On the Behavior in Intimate Marriage for the Exaltation of the Spiritual Holiness of the Blessed Sacrament of Marriage and for the Glory of God, written by Ruth Smithers, beloved wife of the Rev. LD Smithers, pastor of the Arcadian Methodist Church at the Eastern Regional Conference94, in -to. ==================== For the sensitive girl, who was lucky enough to receive the right upbringing, the wedding day, ironically, is both the happiest and the most horrible day. in life. The good side is the wedding itself, in which the bride is the center of attention in a beautiful and inspiring ceremony, symbolizing her triumph, in which the man guarantees the provision of all her needs for the rest of her life. The bad side - this is the first wedding night in which the bride , so to speak, pays the expenses, as for the first time he has to experience all the horrors of sexual life. In this regard, dear readers, let me reveal to you a shocking truth. There are girls who meet the test of the first wedding night with curiosity and pleasure. Beware of such treatment! A selfish and lustful husband could easily benefit from such a woman. Never forget the main rule in married life:
GIVE A LITTLE, GIVE RARELY AND, MOST IMPORTANTLY, GIVE RELIGIOUSLY.
Otherwise, what could be a real marriage will turn into an orgy of sex drive. On the other hand, the terror perpetrated by the young wife should not be entirely extreme. To the extent that sexual intercourse is disgusting at best and painful at worst, woman is forced to endure it from the beginning of creation, which finds retribution through the monogamous home and the children who appear in the world through it. Of course, this husband would be ideal if he had intercourse with his wife only at her request and only for the purpose of conceiving offspring, but such nobility and selflessness should not be expected from an ordinary man. Most men, if they were not denied, would want sex almost every day! But a wise woman should only allow two short intercourses a week during the first month of married life. Over time, she must make every effort to reduce this frequency. The imitations of malaise, the pretense that she is asleep and the headache can serve her best in this endeavor. Arguments, constant grumbling and arguing can also be very helpful if they are resorted to late at night, about an hour before the usual time when the husband begins with his insistence.
A wise woman must be ready to constantly look for new ways to deny her husband and discourage him in his love claims. A good wife should strive to have sex with her husband no more than once a week towards the end of the first year of marriage and up to once a month towards the end of the fifth year. By the age of ten, many women manage to complete childbirth and achieve the ultimate goal - complete cessation of sexual intercourse with a husband. At this time, to keep their husband at home, they can already use his love for children, as well as social impact. When we say that a wise woman should strive to keep her sex life to a minimum, we must emphasize that the quality and level of sexual intercourse should be given no less attention. Most men are perverted by nature, and if given even a small opportunity, they use it in all sorts of disgusting ways. Such, by the way, are the cases in which the normal act is performed in abnormal positions, as well as when the man licks the woman's body or forces her to lick his vile body. Nudity, talking about sexual life, reading stories about it or looking at photographs and drawings depicting and showing sexual life are activities that destroy the soul and also easily become habits in men, if it is allowed.
The wise woman should make it a rule never to allow her husband to see her naked body and never to allow him to show her his. Sexual intercourse, if unavoidable, it must be done in complete darkness. Many women find it helpful to have thick cotton nightgowns for themselves and pajamas for their husbands. Dressing in them should be done in different rooms. They should not be filmed during the act. In this way, only a minimal part of the body is exposed. When the woman puts on her nightgown and turns off the lights, she must lie completely still on the bed and wait for her husband. As soon as he groped into the room, she should not make any sound that could guide him in which direction to move, so that he would not take it as a sign of approval. She must give him the opportunity to feel his way in the dark on his own. At the same time, there is always hope that he will stumble into something and get some small trauma, which will serve as a good excuse to deny him intercourse.
When he finds his wife, she should lie as still as possible, because every movement of her body can be interpreted by the optimistic man as sexual arousal. If he tries to kiss her on the lips, she must turn her head and then the kiss will safely fall on her cheek. If he wants to kiss her hand, he must clench it into a fist. If he picks up her nightgown and tries to kiss her somewhere else, he must immediately pull the nightgown down, quickly jump out of bed and say that a natural need forces her to visit the toilet immediately. This usually kills the desire to kiss her in forbidden places. If her husband tries to seduce her with voluptuous conversations, the wise woman should immediately remember some ordinary non-sexual question to ask him immediately.
