Hello! I need an advice. My friend and I have been together for 2 years and for half - we live together. He has great qualities and has always treated me very well. Most recently, I noticed that he kept pictures of his girlfriends or other girls in more "erotic" poses on his phone. These photos, in my observation, I downloaded from Facebook. I don't mind watching other women, watching porn, photos of porn actresses, but the fact that she keeps the photos in her phone of the girl she knows worries me. He does it when I'm with him, but he thinks I don't understand. I think I'm a smart girl, I have a good job, I train to look good and it kind of ruins my self-esteem as a woman. I tried to talk to him about it. His first reaction was to delete the photos, but I was already hurt. I asked him if he lacked / disliked something in my appearance, but he said that he thought everything was OK between us and he lacked nothing. The only explanation I was able to get later was that he just liked the photo (which doesn't reassure me). He's a big man, 33 years old, and I can't figure out who the problem is. Am I not exaggerating? Do you like these girls? Do you imagine them? I would be happy for you to answer me. Thanks!
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It is not jealousy, but the right reaction! I wouldn't be surprised if he flirts. I think looking at pictures of other girls ... abe is not good, yours is not jealousy, if you were you would be jealous of it. Tighten it a little.
Jealousy is low self-esteem and nothing else, remember that! м29
As they already told you, tighten it up a bit, now you can take pictures tomorrow, you can take his own with them, it is not normal at all that there are such girls on Facebook at all, not to mention that it is too much to download pictures. This is not your jealousy, you even ask if you are not exaggerating and it is not so at all, you even take it for a very normal situation, I would send it to hell in your place and go to these. First, a man is 33 and not 19 to do such performances, this is not only childish, but also unfortunate, because he has you. It is not normal! If porn actresses are good, but it's too much for girls, I wouldn't be so calm in your place. As a woman, my imagination run wild, I would think that these are women with whom he has slept or undressed, otherwise why are their pictures all the way to the phone, obviously there is something in common, it's best to tighten the loop and keep it short, because tomorrow it could ruin your relationship. Hey, they just haven't been downloaded, it's definitely for a purpose, but I don't know, nobody does something just like that, at least things like that. If they are erotic pictures, I may not know how to beat them, but it's definitely not good.