Hello! I read stories like mine, but nevertheless I decided to open the topic once again and ask you for personal advice, specifically for me and the situation in which I find myself. The topic is about the age difference. So ... I'll start with the fact that I'm a 17-year-old girl. A month ago I met a man in a bar who made a great impression on me from the first moment I saw him. Even then, there were little things like looks, smiles, exchanging another word, and even a moment of intimacy. Even after that evening, I felt strange because of the thoughts that arose in my mind about this man. Since he is a singer, I was able to quickly find him on social networks and from there I learned that this attractive young man is 26 years old. We met 2 more times in the above-mentioned bar and every time there is something, moments when we get closer . I would like advice, all sorts, sincere on how to do what you think is right. I'm not one to give up easily, especially since I think the person deserves it. Friends try to discourage me by telling me that this person is only looking for a game, but I don't listen to their words for some reason. Let me say that in 3 and a half months I will be 18 years old and I am a virgin. I mention this in connection with the fact that the singer is a 26-year-old man, and most men at this age are looking for fun. I don't know whether to fight or give up. I ask for your advice and recommendations. Thanks! but I do not listen to their words for any reason. Let me say that in 3 and a half months I will be 18 years old and I am a virgin. I mention this in connection with the fact that the singer is a 26-year-old man, and most men at this age are looking for fun. I don't know whether to fight or give up. I ask for your advice and recommendations. Thanks! but I do not listen to their words for any reason. Let me say that in 3 and a half months I will be 18 years old and I am a virgin. I mention this in connection with the fact that the singer is a 26-year-old man, and most men at this age are looking for fun. I don't know whether to fight or give up. I ask for your advice and recommendations. Thanks!
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Look, I don't think you should worry about the age limit. My father and his girlfriend (my parents are divorced) are 20 years apart. He's 53, she's 34. So don't worry and follow your heart! !!
I do not understand do you want a serious relationship with him or just have fun?
Try it. Risk wins - risk loses;) but in the end what do you lose? You just shouldn't be ashamed. And for the age - in my opinion, boys aged 17, 18, 19 (not all) "use" girls for fun (just sex). Good luck!! xx
From the author 1. Thanks for the example and support. I am also of the opinion that the difference in our ages is not big and this should not be a problem, but different things are going on in our minds. And I'm worried about what he thinks of me. Not as a person, but as his girl, if I may say so. I think he considers me too small and sees the child in me. 2. Rather a connection. But I'm not sure if he's looking for her because he's focused on his career. But I guess if one person interests you, you'll be able to handle both. 3. I agree with this, but men over 20 are also looking for this (fun). I had even talked to his not so close friend, but who is the same age and he himself convinced me that at this age no relationship is sought ... let alone a serious one. And that's exactly why I'm confused about whether to fight. Thank you very much for your support. For now, I think I will stick to the feelings and experiences, and for the future ... time will tell