Yuhuu. ~ 3y. leiter. Ok, well I don't know how to start. It will be a long post, there will be reflections, there will be laziness, there will be analyzes that cannot be read to him - skip. Quick pre-story. A young, nice, athletic, smart man (24 years old) teases a young, nice, well-built woman (29 years old). Landfill initiated by the female. Sex, cool moments, a few months -> rapprochement. Falling in love, starting a relationship. Our main character (Mulo) walks and blooms, as well as (Kichka). Butterflies, happiness, cool moments and the only thing he arranged dug a place in the mind of Mule. 1. Problem №1 - in the initial stage Mulyo found out about Kichka that she is Roma. (family values, Mule's disapproval, etc.) 2. Problem №2 - As time progressed for this relationship, Problem №1 was the most common excuse for relationship problems. Despite these 2 described, we moved crookedly to the left, although with many complaints from her (typically female). In order not to say that I am only talking nonsense, I give an example of women's clues: "You and I do not have a picture on the net"; "I want a serious relationship ..."; "You can't give me what I want (for sure - I don't know in what form ... it shouldn't be fine, because she has it)" ... and a bunch of others. excuses typical of most women who blame men (in part) for adversity. Seen through the prism of paradox, sarcasm and irony, so far there is nothing shocking, except that Kichka and Mulyo have some "impossible love". Yes but no! She is not famous for her best reputation (local), lives in Sofia, builds a career, has a business, leads a high lifestyle. For the locals (from the small town) the rumors are the following: prostitute (somewhere). -Family: father (pimp), mother (employee abroad in a restaurant - in her words). (brother - waiter in BG). Imagine what a colorful situation it is. In the beginning it bothered me a lot (and more ..), I talked to her on this topic. Absurd. There is no such thing, be it rumors, people envy. They couple her because of her father's name and ... and so on. I agree! (I'm in love). We live well, but something is constantly bothering me. All the things that bother me from the inside that I don't know. 3. Problem №3 - the phone is a PERSONAL SPACE. At first I took it as ok, but as the months went by, I began to doubt it. She never showed me and came out with the number that it was personal and if I wanted (to accept it or not to accept it - her decision). She showed it to me 3-4 times (I didn't see anything except invitations to FB). 4. She has been living in Sofia for 1 year (and I am going to move). During this time, only God and she know if there were no playboys. 5. Moves to Sofia. I live with her. Two weeks earlier, she informed me that she had an important trip to France (wtf). I can't stand what and what. My logical behavior indicates that she will go to her father. She flatly refuses to go with her (it was risky - think). He came back, I didn't ask many questions, ie I asked questions, but when I tried to find meaning, things turned into a scandal (1st indication that something was wrong). I had to feel guilty for questioning. I was accused of pretending to be a detective. As I do not believe to leave her. All the things that flooded me that I was guilty and paranoid. I agreed. Exactly a week later I decide (out of paranoia) to check lockers, chests of drawers, etc., just look to find something. Bingo! I find a Durex Classic Jeans condom. My first job is to check if there are any in BG. To my great regret I do not find. There are only Classics or only Jeans. After a brief search on the Internet, the first few sites that come out are French. I will not describe the feeling to you ... Here is the second conversation, contributed by a scandal in which the justification and argument for this condom are that they belong to her roommate or someone who came to visit them. Wow (ingenious). When asked what she was doing then in the bedroom nightstand, she explained that she hid it so that it would not be in a visible place (she simply put it away). Again a brilliant answer. Despite all my naivety, I didn't have 100% proof to prove that she went to fuck someone (and for money bastard ...) That's not all, exactly a week later I decide to look for and find new evidence Cash receipt from last year December (2017) which clearly shows the purchase of some clothes from a store. I'm checking the date. It's the weekend (it's the last trip, with the big difference that I don't even know, because during that time we were arguing and not communicating). So ... after the frank conversation, the explanation was - tears, tears and tears again. He said nothing else. Time passed (I stayed with her I don't know ...) until I finally totally screamed and realized that she was wings and other things from me. Taking drugs, she covered one fuck (before she caught up with me), it turned out that there were 2 before me (hahaha), only 4 came out of my accounts. And so on, until I had to break my privacy and see that she was having some conversations with other people's numbers, communication with a potential pimp (who was presented as a friend and relative), chats about new "victims", complaints from her that he can't do more (tired of everything). There was no talk of fucking directly, but their communication was damn regular and close. Plus the fact that then they didn't know how to lie to me. I had already stunned them and they had shit (they saw that I knew a lot of things). There was a scandal, I saw a lot of things .. My favorite is a priestess of love.
