Adopted Cousin

   Try to forget, she is the same cousin of yours, who is the biological material that created her is irrelevant, the important thing for an individual is who raised him. Therefore, your aunt is her mother and will continue to be for life.

   Sometimes things like that happen. I have an adopted sister who is already 7 years old, she is Russian but she also speaks Bulgarian and English. When she came home, I was happy, because I never had a sister, but from the first day she loved me. I have met her before but I did not believe that she was adopted now as I believed. I decided to write to you and comfort you. At least your cousin is as good as my sister

   Why will you roar? Now she must have a wonderful family and is happy. You should be happy for her. And I'm adopted and I'm not ashamed of it! She still remains your cousin, you just don't have a blood relationship :)

   People have said that it doesn't matter who the biological parents are, it is more important who raised the child, for me these are the real parents :) I suggest you not to suffer and roar, but to rejoice that if nothing else someone has adopted, not at home :)

   What if they didn't give birth to her? They take care of her. They are also the real parents.

   What do you have so much to do? You really can't be indifferent to something like this about your loved one, but there's nothing you can do. Calm down a bit! Nothing so scary happened. The fact that she is adopted and understands her adoptive parents as her own parents is even wonderful. Would it be better to be in an orphanage, alone, without support, without family and friends? The people she lives with don't have to be her biological parents to really be called "her parents." It is enough just to be by her side, to support and protect her, to fulfill their parental duties to her. There are children who wonder how to escape from their biological parents because they feel misunderstood and oppressed, so whether or not she is adopted does not matter what matters is her relationship with her adoptive parents. No need to tell her, there will probably come a time when she will learn on her own. Keep communicating with her as you were before you found out she was adopted. Try to realize that if she is happy it doesn't matter if she is adopted or not.

   The author: I'm sick that we don't have a blood relationship, and I'm very used to her, she's very good to me, sometimes she doesn't pay attention to me because of her friends, but she's very good

   YES, WHY do you roar - because now he has a wonderful family and does not die of hunger and cold in a shelter? Moreover, she does NOT roar, and why do you stress her? If you love her so much - you should be happy that her life has turned out so well that she has found herself with you. At this age, you constantly find occasions for fictional dramas, just stop doing circuses. NO ONE DIED! Remember - adopted children are PROVEN DESIRABLE children - they are 100% known to be conscious choices, while the birth of their child is sometimes a coincidence.

   Great drama - NOTHING! Everyone has an adopted relative and so what? !! Isn't she alive and well? What are you roaring and filming?

   Author, blood relationship is not always the most important. Everyone is happy since her adoption - she is happy because she did not end up in an orphanage and your aunt and uncle are happy to have a child to connect and love them. How much happier would they be if they lived without your cousin? And there are so many unhappy parents whose own children reject them and are ungrateful. Everyone is happy that your cousin has her. Would it be better for you to have as a cousin a loser, with whom you cannot exchange two words, but it is your blood? The only people here who have the right to roar or feel confused are she and your aunt and uncle. I know you don't write it badly and we can't control our feelings, but in the end you take things too dramatically. Ana

   For starters - STOP THE DRAMA !! I understand you are shocked, but this is not unusual, thousands, millions of people have been adopted. It doesn't make her any different or worse, she's the same person. yes, you may not have a blood relationship, but there are blood relatives who hate each other or do filth. Tighten up a bit and don't tell anyone at all, nor hint at anything !! I also have an adopted cousin and I love her more than my real ones because she is a wonderful person. She's your cousin again, so don't make movies, but behave normally :)

   And now that you understand, will you stop loving her? -I doubt, you have good memories and nothing has changed. She is the same girl, it does not matter who gave birth to you, but who took care of you and what he taught you.

   The blood relationship does not necessarily mean Understanding, it all depends on the person standing in front of you. What about the fact that they are not her biological parents, they are her mom and dad, period. You have no right to tell her that, let her parents do it in the most appropriate way. You don't stop roaring and you don't know why, but imagine how upset she will be if she finds out.

