I need a piece of advice with a very nice girl, I have feelings for her, she works in a store next to her house, she has a friend, but I don't think I take it seriously, but where is the problem when I go faster and go she someone joking something and so but I do not know what to tell her I know a lot of funny jokes etc. works but they are not for such a place she has already stopped joking surely thinks she is not reflect help people
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I don't see what the problem is if you manage to cook it yourself, to start a conversation with her about something, topics of pain, especially with a shopkeeper. And it's not bad if the story starts to make your mouth die called to go out for coffee, in the end you lose nothing and cut you, at least you will know that you tried. I'm not saying you're cheeky and insistent, but you still have to try, whatever happens. You may not have the problem at all, and your friend is serious, without trying you can't know the real situation for sure.
So if her current friend is frivolous, at least in her words, run away, because it is not known whether you will not be the next frivolous friend, if someone appears in some way. Avoid contact with women who do not take their lives lightly and have a "frivolous" friend, or one who claims in front of you that they do not love. Such women can never take responsibility.
Her current friend is serious or not serious - these are your observations - and they may not coincide with hers. There is no way to understand this - until you try. Conversation topics are appropriate all common topics - if you know for her that she has a hobby - talk about this topic. Otherwise, this with the jokes - well, it will be very strange. It will not work. If she talks to you about common topics - such as the weather - you may gradually get to invite her for coffee and so on. However, if the girl dumps her current boyfriend for you, won't she dump you for someone else in time? When I read your comment, I was indignant at first - But how can it, because it is tied to him. Forgetting that only 6m ago. I took his girlfriend from one and then I didn't see anything wrong. The truth is that decent people are rarely free.
The most accurate comment is number 3. Women who claim to be with their boyfriend but do not love him or that their relationship was open, frivolous, etc., become only for sex. Don't expect anything more from such a person, because one day you will be that frivolous friend.