Hello. A 22-year-old man, very soon, life and health, will turn 23. I recently wrote a story on the site - it says "I have the feeling that I will die alone." Let's just say I've been feeling pretty energetic and cheerful lately. It's like I'm a freshman, looking for friends and fun. But at the same time I feel much smarter, calmer and thinking about the future. But I want to use this energy to develop not only higher education and training, training and regimes, and work and income. From a young age, like everyone else, I may have had dreams. Over the years, I have come up with several ideas with which I can start my own business. Whether small, medium, or one day grow into a big business. Some small things have somehow "stumbled" me on the way to start realizing these dreams. One of the things, what scares me is WORKHOLISM. The other is money. Both change people beyond recognition. Anyway. I deliberately wrote the title of my previous story at the beginning - there I described a feeling of a cycle. Work, from there income; the teaching, hence the knowledge and development of the personality; training and regimens and personal satisfaction with them. And in this closed circle, although there are many happy moments, friends, etc., the ideas of the pursuit of dreams somehow fade into my mind ... or more precisely, exactly which one to be, which one is the most real. , where I will be able to succeed and which will make me happy and satisfied with something that I have personally created. I'm interested. The site includes people who have managed to realize their dreams, or are on the way to it. What are the sacrifices to achieve them ... Where do you find the motivation to keep chasing them, despite the "headwind", the difficulties and hesitations ... What do you do to keep chasing them? Do you stick a picture of the city you want to live in, for example (Martin from the series Undercover, the city is Rio de Janeiro)? Or do you watch the same movie that is your favorite and motivates you? I just have the energy, I have the motivation. I hope you don't get me wrong, but I don't want to work all my life as a salesman, a cashier, in a chair in an office, etc. I won't lose anything trying to create something that in time I hope will grow into something more -large. Something for people to recognize, like and make them happy, to make me happy too, because there is no better feeling than a job well done. I want your stories about dreams come true, about unfulfilled dreams, for ways of motivation; for stories about why you succeeded and why you didn't, where you wanted to succeed.
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Don't procrastinate from today to tomorrow, because that's how you'll never start. Get rid of your fear. Set clear goals, even if you have to write them down somewhere. And every day do something to get closer to the desired result. I hope you see my comment.
Little how many moms, women's stories I read. How much insecurity, how much vomit, how much clichés, how many frames and how much mediocrity .... Dude, life is very simple. Just learn to accept what comes to you. Being a man is like playing tennis with a ball machine. You stop dreaming, you do something and you meet the blows. Over time, you improve in the field to such an extent that not only do people appreciate you, not only do you have the feeling that you are doing something useful for yourself and others, but it also benefits you. The trick is to find the right area, but at least the only way I know is to try. I have been trying different professions all my life and only now at 36, I found it. I consider myself super successful after 2-3 years in the field. Some never find it, but be smart and observe yourself in what you are good at. Don't look at what's profitable, it's a complete waste of time. Stop dreaming, stop making lists, stop putting pictures on your lockers. Just live! This does not mean, of course, living day after day and getting drunk every night. Just set short-term GOALS, not long-term DREAMS. Waste your energy in practice, not in plans. And most importantly, rejoice when you fail, that's how you become good, trial and error. Good luck and report here from time to time!
Lots of limitations bro, a lot of mediocrity. You will struggle a lot, a lot more until you become really mature. Until you understand who you are and why you are here on this earth. :)
Number 2: You gave him a lot of good advice. But how to find the right area? Can't study more than 2 maximum 3 graduates? And without proper education, how will you immerse yourself in the work to understand that this is for you? How did you find her? Author, you are still very young, when you grow up, everything will fall into place. Just don't stop trying, don't give up moving forward. Unfortunately, there are some things you just have to accept, such as the fact that everything is changing, your interests, your dreams, your priorities. If you want to try something new, meet a psychotherapist, psychotherapy is a way to yourself.
But. 2 am Do but. 4, it is not true that education allows you to immerse yourself. If so, all graduates would be good at their field. In fact, the exact opposite effect occurs. School / university education puts us in a mold from which nothing new, essential, innovative and creative emerges. Unless it's a conservative education like medicine, for example, it's a complete waste of time. Courses, on the other hand, are something else. Many of them also give you a direct practical orientation. That is why even now they are so relevant and a flexible solution to find out how good we are in the field. The truth is that trying different things develops concentration and attention. Conversely, if a person develops in only one area there is a danger of developing parasitic automatism, in addition, the fact that we are good in the field does not mean that we like it and that is our vocation. Vocation means doing things with passion, while at the same time being difficult to be surpassed by others and ultimately useful to others. Then we do not go to work for money, we do not go for improvement. We don't even go because people tell us thank you. We walk simply because we are convinced that work gives us meaning in life. And I go back to concentration. My personal experience turned out that all the work I did was not in vain. Even if I load trucks with logs from the forest, or be an administrator of Microsoft technologies. Everything I've been through plays on my character, the person I am now. A master plan of the Almighty (I am not pious, calm) or there the higher power over us. And right at one point, hop ... it's in front of you, what you were looking for. But you do not find it and you should not look for it. It finds you. I say again - you just follow your path to get ready for it. In some Eastern philosophies it is called Tao. In other beliefs it is called "invariance".