A Virgin At 29 And Quite ... Disillusioned

   Get a prostitute.

   The problem is in you, not in the girls. Just because you like someone doesn't get you anywhere if they don't like you. If you wait for them to come to your feet and be offered to you, you will sit a virgin for many more years and drive her by the hand. At this stage, prostitutes seem to be your only option. And if BGN 100-200 is a problem for you, what beautiful girls do you dream about? That if you pay them for meals, dinners, taxis, hotels, flowers, tickets for some entertainment, they will cost you much more.

   Hello. You accept a little constructive criticism, don't you? !! With these claims you will remain a virgin until the age of 69. At this age, people have families and children, you write about dormitories and quite infantile events. Almost no one has lost their virginity with the perfect man. Just do it and start having sex, because it definitely affects your physical and mental health. Then you can think about a relationship, but before that you need to gain experience. BGN 200 was a lot for paid love, etc. You will not give them every day, as long as you squeeze. Either way, whatever woman you go out with, you'll have to reach out. You also have the option to stay dry and watch porn. There is no such thing in life. You act and enter the game. One last thing, why are you wearing a lubricant? -Sia-

   I slept with a 21-year-old woman for the first time. It was very hard for me and I had pretended to die alone. I did my best to find someone, even an aunt, just to have sex. Amy, I kept hitting a rock. The more I tried, the more the women ran, so to speak. At one point, I just stopped winding myself up and let it all sort itself out. One day I accidentally met a girl, we liked each other, we started dating and gradually things happened. If you force yourself, nothing will happen.

   You are not behind, but you miss the last train directly. I didn't talk about this with the dormitory - you have all the conditions to have sex, even if you don't like it very much, with the hormones you've accumulated, it's shocking that you didn't take off the plane.

   If you had taken her to a hotel, should I understand that you still live with yours? Let's see, at 29, virgin and inexperienced, there is no terrain, bad income, he needs special conditions to raise him ... Well, it will not happen. In order to have results, you urgently need to work on all the paragraphs listed here. When a man is in his place, they jump on his own, and as you drive her, you can see that the girl is waiting for you on the bed, the work goes again.

   Dude, there's worse than you, don't whip yourself. I have a very close relative who will soon be in his 40s and still a virgin, for sure. Money has pain, handsome, tall, but with his wives he swallows his tongue when it comes to verbal contact. He is such a small, closed type, shy. And to this day he has the measures of a mannequin, but don't you help yourself and God can't help you, as the people have said.

   Why, in the way of expression, does it seem to me that you are one of the supposedly good boys / that is, crazy and very, very complex and angry /. I once touched on one and since then I can't confuse you ... you "good ones" in very big quotes. ;) To fix your egocentrism, comolexes and appearance, generally speaking. And be very careful with hygiene, that maybe a lot of people just imagine that there is hygiene.

   Amy can be paid, if that's the case. Don't think so

   There is a very big cliché, but when it is written to a person, then things will happen. My case is like yours, but vice versa. I don't have a boyfriend, I have exes who only want sex, which is not ok for me. And in this case I run, they chase, haha. Go with the flow and don't think about it, I know it's difficult, but it's not impossible :) F 28

   Drive to the checkers, dude - sex is for prestige, check is for pleasure.

   Abe went out one night to a restaurant or chalgoteka and after that he ripped the ass of some almond! Is it that complicated ???

   Well, I was a virgin until I was 24. Then I found a girlfriend and we broke up with sex, but she wasn't much. It turned out that we were not for each other and we quickly separated. It was a fire that burned quickly and only ashes remained. It is more important for me to find a woman who loves me. And this is much harder than one for sex ...

   Brother, you're 29 and you're talking about licking and chicks, and you probably haven't even seen a naked woman live. You are old enough to have a wife by your side and even have a child. How can you talk about arousal when you haven't even asked for sex like people do. And for me, the most important thing for someone is how it is inside, but if this is the most important thing for you, it can be unattractive and not lift your plane at all. If you want this for the rest of your life, even though yours is already half over, go ahead, but if it doesn't excite you, what's the point of looking for a sex partner. I've been with all kinds, even ugly ones, but I admit that I didn't get along with them in bed. At 16, I thought that I would not find one for sex in the future, but it so happened that it was my first time. When a person wants something, he asks for it, instead of complaining as in your case. I'm 20 and I already have plans for the future when I get to your age, and you expose yourself and sound like 10 years younger. Tighten up a bit and find one instead of waiting and thinking they have a problem.

   I have an acquaintance who found his first girlfriend at the age of 28. So that you don't think you're the only one. You will find one too.

   Don't worry, it's not so important, the spiritual is important!

   From the author. To number 3 - well, I had taken the lubricant just in case, I did not have much intention to use it necessarily. To number 6 - where exactly did I write that I need special conditions to pick it up? To number 8. My hygiene is ok, my egocentrism is at a healthy level. And who talks about malice at all? You put common denominators, which is stupid.

   Imagination and feelings are stronger than hesitation, if of course you fit in with the girl. And I wondered if there were certain techniques for kissing and foreplay, but it turns out that it all comes with feelings. Only low self-esteem will bother you, change that. You have to be a little more social and positive. Your forehead does not say whether you had sex, physically there are no changes in a man before or after sex. You have no hymen to break.

