Hello, I guess everyone has fallen in love and put on eyelids. "He's not like that ... he's different ..." Yes, I'm in that position right now, with the difference that I need to hear more opinions from different people who don't know me to find out what's really going on. So ... I'm 18 and my friend is 21. However, he lives in Spain and I in Germany (super weird, I know). We have been together for 2 years and we only see each other during the summer vacation, but despite everything I love him very much, he says the same thing. The problem is that since we know each other, he has always loved going out, restaurants, friends, nightlife ... good is not bad, except that I'm not with him. During the week he is at work, we talk in the evening for maybe 1 hour and go to bed, if Saturday comes he goes out and leaves me alone, without thinking about me and waiting for a whole week for Saturday to come and talk for a little longer than 1 hour. And this happens systematically ... I trust him that he is not with another, but it hurts me from the fact that he ignores me and over time it hurts more and more. I don't go out very much because I don't have friends here and that's why I need him so much. We have talked many times, we have quarreled (rather I quarrel with him) and that is it. Please give me your opinion, what is the reason for this? Just because I'm not that important to him or something? Please give me your opinion, what is the reason for this? Just because I'm not that important to him or something? Please give me your opinion, what is the reason for this? Just because I'm not that important to him or something?
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Marry and live as a man and a woman.
Two options. 1 - You tell him you want more time. To set aside for you ... for YOU! Not just 7 hours a week. 2 - You find someone who will pay more attention to you ... maybe also a person who lives in Germany (Bulgarian) or someone from Bulgaria and when you return to Bulgaria you will see each other until the time comes to live together. You have a choice. You decide what your life should be like and what kind of person you should be with. Ask ... ask and you will be given. If you don't live your life the way you want to ... then what's the point of living? Rejoice because it is a gift. And love is the best "addition" to this gift. Or maybe it's the same? Maybe this gift and life are actually - LOVE. So if you want love ... you have to have / receive it. Good luck and don't worry. There will always be better ones. The point is to find exactly the one you want for yourself. For today,
I'm a boy and at the moment I'm in exactly the same situation as you, but with changed places, she goes out and there's no time for me. Like you, I don't think I'm important. There is no cure darling, no. The distance connection is very difficult and difficult. Always doubts, stupid thoughts and so on, you finally don't feel when you're crazy. Tell him all this, if he understands you, then he cares about you, if he doesn't understand you, there's no point in wasting your nerves.
The man leads his life as he pleases, obviously without caring about you - beige you are gone :) And without depression, men under and over the road.
Yes, absolutely. You ask and I answer that you are a big fool.
From the author Thank you very much for the review! By the way, we talked to him about this topic and he, to prove to me that he was really sorry and wanted to fix things, said that he wanted to come to me permanently. He even left work yesterday, but the truth is that I am happy or not, because my life here cannot be compared to his (discos, friends, restaurants) and I am afraid that he will get bored quickly and things will get worse even . I really don't have friends here, I don't know what to do, I told him several times but he insists ..
2, also a person who lives in Germany (Bulgarian), why not a German?