Hello! Lately I've been thinking about how people resist their crazy desires? How they always adhere to morals, values and a normal way of life. How do you react if something attracts you a hell of a lot and you want it with all your heart, but inside you know that it is wrong, immoral, abnormal and all the signs show you that it will not happen or that it should not happen are you striving for it? I will be happy for opinions and shared experience! Sunny day!
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I have not noticed that most people resist, on the contrary. He looked like a moralist, but I also deviate a little from the principles. M37
Well ... there are people whose minds just stop them. It happens either in some strong internal catharsis (as happened to me), or by birth they are so. However, there are very few who do not succumb to temptation.
If someone has a strong desire to do something, I quote: "... wrong, immoral, abnormal ...", then the person himself is like that. Who will believe, but what our desires are (hidden or overt) shows what we are as a person. It is clear that the topic AGAIN is about "love" ... Don't worry, author, what you want takes two, unprincipled. Wrong, abnormal and immoral, it could be murder, it could be abuse, theft ... not to mention more, but he got the idea. The lie, the concealment of the truth, is also wrong. I did it as a child to hide my whites, because I knew they were something they would argue about, but when I grew up, I realized how ridiculous it was and that I was hurting myself with my willfulness. , except I lied, so ... arguing with me was my least problem,
I'm an unscrupulous guy, if I'm drawn to something I do it with the smallest details and I have no dizziness, no remorse, no self-flagellation like Sancho Panza. I'm just sorry for the things I couldn't do.
I am not at all attracted to the wrong, immoral and abnormal things. There is no force in the world that makes me forget my principles. It's just impossible. I am one of the eternal moralists. :) We are left at least a few normal and decent people in this immoral, disgusting and failed world. :)
In BG money is made only with politics, IT or scams. I'm thinking of some scam. The other is a bachelor story.
If I am attracted to something, then I have to experience it so that I do not ask myself the question if ..., while at the same time I am at peace with myself and I am aware of the consequences.
Author (s), when it comes to love there is nothing immoral! If you want something, no matter how many obstacles there are on the way, no matter how hard you fight, sooner or later you can't escape. On the contrary - the more you run, the worse it gets. If you have feelings, fight for them :) It's simple.
Enough nonsense! My wife and I started "wrong, immoral, abnormal." She had a boyfriend, I had a girlfriend. We fought for two years. We worked at a desk. Do you know what it's like to work with the person you're in love with? I tried my best to get it out of my head. Until one day we went to dinner with colleagues. The inevitable happened. I have not regretted a day since. We went through many obstacles, it was very difficult and difficult. But today, 4 years later, is the right decision I've made in my life. Does the other person respond to "wrong, immoral, abnormal" desires?