   Male of 29 / Sofia See what you wrote is quite normal, although many people will tell you the opposite. Women are looking for a certain standard of living and if you can't provide it for them, you get exactly what you describe. In short, they are looking for a man who can constantly lead them from one entertainment to another. I absolutely understand that you want sex with a woman to be with feelings, I think all men are looking for that. When someone "chooses" you, he begins to enchant your head, send you photos and tell you such things that if you want to be made of stone, it will always awaken something in you. However, in order for her to "choose" you, you must be able to provide her with the financial stability she wants. You say that now BGN 200 is a lot for you. No problem. Everyone has had such periods. But if you are in a relationship such money goes away for a few days, if not for one sometimes. The boyfriend is an expensive pleasure and I don't know how much the money a man throws for a fucking fund is worth. I will give you an example from my life. Although the girlfriends over the years have changed the things we do and the costs are the same. I take it from them, we go to eat somewhere because they haven't always eaten anything "all day". Then we can sit at the coffee-type Confectionery Sunday or Starbucks. Then we go to the movies, bowling, billiards, something like that. then we can eat again and go home. Nothing and no day and I spent at least BGN 100. My monthly expenses for boyfriends go between BGN 1,000 and 2,000, depending of course on what we did and so on. Of course, this includes my expenses. However, when we sit at a restaurant and pay BGN 50, for example, they are not only part of it and mine. Yes, it is absolutely normal if a person works for 1000 and has to pay rent that he cannot provide. That's why it happens so that a normal person begins to wonder what's wrong with it and to become more complex. And there is no reason. The problem is that women put a little pressure on us to do this and throw so much money at them. If we don't, he's just tearing you apart and looking for someone else. An even bigger problem is that over the years these costs have increased too much. My married friends with children mentioned to me how their wife started pressuring them to take her car because they needed it so much. Or they make a problem for the home and want to take another in a more prestigious neighborhood. Complete renovation of the apartment, vacations abroad, etc. And you couldn't just live without these things. Since I'm your age, I can tell you that the girls we're dating right now are watching a lot to see if you're suitable to support a family. And by supporting a family is meant - to fully support yourself, her and your future child. Good luck in life! The game is just to have money. Otherwise nothing happens.

   The problem is in you. You're obviously quite complex. And you have a lot of pretensions. You think a lot about the future. You think what people will say. You probably haven't even achieved anything in your life to live in the shadows and people don't notice you ... Because what will they say to each other ???? First fix your thinking and life, then think about sex, sex will come when you yourself are ready to swallow some things, to rethink and CHANGE. Apparently you are afraid of change? Read a book that will inspire you to change at least a little. Go to a psychologist. He will guide you. In my opinion, you close yourself in and think only of yourself, as well as of the people, what do they think of you !! Well, NO, surprise, no one cares about you, so relax - act, take risks. You are not in the center of the universe. You tell yourself what you need, the situation, what you are, - you are selfish. You think only of yourself. You justify yourself with side circumstances and that doesn't make you a man. Either act or stay in the hole safe and don't roar. Because the choice is yours alone. In fact, I can fix you - I'm cool and smart, but I bet BGN 1,000, even if I squat naked - you won't be able to pick it up. You will just win ...

   I understand how you feel ... I'm 25, I had a long distance relationship, we tried to do it like humans, but I didn't pick it up and we broke up. I went to prostitutes twice and then I couldn't do it. Now I am alone at the moment and I have the feeling that I have lost the desire for intimacy due to stress and also because I am afraid that I will not satisfy a girl anymore and I suppress the sexual desire and so on ...

   I am 28 years old and I am on the same stage. If you don't go out in public and if you don't communicate, you are left alone. I don't even want a relationship or sex, just a friendship with live meetings. However, I still can't find a person for that.

   Hello, Going to a prostitute is not a general solution to this problem, it is a big step in the right direction. Then you will know that you are no longer a virgin. This is still a big change. And the lack of money is already a problem, but it is solvable. There are ways to start making more money. Male, 41 years old

   To 22: Okay, but then it turns out that a boyfriend can afford a very small proportion of young men. Only those with incomes of at least 2-3 bonas and that is if they do not live together. So how many are there? Although I generally agree. I get less than two vouchers, I don't have a car and I live on rent. For a long time I often wondered why they didn't like me, I eventually understood.