   Hello, Author! The difference between adoptees and their own is that some children grow up in the womb of the mother who gave birth to them, and others in the heart of the adoptive mother. So it doesn't matter if they were born or taken. My sister adopted a child exactly 10 years ago. I have my own. Where is the difference - NOWHERE !!!! Both children grew up together. We love both children equally, both !!! Even my niece is much happier than my child - because my sister has more options than me. But that doesn't stop my mother (or grandmother) from worshiping them, either. As the old people said - "My mother gave birth to me with luck, and threw me in the trash." There is one thing I did not like at first and we argued a lot with my sister, but I found out that she was right, that is - they made a video at home from which it is taken, as well as her discharge from home with the date and time of collection. At first, as I said, I did not agree to talk about adoption, but my sister was determined to do so. Even as a child and later, the video was shown to her when she asked, as children usually ask, and the little girl knows that they took her from home because her mother did not have a child and she dreamed so much of having it and it was she who was looking for her, searched, searched ... and another woman left her, who did not have the opportunity to look after her - what was the reason, no one knows .... / the woman was never blamed for giving birth to her, because if she is not if she had given birth to her - now we would not be together ... / and so they revealed themselves. So her niece has known since she was a child and no one can break her psyche now. Because these are not taboo topics - as I said, my sister decided. Love your cousin! She is your cousin !!! At first, as I said, I did not agree to talk about adoption, but my sister was determined to do so. Even as a child and later, the video was shown to her when she asked, as children usually ask, and the little girl knows that they took her from home because her mother did not have a child and she dreamed so much of having it and it was she who was looking for her, searched, searched ... and another woman left her, who did not have the opportunity to look after her - what was the reason, no one knows .... / the woman was never blamed for giving birth to her, because if she is not if she had given birth to her - now we would not be together ... / and so they revealed themselves. So her niece has known since she was a child and no one can break her psyche now. Because these are not taboo topics - as I said, my sister decided. Love your cousin! She is your cousin !!! At first, as I said, I did not agree to talk about adoption, but my sister was determined to do so. Even as a child and later, the video was shown to her when she asked, as children usually ask, and the little girl knows that they took her from home because her mother did not have a child and she dreamed so much of having it and it was she who was looking for her, searched, searched ... and another woman left her, who did not have the opportunity to look after her - what was the reason, no one knows .... / the woman was never blamed for giving birth to her, because if she is not if she had given birth to her - now we would not be together ... / and so they revealed themselves. So her niece has known since she was a child and no one can break her psyche now. Because these are not taboo topics - as I said, my sister decided. Love your cousin! She is your cousin !!! but my sister was determined to do so. Even as a child and later, the video was shown to her when she asked, as children usually ask, and the little girl knows that they took her from home because her mother did not have a child and she dreamed so much of having it and it was she who was looking for her, searched, searched ... and another woman left her, who did not have the opportunity to look after her - what was the reason, no one knows .... / the woman was never blamed for giving birth to her, because if she was not if she had given birth to her - now we would not be together ... / and so they revealed themselves. So her niece has known since she was a child and no one can break her psyche now. Because these are not taboo topics - as I said, my sister decided. Love your cousin! She is your cousin !!! but my sister was determined to do so. Even as a child and later, the video was shown to her when she asked, as children usually ask, and the little girl knows that they took her from home because her mother did not have a child and she dreamed so much of having it and it was she who was looking for her, searched, searched ... and another woman left her, who did not have the opportunity to look after her - what was the reason, no one knows .... / the woman was never blamed for giving birth to her, because if she is not if she had given birth to her - now we would not be together ... / and so they revealed themselves. So her niece has known since she was a child and no one can break her psyche now. Because these are not taboo topics - as I said, my sister decided. Love your cousin! She is your cousin !!! as the children usually ask, the little one knows that they took her from home because her mother did not have a child and she dreamed so much of having one, and it was she who was looking for her, looking for her, looking for her ... she had the opportunity to look at her - what was the reason, no one knows .... / the woman was never blamed for giving birth to her, because if it wasn't for her to give birth to her - now we wouldn't be together ... / and so they discovered themselves. So her niece has known since she was a child and no one can break her psyche now. Because these are not taboo topics - as I said, my sister decided. Love your cousin! She is your cousin !!! as the children usually ask, the little one knows that they took her from home because her mother did not have a child and she dreamed so much of having one, and it was she who was looking for her, looking for her, looking for her ... she had the opportunity to look at her - what was the reason, no one knows .... / the woman was never blamed for giving birth to her, because if it wasn't for her to give birth to her - now we wouldn't be together ... / and so they discovered themselves. So her niece has known since she was a child and no one can break her psyche now. Because these are not taboo topics - as I said, my sister decided. Love your cousin! She is your cousin !!! no one knows .... / the woman was never blamed for giving birth to her, because if it wasn't for her to give birth to her - now we wouldn't be together ... / and that's how they got along. So her niece has known since she was a child and no one can break her psyche now. Because these are not taboo topics - as I said, my sister decided. Love your cousin! She is your cousin !!! no one knows .... / the woman was never blamed for giving birth to her, because if it weren't for her giving birth to her - we wouldn't be together now ... / and that's how they got along. So her niece has known since she was a child and no one can break her psyche now. Because these are not taboo topics - as I said, my sister decided. Love your cousin! She is your cousin !!!

   And what about being adopted? She should be grateful to her current parents for having a real home! you better not tell her because she might feel bad! as you can see - at the moment she lives like a completely normal girl. From here you should understand that parents can be other people. This girl's biological parents are no parents at all! The woman who gave birth to your cousin just bore fruit. She is not a parent! In any case, do not tell the truth to your cousin! Let him live like a normal child. She is likely to accept it quite normally and even love her current parents more - because she should be very grateful. But nothing is known. The current parents must have had a health problem and that's why they adopted her ... think, that in time you too may have one and you will not want your children to carry for the rest of their lives the thought that they are different from other children and classmates - because they do not have a real mom and dad. There is even a case when a child is adopted - in school and kindergartens to make fun of them for it. Of course, they do not understand the seriousness of the subject and therefore do so.

   Tighten up, the girl is not dead. What does her mother care about you? You don't seem to have anything to do with roaring at someone else's grave.