Hello! Maybe the story is not for this department, but I don't know exactly where it belongs ...
The story is as follows - a woman in her 40s. I have never learned to set boundaries in relationships with people, ie I know where I belong, I do not like to invade other people's space, to annoy, etc., but somehow I can not limit others about their relationship to me. I don't know if I explained it correctly, I let them get on my head. Until at one point I boil and cut them drastically.
I am referring the case to half of my very close friend. I haven't had a good opinion of her since we met, but I haven't even mentioned it to him, because I think that since he decided to live with her, my opinion doesn't matter. In my opinion, and in the opinion of our other mutual friends, she also doesn't like me, she doesn't miss an opportunity to bite me and stand on my back, but at the same time, she obsesses me all the time. He wants to hear and see me, every day. She's an energy vampire, sometimes even thinking about her and giving me a headache.
I tried many times to distance myself, but if she is impudent, it is as if we are 12 years old. I have a feeling her husband sees what's going on, but I don't know why she doesn't take action. Unfortunately, no matter how much I don't want to, I will have to break off relations with both of them, maybe I will even be rude because he obviously doesn't understand for good ...