   I'm glad that there are still men like number 22 who take care of the woman next to them when they have the opportunity. I used to come across those with good professions (programmers, IT, etc.), not only frugal, but also quite tight. He even wanted to give me a new phone for my birthday because he knew I needed it and was looking for it. We discussed it and out of courtesy I told him it was expensive and offered to pay half the amount, not expecting him to agree, but he accepted and I paid half. We have always shared the bills or borrowed from each of the former ones. No one has ever spent a lot of money on me, let alone thousands a month. Until about 25 I thought it was normal, but then the light for this type of men came on. I understand, if there is no possibility, but if there is a scrub - it will not be. I married a very different person, for whom it is a shame for a woman to take out her purse in restaurants, to share bills, etc. He also makes good money, but I'm not with him for personal gain, but precisely because he is stable for a family and I think about the future of his children. It is understandable that a woman wants to marry a man who is able to support a family while she is looking after small children and cannot work. Of course, there are many families in which the woman is forced to work, to leave her several-month-old babies in a nursery and not to have time to look at the household. However, I did not want to be one of them and tried to find the right man to give me peace of mind. It is understandable that a woman wants to marry a man who is able to support a family while she is looking after small children and cannot work. Of course, there are many families in which the woman is forced to work, to leave her several-month-old babies in a nursery and not to have time to look at the household. However, I did not want to be one of them and tried to find the right man to give me peace of mind. It is understandable that a woman wants to marry a man who is able to support the family while she is looking after small children and cannot work. Of course, there are many families in which the woman is forced to work, to leave her several-month-old babies in a nursery and not to have time to look at the household. However, I did not want to be one of them and tried to find the right man to give me peace of mind.

   "I married a very different person, for whom it is a shame for a woman to take out her purse in restaurants, to share bills, etc. He also makes good money, but I am not with him for personal gain, but precisely because he is stable for family and I'm thinking about the future of my children. "" But I didn't want to be one of them and I tried to find the right man to give me peace of mind. " Apart from your own ass, do you think about anything else?

   In my opinion, about a maximum of 1/3 of men have qualities that would attract the attention of most women, I'm talking about appearance, financial status, personal qualities. The other 2/3 are out of the rankings, out of sight of quality, cool, beautiful valuable women. Either their appearance will be lame, or they will be poor or they will have other personal shortcomings, which automatically disqualifies them. In women, the opposite is true - there are about 20% who are short, fat, stocky, ugly, dull, etc. that is, they drop out of the ranking of liked, courted and desired women. The remaining 80% enjoy male attention and are a desirable object for dating, relationships, sex, etc. And for a relatively short period of their life - from 15 years to 30 maximum 35 years of age. And when you take stock, it turns out that a relatively small proportion of men, that is, the valuable, the cool, the rich, the turnover have a threefold, fourfold greater choice than women who tend to pay attention to them. For the cool, attractive, liked women who are the majority of the female class (excluding those 20% of shoes that are useless from a young age) they have to choose from that 1/3 of the walking men - because the other 2/3 do not are in their field of vision. So the cooler, assertive, tarikat women manage to find and tie the "right, the right" to create a home, a family, to secure their future. The rest of the "beauties, the cool chicks" have to compromise and choose a man from the second, dropping echelon where they haven't looked before or to stay old maids, or to fill a hole with someone divorced. With you, author - you're obviously on the losing team, men dropped out of the ranking of women's attention. You just have to come to terms with this circumstance. As long as you remain invisible and virgin until the age of 29, you are from the second group of men, from the mice and not from the group of rich and cool alpha males. Just accept it philosophically - that was God's will. And hope that some failed gold digger will lower the bar of her claims a little, notice you and choose you. But you, as a man, have to be assertive and look, but in the right place - not in the "A" team, there is reserved territory for the excellent students. Look in the "B" group, there you are more likely to find something more decent, lagging behind, more used… .. knock it out of the dust, it has nothing, what if it's second hand. Good luck. As long as you remain invisible and virgin until the age of 29, you are from the second group of men, from the mice and not from the group of rich and cool alpha males. Just accept it philosophically - that was God's will. And hope that some failed gold digger will lower the bar of her claims a little, notice you and choose you. But you, as a man, have to be assertive and look, but in the right place - not in the "A" team, there is reserved territory for the excellent students. Look in the "B" group, there you are more likely to find something more decent, lagging behind, more used… .. knock it out of the dust, it has nothing, what if it's second hand. Good luck. As long as you remain invisible and virgin until the age of 29, you are from the second group of men, from the mice and not from the group of rich and cool alpha males. Just accept it philosophically - that was God's will. And hope that some failed gold digger will lower the bar of her claims a little, notice you and choose you. But you, as a man, have to be assertive and look, but in the right place - not in the "A" team, there is reserved territory for the excellent students. Look in the "B" group, there you are more likely to find something more decent, lagging behind, more used… .. knock it out of the dust, it has nothing, what if it's second hand. Good luck. And hope that some failed gold digger will lower the bar of her claims a little, notice you and choose you. But you, as a man, have to be assertive and look, but in the right place - not in the "A" team, there is reserved territory for the excellent students. Look in the "B" group, there you are more likely to find something more decent, lagging behind, more used… .. knock it out of the dust, it has nothing, what if it's second hand. Good luck. And hope that some failed gold digger will lower the bar of her claims a little, notice you and choose you. But you, as a man, have to be assertive and look, but in the right place - not in the "A" team, there is reserved territory for the excellent students. Look in the "B" group, there you are more likely to find something more decent, lagging behind, more used… .. knock it out of the dust, it has nothing, what if it's second hand. Good luck. what if it's second hand. Good luck. what if it's second hand. Good luck.

   30, and I, as a man, tell you that 90% of women only look at money like you and do not deserve attention. The fact that a man is now poor does not mean that he will be poor for the rest of his life and that he has no qualities. Sometimes it takes time and it is generally difficult for a man of 25-30 to get rich on his own, because he needs time and experience, even if he is smart. The fact that he is rich does not mean that he has qualities, because they can be from mom and dad or from crimes. The rich in question were either once poor, or made money from mom and dad or fraud. But the fact that money is so important to you doesn't mean anything good to you.

