Hello, I am already 19 years old and I do not understand my sexual orientation. I've always dressed like a boy. Typical female things like make-up and manicure have never been interesting to me. I have never fallen in love with a man or a woman. I had a relationship from a distance of about 3, 4 months with a girl. It was nothing serious. When I watch porn, she is almost always with a man and a woman. Maybe that means I like men too? I can imagine the future with a woman but with a man ... I don't think so. Would you give me some advice?
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Hello lovely girl! I think you are attracted to the same sex in the things you describe. Imagining the future with a woman speaks volumes. And for porn ... I think it's normal to watch all kinds. Try to imagine how you see and how you would describe love. This should help you the most. And whether you are heterosexual or homosexual, like and accept yourself as you are without any worries !! Success! * dreamer15 *
Maybe you're transsexual, maybe you're bisexual, you have to judge for yourself, we don't know you personally and it's hard for someone to give you much applicable advice.
What does it matter? Nobody confuses who you will sleep with. It's just that one day your man will come, things will happen, and the last thing you think about is whether he's a man or a woman.
You know best how you feel. Remember that there is nothing wrong with what you are and what your orientation is. According to her writing, maybe "bi", but in principle, women are easier to communicate, so you had a relationship with a woman. Good luck, don't give up and don't dare.
You are not a lesbian. You're more spoiled.
You say that when you watch porn you are always with a man and a woman and you immediately add that it can mean that you also like men. You can imagine life with a woman, but not with a man. Now explain it when you watch porn in which role you present yourself, in that of a man or in that of a woman. If in the future you are with a woman, would you always lick a woman's vagina whenever she wants. Well, if there is a white current, will you lick it again? Answer.
If you ask yourself such questions, then you have already flown away. If you have a normal orientation, you would only drift when you think about such things ...
I don't understand make-up either, but at 19 I grabbed a boy and started wearing skirts and lipstick. But the fact that you can't imagine the future with a man is really strange. Maybe you are.
You're a lesbian, but you haven't realized it yet. There is nothing scary, despite the society and especially the people in Bulgaria. It's not a big deal. So am I.
My advice is that until you try, there is no way to understand and know in advance. Or you can be bisexual and like both men and women ... M.32.
You sound asexual to me. You are still young, you will be the first to understand what attracts you
You're not a lesbian, you're confused, if you were abnormal by now it has already manifested, do not lose hope: D
I would advise you to go to a psychologist. Not because of sexual orientation, of course. But if she had fallen in love, you would have known what she was. And you seemed to be closed to life.
You didn't have a "relationship" but a friendship.