I will soon be 20 years old, and he will be 25. He has always pampered me, he has pleased me. He did not make me expensive gifts, but he bought me various small things like souvenirs when we went somewhere together. He is also careful in sex. He is jealous, but he has not made scenes and scandals for me. In general, all our problems stem from my jealousy. For example, I am jealous if he likes or comments on a photo of a girl or if he adds one to his friends. When we were together, he didn't look at others, or at least I didn't notice. However, I used to constantly monitor his profile, not only what he posted, but also what he commented on, and if he commented on a photo of a woman, for example, I immediately caused a problem. I was also jealous of a singer he liked. She is one of his favorite singers and occasionally writes comments to her. When I called him and he didn't pick up, I kept insisting, even though he was closing, and then I was angry that he wasn't lifting. He told me to stop constantly monitoring his profile, what he publishes and with whom he communicates. He also said that despite my age, I was clearly still a child and had not grown up. He told me not to tease him for a while so that he could shake off his emotions and then think soberly about our relationship. I wonder if I really acted like a child and I overdid it and I hope that things will get better in spite of everything ...
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Typical behavior for a teenager aged 14-16; e You act quite funny and childish. What so much that he wrote a few comments or liked 1-2 photos. It's with you after all, and you share a bed, don't you? Change your attitude and everything will be fine. As long as the person is not tired of you;) I wish you success! M. 20 years
In a relationship, both man and woman must know the limit. And she is not to cheat. In a sense, not to take the man to go out with foreign women in restaurants and cafes and of course not to have sex with them. He should always be with his girl. As well as the girl to be next to her boy. But really, there is no problem that she has a favorite singer and that she comments on photos of other women and they like the photos. If someone ruins your relationship, it will be (good advertising, right?) -> Facebook !!! Author - You will lose it if you restrict it too much, and also if you give it too much freedom - you will lose it again. Don't tighten his freedom. If he loves you, he will be by your side and with you, despite all the difficulties you face. But if he decides to cheat on you, no matter how much you restrict his freedom and spy on him and keep a close eye on him, does he intend to cheat on you - he will! So don't be so jealous of him that out of so much jealousy, you will really limit him a lot and he will just leave you. It is good that you are jealous of him - Is there jealousy - is there love. But too much jealousy is not helpful at all. The most to ruin your relationship. Tell him that this jealousy is a problem for you and that you want to solve it, ask for help and understanding from him, also patience. And work together on your jealousy. Because jealousy turns into a disease if it is not controlled in time. Success :) One Boy-20 years. that this jealousy is your problem and that you want to solve it, ask for help and understanding from him, also patience. And work together on your jealousy. Because jealousy turns into a disease if it is not controlled in time. Success :) One Boy-20 years. that this jealousy is your problem and that you want to solve it, ask for help and understanding from him, also patience. And work together on your jealousy. Because jealousy turns into a disease if it is not controlled in time. Success :) One Boy-20 years.
And I think this behavior is stupid, but not only girls your age or younger do it, there are many deluded ... who behave this way and are 30-40 or more years old. What's wrong with you people? Are their genitals made of soap and wiped? I am 23 years old, I have been with the same person for 6 years, but I have given him the freedom to do whatever he wants, just like he did to me. I sleep with others, but I only do it for one thing variety in sex, nothing else. I don't care about anyone else's spoon, today I may have been with 10 different men 10 times, but in the evening when he says I want to, I won't turn my back on him and say he's asleep, my head hurts, whatever hurts me, I'm rolled up for everything. I know it's not fair, but that's how we chose to live. He doesn't follow me anywhere, nor do I call him if he doesn't come home right after work at 5 minutes after his working hours to ask him where he is. The important thing in a relationship is not who does what and why, but what you do for the other and with him, what is everything else for you. In the 21st century, everyone chooses how to live, we should be more liberated, otherwise things will not work out.
Why are you doing this! He loves you the way you are! It doesn't tell you that you haven't grown up, but that you're acting childish! Be yourself and everything will be okay !!! Glad
I'm number 3 and I want to say that I support comment number 4. Although I'm not very "For" this type of relationship, the truth is that we are really in times when it is difficult to find a person who is ALWAYS faithful and not to cheat. It is important to find a person who will one day be a loving parent, a good father or a good mother. Because I'm sure there are a lot of people who have chosen to live a more relaxed life, but just because they have sex with a different person every 2 days doesn't mean they can't be good parents. And honestly, what is the most important thing? Let's raise our children CORRECTLY !! What is the use when two people are 100% faithful to each other and have never cheated on each other and love each other, as in fairy tales, they even had a child, BUT they are not good parents ?? It's one thing to love someone, to understand them, to be romantic, but it is different to raise a child. It's very complicated. There are people who are not very good at love, but for their children they are wonderful parents, so let's think about what we want ... Maybe the author of comment number 4 can live a loose life, but what? If she is a good mother? If it is given to her? Wonderful. Because there are many faithful wives and obedient, but they are not good mothers, right? ;) One Boy-20y.
Author, you will not believe, but if I had not been in such a situation, I would have answered you differently. I would also say how childish you are, how you restrict the freedom of the person next to you, etc ... But isn't there another truth? If the person next to you cared enough, he would try harder to keep everything between you, and in what way. Well, very simply, he knows you and if he knew you were more jealous, he would not give you reasons for jealousy! For example, he can communicate with whomever he wants, but not make it public in front of you, so there will be no occasions. And if he doesn't cheat, there would be no problem 'secretly' communicating with other girls, just because you don't understand and get annoyed unnecessarily.