   31, I'm not 30, but 90% of men look at the appearance of women - do they have makeup, do they wear dresses and heels, do they have a manicure - not their qualities. Clothes do not make a woman a Woman, it is her qualities that make her such. From time immemorial, women have chosen men according to their material status, and men have chosen women according to their vision. We are even and there is no room for complaints. And before you make me a gold digger, I will tell you that I completely agree with you, that's why I live by my own rules. And the author seems to me to have qualities, he just hasn't developed them or he doesn't know how to use them fully. He is a romantic soul looking for something real, which, unfortunately, is rare. Black Sabbath

   32, absolutely so. Most are superficial regardless of gender. She simply presented it in such a way that women should sell their beauty for money. By that logic, beauty is a temporary resource. At a certain age, a woman is not beautiful. Should the rich man change them in 5 years, what?

   In fact, money is not the first thing that attracts a woman. But one of the first things that repulsed her was the grumbling that women valued only money. Especially when, as BS rightly points out, most men throw themselves into appearance first, respectively, such statements sound pathetic and hypocritical. And money is to some extent even more important for a man. They give him self-confidence, independence, security that he can be the head of a family. It is these things that make a man attractive, not the money itself. And a man without money is much more likely to feel crushed, to have no confidence in his manhood, to be unable to stand on his own two feet. That's why men, who always complain about women just looking at money, sound so complex and repulsive.

   34, I agree. But the woman did not say "self-confidence, independence, security that she can be the head of a family", but "material condition". "Tarikat women manage to find and tie the 'right, the right' to create a home, a family, to secure their future." Notice "tie", "secure the future". If that's normal ... thanks for the woman. I'm not a dog to be "tied up". The statement is, to put it mildly, humiliating and ugly.

   To 22 and 27 - you are wrong about the fact that a man must have a lot of money to have a woman by his side; and that all women are looking for money. You only depress the person with these statements, and you cliché yourself. I am also 29 years old and do not have a high income, but somehow I have managed to have boyfriends so far. Of course, it is important to develop some personal qualities and at least a little to go out among people to be noticed. Concentrate on yourself and what you want to be, and soon you will get what you want without much effort.