I don't know if he fucks them (knocks) 10+ per night or is 1 (old) who is a provider. I don't have 100% proof where I can mold her to fuck or cheat on me, but the fact that things are hidden from a partner and a person with whom you thought something is eloquent enough. She swears to the last that I imagine that there is nothing like that, that I am a filmmaker, a psychiatrist, a sick brain and all sorts of epithets likening the discrepancy between consciousness - world, but the facts say otherwise about me. In front of people is another person (business, career, money ...). You will tell me now why I am bothering you with nonsense. Well, it's dumb. A lot of stress at once. You understand some things. You understand that they are lying. You understand that you trust, but you can't judge which prevails more - the kindness they have done to you or the lies they have told (there are both). At the same time (when I became very suspicious) I started an affair with another woman. (but married - supposedly only sex). From there I was a little distracted. But I'm in a hole. 3 days I'm okay, 1 day I think. And I rather think about the lies, about the image presented to me. Two thoughts come to me: is it possible that I went to bed with a prostitute (broken mileage) or will my doubts turn out to be unfounded and have been an obstacle in my head? A very difficult reason to think. Otherwise I don't wish it on anyone. Not the most pleasant feeling. Sorry if it's chaotic. I tried to systematize things in 100 lines. It's about 3 years. connection. I can't tell in detail. I have described some of the most striking events. Otherwise, I enjoy how fate hardens me. Is he trying to save me or is he punishing me? :) Thanks!
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The poor girl. That's all I can say. I hope someone gets it ...
I haven't read everything, I just don't have much time now. I don't know if this is a prostitute, but she's certainly not a person to have any kind of relationship with. You better stay away from her. Black Sabbath
Brother, at the very beginning, when he wrote that he was a Roma woman ... did you expect anything else, and you were supposed to be a smart boy ... tongue ... for your lost 3 years, there seems to be no Bulgarian woman for you ...
Okay, so what is this business? Haven't you researched? If it's real, why fuck for money? If the screen, clear the work.
In my opinion, just drop this story. There are two options: - option 1. She is lying to you, or she has a lover, or she is a prostitute (it doesn't matter much). In this case, there is no point in being with her. - Option 2. She is innocent, but you do not trust her and you become paranoid. There is no point in being with her again. You hardly feel good doing checks and being alert non-stop. Go ahead, in time you will overcome this story.
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from the Author: To Number 1. Do you see what you write them. Bitter? Conscious? I can only say that for these 3 years. I haven't touched another woman, I've been tempted, I've done anything for her (I don't mean material things) and you remember how frustrated a man is when he doesn't know if he's being told the truth, but the facts, the rumors and what you are. discovered - they say otherwise! (then why I slept with this other one). I have always intended to compromise with the ethnic group, I have perceived her as a normal woman / person. To number 6: This is the key question. In both cases there is a man (s) involved (in my opinion). It is hellishly difficult for me to imagine it, to accept it and to understand that the person who introduces himself to me as good, kind, helpful is actually ready to sell his body for a large sum of money. And here we are not talking about the past. If it was over and she had stopped and started. " ? ). She doesn't "change" that much with me. I don't have a picture to see how it is. I will post below something I wrote earlier and I want you to give an opinion Since I know her she has been financially free (at least it seemed so). At first I wasn't wrong, because I was a fuck. Then when I started asking questions, she answered with wrong answers - (savings, from her mother, from her father, etc.) After a year (spent with her), obviously there was no more this money (which I thought, ie the high standard of life). To make the information more adequate, I will explain it like this: I don't know her before (except for these 3 years). According to her, she lived in Greece, worked as a hairdresser, and then has a relationship with a cosmetics company). This is so (ties in) because I personally went with her, it seems that she has established contacts (she knows the language, etc.). She answered questions like how she bought the car (brand new for 2014) with work, savings, etc. Which didn't bother me mathematically (she covered the lease for 1 year, because that was her explanation). He was just telling me that there was more to be made in Greece. Point. We are moving the focus to BG now. Since she