting the basma
Obviously, man, you want to be with her, so you ask this question, you want things to go as before, it's probably possible, but I don't know how. When my wife gave birth, she wanted to be natural but failed, a cesarean section was necessary, and then her behavior changed. She has changed. Since then there have been a lot of quarrels, rude treatment of me and accordingly I returned the same. I tried very hard to meet her high requirements, regarding the child and the things around us - in particular her work, but she always had remarks, or if the moment came when she was not there, you had that feeling in which you no longer know what is this life and your death seems better. Apparently people are really changing. Until they establish this fact, they become the same again, because change scares as much as it scares me and her. As she frightened you and your friend, and when that happens we go back to what we are, ignorant children who know nothing but ... I hope I've been useful to you, don't look for therapists, because you don't go to this thing alone, and it will come only after you do quite a few conditions, and they will be related not to talk about exactly what has changed. Still, I believe that things can work out
First, 5 years have passed, number 16 => where is the logic to write? Secondly, how are you going to tell someone not to go where you are, 'because you didn't go there alone ...' (OMG !!!) With these prejudices like: 'I can't do this alone, I can't do that alone ... 'many people are sinking deeper and deeper ... and sakin, if they don't hang up and some more with them ...
I don't think she feels anything for you anymore, she just cares about her family and that's why she doesn't divorce. Your marriage is only on paper, eme, and you do the same as her, catch your mistress and if she still feels something, it will show.
17 since you are much duller than you look, I will give you 1 chance to get rid of the topic voluntarily and why not from the site