   Here number 31 spoke beautifully

   Congratulations on numbers 31 and 36 for their opinion! They also impress with their literacy and expression. :) When I read some opinions on the topic - from both men and women, it turns out that your thinking is in the direction of "he pays, she opens her legs", which is also known as "silent prostitution". Such women literally sell their three holes only if the man opposite "gives them confidence and security", ie. if he generously unties the purse; but at the same time they pretend that they are not prostitutes, because, you see, there were no official advertisements for this activity. And accordingly, these men have previously crushed and underestimated themselves, accepting the notion that they are incapable of winning and retaining a woman with their personal qualities. And they firmly believe that if they want to melt the pepper regularly, they have to spend large sums of money on the muffin from the description above, who imagines that she is not a prostitute. These men and women lead mediocre lives based on buying and selling paid sexual services, instead of experiencing mutual love and devotion. But they have chosen this path for themselves, and as soon as it suits them, let them live their lives as they see fit. They just can't figure out what they're missing. The double standards of speech for women and men make an ugly impression. If, for example, a man was homeless and a car until the age of XX, and was not ready to throw 2 vouchers a month at the woman (prostitute) next to him, then he was not a commodity. And what about women of the same age, who have also achieved nothing in their lives? Why don't you consider them unfit? Or is it enough to humiliate them to flesh for breeding and pleasures, sold only to men with money? Come on, be a little more serious! :) Well, you want such women not to be considered assholes and to be valued for their qualities (who are they ???), and at the same time this is exactly what comes to light! Author, I was a little younger than you when I lost my virginity (although I had girlfriends before, but without making love), but I never despaired or thought it would not happen to me until the end of my life. The truth is that life is cool in that it is unpredictable and every day can bring you a surprise you did not expect. And the woman I mentioned was a smart, hard-working and literate poop in society, but quite poisoned and with filthy looks and demeanor when we were alone. She literally raped me, but years later she decided it was good to change roles and she wanted me to be more rude than her. Then I was with more women - and cool chicks like her, and more ugly, pimpled, short, full, and two with a child from another man. Half were working and some were even wealthy, and others were poor but at the same time scrambling for a man to get them out of the swamp. And from this personal experience (which is mine and I do not want to summarize for everyone else, because it will not be objective), as well as the experience of my friends, I was able to understand that the biggest trouble I have brought with women type "average" work "- neither beautiful nor ugly. They most of all insist on pretending to be very smart and inaccessible, they play the man for months, expect special behavior and payment of bills, talk about how the man had to prove in the long run as a kind and caring gentleman that they were not easy women and can not sleep with someone quickly, and finally it turns out that they caught up on a second clone, i.e. another man (or several other men) and spin both at the same time as they experiment with who to choose in the end. And so it turned out that in the end a few of them roared at me like some idiot I hadn't suspected until then had beaten and dumped them, and they were overwhelmed by it and wanted my support (but not male, but friendly). Very ugly hypocrisy on the part of such women. I had the least problems with quite attractive women, and most of them had good incomes. At the same time, I did not shine with my appearance, nor did I have money in those moments. And I grabbed them above all with attitude, sincerity, literacy, a man's word with cover! Believe me, there are women who hold on to this! Yes, those others who are semi-prostitutes predominate, but there are also decent women who are looking for a worthy man next to them and who are ready to build a home and a family next to the man; without waiting for him to pay for everything! You will be amazed at how many beautiful, smart and lonely women there are! But you have to have the courage to talk to them, otherwise no one will be able to read your thoughts. Of course, most times I have not been able to achieve anything with such attempts, but a refusal is not really a pain to die, because not everyone thinks in one way and every woman values ​​different qualities, type of appearance and / or material gains in men. To the very caring women I add those who have had a child. They are aware that younger and infertile women are more liked than most men, so they try to be more devoted to the man they are with. And the fact that they are already mothers further helps because, in addition to caring for the child, they have a very different daily life, filled with duties and responsibilities from early dawn, accustomed to being more organized, to cook deliciously, to create coziness at home. But this does not mean that they do not have shortcomings, which at certain moments can be decisive for the relationship. Their ex-husbands are a problem for them, some of whom are miserable. And not every man wants to be with a woman who sees her ex-idiot 2-4 times a month, especially if they have to be seen face to face. And the most interesting. The most beautiful and wealthy of all the women I have ever had, she was also the most generous in bed! Because of feelings and passion, not out of interest and expecting money or gifts in return! To this I add the most ugly one, who had a child and pushed herself for full programs and whistles for hours every night, but maybe she did it more in order to keep me. All of the beauties had 1-2-3 higher educations, lucrative professions, their own apartments and only one did not have a car and was poor. And I had no money, no apartment, no car then, but because of some paradox, things were easier for me with beautiful and slender women than with ugly cellulites, which are made inaccessible and are considered princesses, just because they have two pounds of whale on the face. I had only one nothing and no sincere attitude and a solid deal with the "plane", the tongue and the fingers and that was obviously enough for some and nothing for others. And another curious thing - none of the middle-class or less obscene women had high demands on themselves! As long as they were regular saleswomen, waitresses or workers in a production workshop. I tried to inspire them with confidence and desire to develop themselves, to learn, to acquire skills for a lighter and more profitable profession. But, no, they were adamant about maintaining their level of development and did not want change. They were waiting for the man, i.e. to me to pull everything else. So, author, I will give you advice that you may not accept, but if you still try it in practice, it may help you. You never know. :) Think carefully about what kind of woman you want next to you. This does not mean that another type of woman will not be Your wife, but still come together people who think in one direction about their future and give each other this, which they need the most. If a woman who isn't attractive can't "lift your plane", just don't deal with them and value your time! However, keep in mind that if an averagely beautiful or ugly woman is mall and ugly with you and is a goddess in bed, you will be much happier with her than with some lacquered grumbler who only drains your money and turns you to your little one. finger (and maybe in parallel with one or two other balaclavas, who also lay her money and play her whistle). Target only those women who will grab you for at least a few reasons, not just one! If a chick impresses you with her ass or breasts or face, but she lacks basic human qualities, then be sure that you can't have a serious relationship with her. Even if you can predispose her to fuck a few times, it's unlikely to last long. At best, you'll be wasting more years of your life, and the later you start a family, the harder it will be, because many women after the age of 30-35 already have children from other men. after unsuccessful relationships or marriages, and there are many who gain weight and are ugly compared to their young years! And there is a danger that you will deal with beautiful but hopeless women for 2-5 years, and then abruptly focus on women who have already given birth and / or have gained weight and lost their freshness. Therefore, if you like beauties, choose among them only the smart ones and those who have achieved something in your life! The poor beautiful women in the majority are looking for someone to support them against fucking, ie. they only offer you prostitution. Yes, it sounds strange, but you have a better chance with a woman, who has already achieved more than you at the moment. Women who, like you, are penniless would find it difficult to decide to be with you because they are focused on having someone to look after them and take care of them so that they do not work. On the other hand, a hard-working woman has more liberated thoughts and her first concern is not to cling to some paralysis. Most such women have had relationships with wealthy men in the past and have often been scalded by their mistreatment and infidelity. This is what the beautiful and wealthy women I have been with have told me. They are so fed up with lies, lack of attention and overflow of intimacy from men who think only for their own pleasure that they have begun to appreciate the man's attitude and care. This does not mean that they have stopped liking wealthy men or those who pass for split butts, whose self-esteem is due only to money or muscle, but they know what to expect from them and prefer not to lick their wounds again. Also, don't make the mistake of ignoring a woman with small breasts over one with much larger ones! Bet on her behavior and value system! Judge by this mostly! In most cases, large breasts are far from beautiful and tight; they are even often shapeless, slack, with stretch marks and 20 cm more drooping than you can see through a woman's neckline. After a future pregnancy and gaining weight, it will be even harder for you to lift the plane with it. I mention this well-known fact, not to offend the women in question, but because I wrote you that it is a problem for you to be aroused by a woman who is not your type of radiation. Avoid paying the joint bills while you are still two separate (un) acquaintances, instead of a couple. And even if you are a couple, a woman who truly values ​​and respects you will join you in the accounts. If not in restaurants, at least in the shared payment of rent and some utility bills. It is quite common, if you cover your housing and electricity bills together, to pay for going out in the evening while she buys her make-up and clothes with her money. That way no one will be harmed. But if it requires you to pay for everything, then just don't deal with it! Such a woman will make your life miserable, because even in her infancy she shows you that she does not value you as a person, she is not with you because of your nature, but she pursues personal benefits and wants to lie on your back! Which means she'll easily stab you when you're most vulnerable (with less money than anyone she's interested in while you're together) and loving her unconditionally! Of course, you must also realize what you yourself can give to a woman and look for one that suits you. :) Kifloprizemitel