Gradually, the man will understand that if he wants any sexual intercourse, he must do this without any erotic introductions. The wise woman will then allow the husband to lift the nightgown no higher than the waist and open the slit of his pajamas slightly so that he can have intercourse through it. She would be completely speechless, or she would mumble something about her housework as he panted and yelled at her. In addition, he will lie still and in no case emit any moans or sighs during the act. When the man completes the act, the wise woman will begin to tease him about some small omissions or various things that he wants to do the next day and which he has planned in advance. Many men receive much of their sexual satisfaction in blissful relaxation after intercourse. Therefore, the woman should not give him the opportunity to do so, otherwise, he gets an incentive to repeat it.
Over time, the man becomes convinced that he will not relax and it is impossible to enjoy him. Another encouraging factor in favor of the woman for which she should be grateful - this is if the man's family, school, church and social environment throughout his life contribute to building a sense of deep guilt regarding his gender. instinct so that he approached the marriage bed with a sense of guilt and shame, already half broken and submissive. The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life. for which she should be grateful - that is, if her husband's family, school, church and social environment throughout his life help to build a sense of deep guilt regarding his sexual instinct, so that he proceeds to the marital a bed of guilt and shame, already half broken and submissive.
The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life. for which she should be grateful - that is, if her husband's family, school, church and social environment throughout his life help to build a sense of deep guilt regarding his sexual instinct, so that he proceeds to the marital a bed of guilt and shame, already half broken and submissive. The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life. already half broken and submissive.
The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life. already half broken and submissive. The wise woman seizes the opportunity to take advantage of this situation and tirelessly pursues her goal - first to limit, and then completely destroy her husband's desire for any manifestations of sexual life.
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It was not clear to me in what connection all this was written. I just want to remind you that we are in the 21st century and I think that is complete nonsense. You must have some problems.
This is an interesting essay from the 1st century ago dealing with the topic of sex. Gives a look at how this thing was viewed then ... Cool!
It doesn't seem to me from 1 century ago! It sounds more like the Baroque era! This is something completely contrary to our views as well as our morals! It's just that they once had very different views from the current ones and it's good that they have changed, because I probably wouldn't exist if our people thought that way! The other thing is I don't see what this essay does with our revelations ?!
Horror!
And in what connection this is written, I can't understand where your problem is, you just occupy those who read with nonsense ......
She killed me!
Are you a wise woman or an old fagot made of checks. What you are writing is not the way to reach the American standard.
Why was this published at all?
Wow, now I understand what my wife read before the wedding !!!
Dear mother, HORROR !!!!! What is this nonsense ???????
And this, if it is not some sectarian nonsense .... Well, who wrote it, do you believe it? If yes, go for a checkup. I couldn't even read it completely. №9 - and I wonder about that. The nonsense became too much, but I had never seen such a thing. I am angry that I lost a whole 10 minutes to read it and comment .....
Abe people, why don't you understand that this is an essay on marital relations written more than a century ago by Ruth Smithers, the beloved wife of the Rev. LD Smithers, pastor of the Arcadian Methodist Church at the Eastern Regional Conference, in the summer of 1894- then. Just see how people thought then according to church dogmas !!! I had a lot of fun reading it :-)
OMG, the question is not so much that it is a century ago, but that it is in the United States most likely ... do you know when it was like that in Bulgaria, another time ... as the woman pretends to be interesting, the man will do it in the beginning split from a fight and won't let her overdo it, hahaha
This behavior is unique to inflatable sex partners. Jokes aside, they obviously have internet on the madhouse as well.
And if the wise wife gets wet to the knees, how can she cover it up, say that she has peed? In fact, such "wooden" wives shake their husbands like a hungry gypsy shakes a junkie.
Amiii, reading for crippled people :)))
HORROR !!! HORROR !!! HORROR !!! is this a sect?
I had never read anything absurd. The notion of sex in this way is more than outdated, wrong and the text is definitely not relevant at the moment.
Complete idiocy! If you want to have sex without the goal - children, just take the whip and scratch your back!
I read it with very mixed feelings - on the one hand I resent the people who would really do it, and on the other hand I imagine how much things can change. What will they think of us after the 1st century? MONK
People, after reading these "wise" instructions, just do the exact opposite.
