Please advice how to accept yourself. I'm not an immature teenager. I'm already a mature woman at 24 and I still can't stand it. I have the feeling that nothing is wrong with me. Yes, I will say that it is a psychological problem - it may be so, but I can't overcome it, I'm obviously very weak. Basically, when I think about how I look, I only think of bad things. If I start from the top down, I have almost nothing to like. My hair is greasy on top and dry like straw down (I'm constantly trying to deal with cosmetics, but I can't), I have an ugly nose, lips, and my teeth aren't good either. I have small breasts, I'm almost flat, my legs are crooked, my feet are awful, I have pimples - both on my face and body, I'm too white and every mole, pimple, scar or something like that, and they are not a little visible to me , I have a lot of hair, black, which I try to remove from the root, where I am all in ingrown hairs and whatever scrubs and creams I use I do not see the effect .... I can still continue, but it is enough to consider me crazy and start me you insult. So that's enough. When I was a teenager I felt the same way and I always hoped it would be a period and go through it, but alas it is not. In my life I have had two intimate partners for a short time. When it comes to sex, I stiffen, especially when I'm without underwear. If I stay in thongs and a bra, I feel a little better, because I know that at least some of my shortcomings will be covered up. I hate looking at myself naked. I haven't even been to the beach for years - I don't want to be seen in a swimsuit. I am totally lost and desperate. I no longer allow men near me, even if someone has more serious intentions, and if I like him, I reflect on him, because I know that if something more intimate happens, he will be disappointed.
When I'm out, I constantly look at my hair, face, clothes, body. I feel terrible when someone looks at me in particular. The bad thing is that I can't communicate. When someone makes me talk, I strain. I almost never know what to say. I can't support topics of conversation. I'm not interested in anything. People annoy me. They are often bad and offensive. They don't think about people like me who will go home and cry for hours. Yes! It sucks to be alone, but it's even worse to realize that this will be for the rest of your life. From a desperate soul ... When someone makes me talk, I strain. I almost never know what to say. I can't support topics of conversation. I'm not interested in anything. People annoy me. They are often bad and offensive. They don't think about people like me who will go home and cry for hours. Yes! It sucks to be alone, but it's even worse to realize that this will be for the rest of your life. From a desperate soul ... When someone makes me talk, I strain. I almost never know what to say. I can't support topics of conversation. I'm not interested in anything. People annoy me. They are often bad and offensive. They don't think about people like me who will go home and cry for hours. Yes! It sucks to be alone, but it's even worse to realize that this will be for the rest of your life. From a desperate soul ...
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Oh, head up! And kill your complexes. Even if you are ugly, like Grandma Yaga, it does not mean that you will not find a mate. She is married with two children. Apparently her husband appreciated her character, not her appearance (0bvivkata). And you are only 24!
In my opinion, almost all the things you have listed have a solution. For hair you can try laser hair removal. It is precisely in hairier people with darker and thicker hair that it works and will certainly shrink and thin. You can't straighten your legs, but I think that with certain combinations of clothes (for example, long skirts or wider pants with a high waist) you could mask the curvature. For the breasts - padded bras. Pimples can be caused by stress and nervousness, and you can overdo it with sweets or have some intolerance to certain foods, medications or cosmetics - consult a dermatologist. He may not be able to help you, but he would hardly hurt. As for the rapid greasing of the hair - it may be due to hormones, as well as excessive body hair, by the way. Check your testosterone and prolactin. Moles can be removed with a laser, maybe surgically, if you keep them gone. Depending on what exactly you don't like about your teeth, you can also fix them with a good dentist. None of this will be super easy, and you'll need money to do anything, but if you just bother and let life pass you by without participating in it, you won't be better off. good. So tighten up, make a plan of action and deal with the problems and act. Communication will probably be the hardest thing for you to do, or you may just be more introverted. There's nothing wrong with that, as long as it doesn't bother you too much in life. And you, as you describe it, seem to be really bothered, but I guess if you start to feel better in your skin, it would have a positive effect on your social skills. Good luck and don't get too obsessed. And definitely look for something that you find interesting and enjoyable, at least because as long as you do it, you won't think about bad things.
M35. Look, chick, I'm sure you don't look the way you describe yourself, and you're overly self-critical. Well, you may not be a real beauty, but that's unlikely to stop you from finding a friend and company. The only thing that will do it is your thinking. You have to change it, you don't have to hate everyone, including yourself. Be more sociable and you should raise your opinion a little about yourself. For hair the problem is already easy, I am a man, but I had a lot of body hair and I did not like myself and went to car masks, etc. but they are uncomfortable and if you happen to suddenly invite you to the beach it becomes naughty. So last year I took a photo epilator for BGN 500 and did several procedures in the spring, and for the summer I was very happy. Then I stopped and the winter appeared, but less than half and much thinner and harmless. For the other things, we are all beautiful ... This is not a reason to be unhappy. Raise your self-confidence tighten do not despair girl!
Crooked legs can be straightened with exercise. There are some on the Internet and especially on YouTube, it takes a little time and perseverance, but they work. They will look better with at least one idea, but it depends on whether they are X-shaped or O-shaped, because there are specific exercises for both types. Black Sabbath