   Hello, I wrote here under number 26. I want to specifically answer Black Sabbath, which wrote here under number 32. Black Sabbath, for better or worse, what is written is true. But I have an important remark. Men look at the appearance of women, but not what you write - makeup, clothes, hairstyles. And they look at the appearance given by nature - body, face and so on / not to fall into the more cynical details /. And the clothes and make-up just enhance the impression. Not that they are completely irrelevant, but they are still a secondary factor. Male, 41 years old.

   Just to ask the author of comment number 30: did you make this statistic after some research (which you did on what occasion) or did you invent it on the go while writing the comment?

   These Bulgarians are a terrible thing. Almost all of you said that a woman should be super beautiful and a man should be super rich. And number 38 wrote a whole novel about how he always got lucky with super beauties, but not only, and with cars, and with money, and with a few seniors: D he himself sounds a bit like a male prostitute, supposedly a gigolo: D The poor author , almost everyone tells him that he was already terribly late, he almost missed the last train, you just complicate it even more, he is not 70 !? He has time to find a girl he likes without necessarily getting rich, or she is a "super beauty", the only advice I will give him is not to try those he doesn't like because it's worse than being alone and it's virgin to be with someone who doesn't attract you :)

   I don't see what's wrong with going to a prostitute. At least the pressure of being a virgin will go away and you will relax a bit. A serious girlfriend will cost you a lot more than paid girls anyway. And you don't seem to know what you want anyway. I'm shocked by what you say - how the girl was waiting for you ready, death is called to bed, she sent her roommates to take you and then, after a few months of meetings, you found out that you don't really like it ... You probably don't know how to ask. Why you had to go to a hotel - if you still live with yours, maybe it's time to consider moving to a small apartment alone. Otherwise, even if you meet the perfect girl and have an interest in her, where will you take her - you will press in cafes and benches, and for a special occasion will you rent a hotel? It doesn't happen that way.

   I felt sick reading the comments. They wrote mostly poisonous individuals. Not all women seek money from men. Some of us make our own living and commit ourselves for love, not profit. But, unfortunately, we are few and lost in the background of the gold diggers. And your virginity, author, would not be a problem for a valuable girl. Do not lose hope.

   39, maybe you're right. There are certainly such men, but I am left with a different impression. Maybe our environments are different, I don't know ... Black Sabbath

   Male of 29 / Sofia I'm number 22 (if that matters) To number 27 - It makes a big difference whether a person manages his life on his own or is helped. If you pay for everything yourself, you will need 3-4 k if not more, but most young people get a lot of support from their parents. Apartments, cars, start working with family friends, pay for their education, etc. Many (not to say all) of my married friends, parents gave them their own homes or vacated their homes and went to live elsewhere. Their cars are maintained by their father, and in some cases they even refuel them, in addition to paying for their repairs. Their wives don't care that their husbands don't take care of themselves. She sees that he has the car to drive her away, the apartment to live with him and they work to have money to get them here and there. They don't even think about what happens when the father stops helping. A peer divorced for this very reason. His father fell ill, (heart attack) stopped being able to help, a year later he divorced him because he could not live like that, the money was not enough and so on. And she doesn't have one working day. He was also with a child. He proudly went to his mother and started looking for another man instead of a job. Sofia is full of girls from the countryside who have come to look for a husband from Sofia and are looking to move in with him quite quickly and not pay rent. When the apartment is hereditary and you have not given anything for it, you can very easily bind yourself. I took mine at 300 dawn, there were a lot of quarrels, no chance to marry a woman without anything behind me. That's why I haven't gotten married yet. They have a desire, but neither an apartment nor a car, no money or career saved. To number 31- On the one hand you are right that it does not mean that it will not happen, on the other hand I can actually tell you that money nowadays is very difficult to make and pull in life and make 500k or more (even in properties and possessions) you become 40 or 50 if you do it at all. Many smart people stay for a lifetime only on a slightly higher salary, because they do not have the heart for this - they can not withstand stress and are afraid to try so as not to lose everything. Number 32, Black Sabbath, And another time I came across your comments on the site, every time you say the same thing. It's a little weird that you don't feel like we men can't compare to something you don't. For example, I said that for marriage I want the girl next to me to have a home. Calculate how difficult even this requirement is, since for 29 years I can't even find one that has its own home. I know a few, but we had no attraction. For example, for an unmarried child, I agree to have a career or to be supported. But as you can see, I have not found this so far because even if it has a stable job or a good profession, it is such a high bar (plus attraction, of course). This leads to the requirements - abe to be at least maintained and have fun with her, but it is not suitable for a serious relationship and future even if you are together for years. Now as a man likes you because of your appearance, he still likes you, as a woman likes you because of financial support, it's different. I have such requirements for my girlfriends - heels, skirts, make-up, manicure, etc. at least because I support myself - I always wear a shirt, formal pants or sporty elegant, belt, formal shoes, jacket, coat or leather jacket. It is normal not to want the woman next to me to be in "comfortable clothes" as I am not wearing an anzung or jeans accompanied by a T-shirt or a blouse and a sweatshirt. There is a ratio - money that a man is willing to throw at a woman is equal to her beauty and what she is willing to do in bed. For example, my ex-girlfriend didn't want anal. We tried in every way and predisposition, but he refused. At the same time he does not work, has no home and car or saved money and talks to me about marriage and a child. We broke up, of course, even though we hadn't been together for a while. Recently I looked at the profile and I was interested in what was happening with her - a new friend, but shorter than me, thicker than me, for rent, in low-paid work, the places where he leads it are quite budget-friendly. I'm glad she's happy and not alone, but that's a very good example.