90 percent of women practice the above, better than our father. We are talking about marriage, of course. no wonder, after all, how many people fall into the snare of the devil due to their lack of any diligence in sex. Speaking of which we are in the 21st century and that means that they cannot cook and do not want to learn, the next thing should be to transfer their children entirely to the father.
LAUGHTER :))) If someone really listens to these "wise instructions" ... God help him :))) Boronia
I think like 29. Without reading the text, many wives in Bulgaria today still do a lot of the above numbers and no later than 10 years later, the "wise" wives have managed to get rid of the vile body of the man he he he. And he has found a mistress whom the "wise wives" call a whore, etc., and at the same time they often spread in her husband's house and, if there is money, waste it with full handfuls, while the "whore" gets one. goal s..s. Maybe after all the wife comes out the "wise"
in my opinion, with all this it is said, "push your husband into the hands of the other," or, "how to break up our marriage more easily."
I agree with 13, it was a lot of fun. :)
Abe people, didn't you understand that this is a JOKE !? Be, Willie ...
But was this really written in the 19th century !? If it was in the Middle Ages, I understand ... Wow, I'm so grateful that I was born in the 21st century in Europe.
I don't know who I feel sorry for anymore - the poor crushed and depressed man, or the deluded and unmarried bird who doesn't know what she's missing ... I hope this Lady Smithers wasn't a real person, but a "beloved" "It certainly wasn't: D
It was very interesting to read it. However, the sad thing is that comparing the epochs ... there is no difference. Women still "have a headache" do not give various things, etc. abe follow the above advice, but not so literally perhaps. Anyway. In many families, sex is still a rare phenomenon today, and a woman screams as if her husband wants sexual intimacy is the lowest thing in the world. Quite often, even today, women refuse oral love and do not want it to be applied to them. Now it will be interesting to find something from the same era, only from the East - to see the differences
Number 31, I'm a woman and I don't think the problem is only with women. Sometimes women refuse oral sex simply because men do not know how to do it and do not want to learn. It's the same with normal sex - if he doesn't do anything to please you or is rude and even hurts you - of course you'll look for excuses. I have a very bad impression that women often punish their husbands for not having sex. That is, if you have done something serious, it is unlikely that you will have a happy sex life with your wife. Of course, there are cold women, but the mass case is of normal women who are just fed up with male nepukism and incompetence. And we are human, and we want sex. But quality sex and a partner to try for us, not a flattery as much as he scratches his itch.
and I am a woman, 32 and I share observations, both from life and from the many stories shared here. Yes, of course, things always have two sides and I do not shift the blame to only one sex. On the other hand, a man's incompetence can be corrected if the woman is patient enough. Abe always gets to the point that for good and full intimate experiences you need joint work on the issue. And I don't understand "punishment" without sex. It seems illogical to me somehow. from 31
I'm a man, but I have to admit that I finished reading all this because I imagined myself in the role of the author's husband. You know-obedience, discipline ...
1. Be helpful to others with your comment! 2. Hatters are not tolerated! 3. Offensive qualifications are not an argument :-) 4. Keep the wisdom to yourself, others need sympathy! No. 4 wrote this about the man
Now I understand why all women look at old photographs viciously. It is no wonder that I have such an attitude towards love! Good thing they can't see what we're doing today.
My wife is ... wise.
Very useful instructions, except that there is no longer any public influence and church to keep the man at home if his wife shows such wisdom. That even children fail in many cases. And that there are many "wise" women these days is more than clear. And they know each other from afar - forever sour, sullen and still someone is to blame for something.
Once again, I am convinced that nature has given women the right to pee squatting ... and it has given men analytical thinking. Do you think you are doing bad to your husband? My dear ladies, you bury yourself;) We pick up our hammers and leave you ... and you stay with the cats or with the next ball until it shines on him as well. Nowadays, there is no point in having a wife if she DOESN'T give you sex, but WANTS you to have sex. Ready meals from shops - pain, cleaning companies - pain, automatic cleaning robots, washing machines and quotas you can think of. The only thing a woman is asked to do is to be beautiful and to have sex with desire ... and many of you don't do it like people do. You will erase civilization, as Freud said, and he is very right. But I would not keep such a woman to myself and every child did these tricks to me and left a finger in her mouth ... they did.