Hello, everyone! I am a boy of 14 and puberty has caught up with me. I have already lost the number of months in which my body hair continues and continues and continues ... The hair is really huge, the hair is black and long, and ... thick. I can't just look at my body. It looks awful ... I can't be like all normal boys my age - I can't go somewhere to play sports, I can't go out with a girl, I can't wear any lighter clothes (just a tank top, shorts), I can't even go at the pool just because someone will see my hair .. It's like a curse hanging over me like a sword of Damocles. It's really a lot. Already in the middle of 6th grade I had enough beard to shave it. I was ridiculed a lot at school and finally forced to get rid of her. My mother was more than hysterical. She was crazy. How could I have done it at the age of 13, if I hadn't been crazy, I would have regretted it for life ... I felt pretty bad. But this is not the only thing. I don't remember how many years ago I last touched my smooth arms and legs. The hair there is normal, but it looks like angora tights. On the arms they are up to the shoulders, they are black, they are thick and visible. There are also a lot on the legs - on the back of the thighs, they are many, they are thick. To be honest, I don't remember the last time I touched the smooth breasts and belly I had when I was 5. Whatever it says on the internet, it can't be normal to have a completely hairy belly and breasts at 14. There must be some reason which I just can't find. On top of that, it all continues - on the back and buttocks. I don't know (and I don't want to know) how far this will go ... On top of that, my mother doesn't even let me think about epilation or depilation. She grew up in a time when the line between men and gorillas was quite thin. She can't stand hairless men because she wasn't "male," and she had to turn me into a "man" because my father had died, and that was her duty. It's like a nightmare. It all started somewhere in 2008-2009 and then I wanted to get rid of my hair on my legs, which led to big quarrels and even a fight ... Then I stopped (fortunately she decided that everything was over and I gave up) and since then I'm just looking for some methods for effective hair removal, because I just don't know how far all this will go ... True, many of you may really be of the same opinion and hair be a sign of masculinity, but it's still the 21st century, not the time of Christ, and things are a little more - different .. Actually a lot ..- I've always dealt with every problem and I don't want this case to be an exception ... I don't have a close adult (neither a man nor a woman) or a good enough friend to share. For this reason, I seek help here. I will be happy if someone helps me, and I would ask for no offensive comments and attacks .. PS Sorry for the long description and lost time! - I have always dealt with every problem and I do not want this case to be an exception ... I do not have a close adult (neither man nor woman) or a good enough friend to share. For this reason, I seek help here. I will be happy if someone helps me, and I would ask for no offensive comments and attacks .. PS Sorry for the long description and lost time! - I have always dealt with every problem and I do not want this case to be an exception ... I do not have a close adult (neither man nor woman) or a good enough friend to share. For this reason, I seek help here. I will be happy if someone helps me, and I would ask for no offensive comments and attacks .. PS Sorry for the long description and lost time!
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Go to the doctor, you may have a problem with hormones.
You're a boy! How is it not normal to have hair? !! If this is not normal, then what is? The whole point is that you develop faster. What's wrong with that? He couldn't look at his body - well, don't look at him unless you want to call yourself a man. Well, that was my opinion. If you don't like it, hide from your mother and make a wax mask. He wants to turn you into a man anyway ... then act like one and don't comply with other people's opinion, but do what you want.
Talk to your parents .. explain to them and tell them that you want to shave them I know .. I'm sure at least your father will understand you :)
Well, at your age, I guess you won't have the money to go for a wax mask, so you don't have many options, but don't shave them. You better get a girl who can make a homemade wax mask to do it for you (if you're not ashamed). I also started to grow hair somewhere there and it took a long time for my shame to pass, but I don't think it's anything special anymore. Get rid of those nasty astronauts. Possibly if you can do it yourself, but I doubt it ... but his mother is a wax mask. On the whole body, however, it will cost you about 50 leva at least. I have learned to make my own, but it is a big mess, and as it will be for the first time ... the solution is one - make a girl help you!
You are a real man! Balkan man! Not some pedal coming out and topped. Be who you are and discard this nonsense about the subtle differences between men and gorillas. All fashions are now artificially imposed and are for money. In 20-30 years, evolution will not happen. It's a pity that your father has died and you don't have a male example next to you, so you took it into your mind to get married.
What do you comply with it, get rid of them as they irritate you! In my opinion it is hormonal, go to the doctor and master these hormones. Otherwise, laser hair removal and you will get rid of them. Don't worry, how many such classmates I had at school, they didn't sleep at all. Now my boyfriend is blond, but he deliberately leaves all his hair and it is as long and thick as a rug (it's awful). It's just that he's complexed that he's not masculine enough with this blond hair and let's make up for it .... Anyway ... You'll get rid of them, you'll see :))
Do you take any medications? I recently watched a boy on a show. They showed pictures from last year, when there were normal eyebrows, and now he has huge black eyebrows and a bushy mustache. I think he took some drugs that didn't allow the body to reject an implanted organ. But if you do not take medication - you can go to the GP and ask if this is normal, he will tell you best. Otherwise, I also prefer hairier men and by no means smooth :)
Be sure to go to the doctor!
Emmy, if there is so much hair, don't listen to your mother, but go for a wax mask or shave them with a razor blade, or don't shave them completely, but just leave some on your hands and feet. Will your mother tell you all her life how to do it? After all, these are your legs and you will do your hands as you choose :)