   It's all about confidence and relaxation. My first time was like a hundred. Everything is a feeling.

   45, do not offend me, but with these requirements there is a high probability that you will be left alone. I understand the requirement with the apartment, but the fact that a woman does not have a manicure and does not wear makeup, heels, skirts, etc., does not mean that it is not maintained. I don't wear them, I only put on make-up sometimes, but I'm extremely well-supported and the new specialty I'm studying also requires me to be well-maintained. I repeat the same thing because there are more important things than a woman's manicure and heels (or a man's money). For example, to be faithful to you, not to treat you like an ATM, a trophy or a second-hand person. Money is earned, housing is bought. For some people (both men and women), things about money and housing come later in life. And the fact that a man likes a woman because of the dress does not mean that he likes her as a man. He likes her because of her clothes. I did experiments. They even greet me on the street in plain clothes. With a group T-shirt - no. That's why I found a man with whom we have a lot in common and other men don't interest me. I have a bad experience with them. Otherwise, I want you to find what you are looking for. It will be difficult, but not impossible. Black Sabbath

   45, prepare for another 30 years to be alone. Of course, a beautiful woman with a career will not notice you - what are you for? To listen to your great "requirements"?

   Go to a prostitute brother. After my first girlfriend at 23 (things were miraculous there, otherwise I would have been a virgin, I don't know how many years) I stayed without sex / boyfriend for a long time. I went to a prostitute ... several times. For several years. Not a big drama. You knock and you go. You get used to talking to women, even in such a more atypical context. It's an interesting experience. I'm 31 now, I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years. I think again ..

   45, I'm very curious who lied to you that the girl was obliged to anal? From what pain? Just because you have sexual problems and misconceptions about sex doesn't mean the poor girl has to pay for your mistakes. You have sick ideas about women everywhere. I did not read anything true in your comment. And who lied to you that comfortable clothes don't look good? Convenience is the most important thing when choosing clothes. What could be better than feeling good? Personally, I almost always wear comfortable clothes, I don't do anal because I don't owe anyone, and my body. I determine what will happen to him and what will not. I have a manicure because I like it. I still don't have my own home, but I'm not looking for men according to money, but according to mind, vision and heart. It's good that you have an idea of ​​what you want, but this idea is quite crooked. Besides, you are illiterate. Many requirements, and you didn't even speak correctly. Even if you meet the woman of your dreams, illiteracy can repel her. Work on your spelling, seriously. You make simple mistakes. And this is not a hate, but a well-intentioned remark. Perversion and selfishness are also repulsive, and much more so. Keep that in mind. If I were in the place of the one you're talking about after your second anal push, I'd send you. Women like NOT perverted, normal, decent men who can love, see beyond their penis and do not consider it the center of the universe. I'm sorry if I offended you, but these are the facts. With this mentality, your chances for any woman tend to zero. Success after all! I wish you love and happiness. Work on your spelling, seriously. You make simple mistakes. And this is not a hate, but a well-intentioned remark. Perversion and selfishness are also repulsive, and much more so. Keep that in mind. If I were in the place of the one you're talking about after your second anal push, I'd send you. Women like NOT perverted, normal, decent men who can love, see beyond their penis and do not consider it the center of the universe. I'm sorry if I offended you, but these are the facts. With this mentality, your chances for any woman tend to zero. Success after all! I wish you love and happiness. Work on your spelling, seriously. You make simple mistakes. And this is not a hate, but a well-intentioned remark. Perversion and selfishness are also repulsive, and much more so. Keep that in mind. If I were in the place of the one you're talking about after your second anal push, I'd send you. Women like NOT perverted, normal, decent men who can love, see beyond their penis and do not consider it the center of the universe. I'm sorry if I offended you, but these are the facts. With this mentality, your chances for any woman tend to zero. Success after all! I wish you love and happiness. of which you speak, even after your second push for anal, I would send you. Women like NOT perverted, normal, decent men who can love, see beyond their penis and do not consider it the center of the universe. I'm sorry if I offended you, but these are the facts. With this mentality, your chances for any woman tend to zero. Success after all! I wish you love and happiness. of which you speak, after your second push for anal, I would send you. Women like NOT perverted, normal, decent men who can love, see beyond their penis and do not consider it the center of the universe. I'm sorry if I offended you, but these are the facts. With this mentality, your chances for any woman tend to zero. Success after all! I wish you love and happiness.

