Imagine an unattractive woman eager for male attention, and imagine a company of women who receive one without looking for it. Here I will analyze the "greedy for attention". Be very careful with this type of women, they slowly fall into delusion, and begin to believe that the woman in them is really valued, and there is no open indulgence in their condition. Seeking flirtation constantly, insatiable for flirting, if they do not get it, communication becomes impossible and on issues that are important, you are ignored and ridiculed, because you can not be distorted because of her and the delusion in which she is inserted. Don't get me wrong, I'm not Casanova, but I know my place, and more or less maybe, when you're on top of an endeavor, you just see the huge holes and stupidity of the person trying to do something like that, but he does not understand that he is lagging behind. In my opinion, some people remain offended, but a person is attracted by what he is not so attracted to, there is harmony where both sides strive for the same thing. For example, you prefer to push coins to girls, you will attract to you those who take, and then a modest boy falls in love with such a girl, and wonders "is there anything between them" and then "broke his heart". And for this reason, attempts are made to change the other person, others break down, others become vindictive because they do not understand that they do not understand things as they really are. As for women without competition, just because someone has been found to caress her ego does not mean that everyone will do it. And when he doesn't get attention, he starts looking for it, which is ugly. It's good to look at the real possibilities, instead of throwing yourself where they don't want you and complaining. I'm also overshadowed on the street, it's real, but I don't think about it, I'm supported by the fact that I've been with those I want, and despite everything I haven't messed up and deceived, I know how hard it is to fall from a height.
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Concreteness, man, concreteness! These are not philosophical treatises, tell the story and we will give our opinion and lessons and not you to philosophize and we to guess about history!
Again, someone from the "poor class" shouted that someone from the "above middle class" had cut him off. Well, since your complexes are more and you can't experience that there are better ones and the better ones like others, stay where you belong and you won't go crazy with anger and malice. And most of all to keep us busy with strange, confusing and meaningless topics. My head ached until I realized what you were trying to vomit.
I support 1 and 2. And the author is too illiterate to have the confidence to experience himself as a mentor.
But, author, why do you communicate with such women? Why is it needed, who? To communicate with a woman you don't like because it's necessary in your work or because she's your friend's friend or a family friend - yes, but to communicate with a woman you don't like, she flirts with you and you stay. .. It is not logical, unless you like her attention. Maybe such a (ugly for you) woman is an interesting interlocutor and therefore to tolerate her, but then ask yourself - why do you not have male friends or a partner - a woman with whom to love and share. That there are many tensioners of both sexes - there are, but also those who mislead them that there may be something between them ... and there are.
to number 2, by the author You'd better run your farm, and don't bother anymore, your comment is contradictory and superficial due to misunderstanding of the article.
Author, really nothing is understood from your story.