has been here and decided to move to Sofia, she has started working as a distributor - a sales representative of the brand (to which she worked in Greece) and to promote cosmetics. And so it was. She had a salary (1300-1400 BGN percentage), and like the most ordinary girl she worked every day (Monday-Friday). This is where my biggest dichotomy comes from. How will she be both a prostitute and will work for a salary and drive around the salons all day? However, later, when a sum of money was poured out (which he told me about), I became quite suspicious. How will you get a sum of money out of nothing. She explained to me that they were from her father. I didn't run into a problem (I don't have the right), but I definitely didn't approve of it. After this situation I started to get confused. What was happening to her, this secrecy, she shared with me, but to a certain extent. About the incident with France (she came back with a lot of money, which she told me about). I did not mention this in the 1st post. That was the most shocking. I also found a key to a Bricard apartment. When I asked him about it, he answered that the girls had given it to him (see below). But according to her, it turns out that SHE did NOT go to fuck for this money, but is something like a pimp. I will not explain to you what explanation he gave me for the money. Or I'll explain (I'm ashamed) There was one where some girls (ie whores) picked it up and wanted to drain it. (he was kind of old). Because "they were dumb" and they couldn't handle the banks, the monks had to go to get along. The scheme was as follows: they lied to him to invest money in Bulgaria in real estate, and she was a broker. I will not describe to you my logic of what connected them while listening to the story. Then the plan is to take the money (as received) and hang it (the victim) as much as possible. And her strongest argument was that if she was a prostitute, who would give her over 50k for one night. He explained to me that this same man was ill, old, mentally ill, had no relatives (shock) and could not believe it. It was 6 from the lottery. After a while (when I was unraveling things) I really found this French number, to which she calls (outgoing) periodically (5-10 times a month) and in the photo (in Viber) there was some old, visibly sick person (at least in appearance). I admit the worst (the truth in my opinion). This is the sponsor she's bullshitting in some way, and these nonsense with other whores is just history. After tying up most things (from me), a very ugly scandal ensued. I said it in plain text that she is a whore to me, she just doesn't have the courage to admit it. She showed me an image I was attached to in the beginning and then she couldn't change it. So the more I did some "investigations," the more she complained that she wasn't feeling well with a man like me who was just digging and looking to get something out. He always wanted us to break up. After the last scandal in early January (which was the insight for me and I explained all my doubts that they were well-founded) I broke up with her. We had no contact for about 2 months. It's just that she was trying to find me, sending me provocative messages like, "I hope you're happy." "It ruined me emotionally." Whereupon he asked me for an official engagement (I responded) and then started again with the provocations (from time to time, when he saw that I was active with other women - bars, restaurants). - And I still see that he "follows" me on some social networks. That's why I'm posting the topic here. I don't know (ie I know) how to react, but I am very impulsive / emotional and I make mistakes. Who would act in this situation? (I think I know the answer) And one more thing: What kind of man would she find (according to this behavior)? Someone who will be able to lie and will not dig into the past or will not care what she does (by lying / hiding)? establishments). - And I still see that he "follows" me on some social networks. That's why I'm posting the topic here. I don't know (ie I know) how to react, but I am very impulsive / emotional and I make mistakes. Who would act in this situation? (I think I know the answer) And one more thing: What kind of man would she find (according to this behavior)? Someone who will be able to lie and will not dig into the past or will not care what she does (lying to him / hiding)? establishments). - And I still see that he "follows" me on some social networks. That's why I'm posting the topic here. I don't know (ie I know) how to react, but I am very impulsive / emotional and I make mistakes. Who would act in this situation? (I think I know the answer) And one more thing: What kind of man would she find (according to this behavior)? Someone who will be able to lie and will not dig into the past or will not care what she does (by lying / hiding)?
from the Author again: I want to give it back to her in the most painful way possible. To understand that you should not "fuck" and do such crap. I still can't feel what's going on!