   Male 29 / Sofia (I am number 22/45) to number 47 (Black Sabbath) and number 50 Both do not agree with me, because 2 of them do not meet these requirements. (even the minimum ones) If you covered them, they wouldn't seem too "high" and unattainable. If a woman says I want my husband to take at least BGN 3,000 salary, it will be the same, because at least 80% of men do not take this money. But this does not mean that these women would not find a man, as long as they have something to offer him. It's the same with me - I offer a lot, I demand a lot. Number 50 I don't think you can say anything on the subject - whether it would break me or not because in the first place you do not meet my requirements even for a frivolous relationship (no future simply). I can ask you when was the last time you went out with a man to throw BGN 1,000 for you only for a month, but I don't think there would have been one. Because I am in such an environment, no one who is ready goes out with someone in comfortable clothes, to deny him something in sex and not to support himself. We are a different class of people. You offer less and you can demand less. It's a little strange to me that I even have to tell you this, and you don't feel alone ... Some who go to the gym regularly won't go out with a fat woman. Do not keep diets and train to go out with some who stuff jam all day and do not move from the couch. A man who walks dressed like me does not go out with girls in jeans and a blouse. I have requirements because I can afford to have them. If I sit without finding it, of course I will lower the requirements. But I don't think that for a child without marriage, to demand a constant income from the woman and to be supported is something so difficult. Many women are just bored and looking for a man who can support them completely so that they don't do anything all day. I don't know why number 50 feels so rejected by me to take the time to talk about how I can't have any of my demands. The strange thing is that I never reacted like that in reverse roles. Women have told me that he wants the man to be over 20 cm or to have a car for 100,000, his home to be mandatory in Boyana or Lozenets, but I would never react that way. Everyone decides what they can ask based on what they can offer ... In the countries of the topic, these 3 women found quite close to what they were looking for. Women have told me that he wants the man to be over 20 cm or to have a car for 100,000, his home to be mandatory in Boyana or Lozenets, but I would never react that way. Everyone decides what they can ask based on what they can offer ... In the countries of the topic, these 3 women found quite close to what they were looking for. Women have told me that he wants the man to be over 20 cm or to have a car for 100,000, his home to be mandatory in Boyana or Lozenets, but I would never react that way. Everyone decides what they can ask based on what they can offer ... In the countries of the topic, these 3 women found quite close to what they were looking for.

   # 51, In my opinion, you are right that a person who has requirements should also have something to offer. I think it's just weird for a man to require a woman to have a home. For example, I understand this about the profession. A woman who does not have a job is very likely to go down - she will only wait for the man, she is likely to be pampered, to be neglected, and she may go abroad. Even recently there was a topic for one. And if something happens and the husband loses his job, things go. Of course, there are women who dream of being housewives, looking after their home and family, and really willing to do so. But they are rather rare and still quite addictive. That's good. But in principle, housing is the duty of the man. He must be the head of the family, be able to provide for it and be on its territory. I have my own home, but I don't want to live in it with my future husband. I know that this will have a negative impact on our relationship in many ways. For example, I would rent it out and go to live with it, even if it was in an apartment. Because there he will feel free to stand up for his rules, and there will be no resentment in my head about how someone is pretending to be in my apartment. Another question is, at the age of 29, how many women can afford a home. They are either very career-oriented, which means that their family is not valuable to them, or they have rich parents and are used to receiving many and expensive things, or they have inherited it from their parents. My father helped me, otherwise I couldn't do it, even though I work in a very qualified position. For me nowadays, the most normal thing is to get together and invest in a common home, but it's good that you haven't lived with mom and dad before. But mostly it's weird for a man to look for the material from a woman, because usually men just look differently. After all, you have your considerations, like everyone else. G30

   51, I have an apartment, but it is inherited from my grandmother, who died. Otherwise, at 21 I can hardly have bought my own. After 2 years I graduate, and the clothes are easy - I put on the dresses and heels, make-up, get a manicure and that's it. I'm neither fat nor ugly. I meet at least some of your requirements and the moment I hear that you want a manicure, I say goodbye to you, because you are not with me, for myself, but for the nails and makeup. I also have great requirements for a man - to be faithful to me, to be absolutely honest and loyal to me, to keep his word, to protect me, not to grumble, not to fall for light women and muffins and other things. Yes, with the modern resemblance of men, I am convinced that even these requirements are a lot for them, and maybe for you. Well, I found the Man. And it's not in vain that I'm in a relationship, and you're alone. No self-respecting woman, and she was rich and with an apartment, she would not get along with a man who was with her because of her nails and skirt. I say respectful because such kilfi pain. Because such a woman can be sophisticated at work, and in her free time she can be herself and wear a Metallica T-shirt. Yes, I know such people. But you say you can't be with a woman but jeans and a blouse. You have probably missed the right woman for you many times. Black Sabbath