And so, after almost two years of happiness, the end came. I do not know what to do. I do not want to do anything. I've felt empty since he left me. I haven't eaten for several days. I tried, but it's reluctant and I'm starting to feel sick. I ate a few cherries and that's it. I have a palpitation, a lump in my throat and my stomach is shrinking. I constantly dream of him. She's crying. I feel like trash thrown in the bucket. It all happened so quickly and unexpectedly that I didn't even realize what was happening for the first few hours. I don't know how long I will be able to continue like this. But I certainly wouldn't let anyone in anymore. Being alone is probably the lesser evil.
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Darling, I understand you quite well. soon I will be in your position too, because my friend is slowly seeing me withdraw from me and I am soon awaiting the fatal sentence. But I'll tell you one thing, tighten your head high! Such an experience happens to everyone at least once in a lifetime. Be sure that you will find the man of your dreams, you just have to shake off at the moment to get on your feet and forget him. After all, there are about 4 billion men in the world. will gradually be ordered. If fate said that he did not deserve you, then it should have.
Number 1, looking at your means of expression, I hope this one will be saved from you, that if it takes you to get pregnant ...
Дишай. И издишай. Клишето времето лекува е вярно. Ще мине, повярвай ми. Всяко зло за добро са казали хората. Поплачи си, налей си една чаша вино и си кажи, че приключваш с това. Фокусирай се върху себе си. Върху кариерата си, върху образованието си, ако още учиш. Превърни болката си в амбиция/работохолизъм, стреми се да бъдеш по-добра версия на себе си... поне така направих аз. Да се оставиш на страданието е все едно да се предадеш. Животът обича смелите. Ще се справиш и ще видиш как с времето болката ще утихне малко по малко. Ставаш сутрин и почваш да мислиш в позитивна насока. Запиши си час за маникюр, прическа, каквото ти е на сърце. Обади се на приятелка, поплачи й на рамото, ще ти стане по добре. Моите приятелки ми бършеха сълзите с години. Всеки различно се справя с тоя вид болка, но трика е да се накараш да го направиш, колкото и да не искаш да го правиш, защото знаеш, че ще ти стане по-добре. Спомни си как си живяла преди него. Ще живееш така и след него. Дишай... всичко ше е наред!
How are you, are you better?
Time heals another time. You may not believe it, but in a year, when a nice young man appears, you will feel alive again. You will think that you have forgotten this one ... but the real feeling that will remain dull emerges again. If this is the person you want to grow old with, know that the pain that has left an anchor in your soul will remain forever. Time does not heal, it dulls. It stops hurting as sharply as it does now, but it has another form, deeper. You will fall in love again, believe me! But if it doesn't work out, you will return to the past and realize who your true soulmate is.
You can do so, visit an orphanage and take some treats from them! You will definitely feel much better, you will smile! You will be distracted, you will receive real gratitude and most of all you will make someone really happy and you will see that you are not rubbish! The best cure for these unpleasant moments is to do good for someone who is worse than you! And if you get into the habit of making such small gestures (it doesn't matter if it's an orphanage or a disabled one), you'll make some real friends who will raise your self-esteem to heaven, you won't even believe how much you will grow spiritually, and one day you will wake up and this person who hurt you will forget him and forgive him! Good luck and a lot of happiness!