Hello, my story started 10 years ago. Then I met my wife and we lived together with my parents. After 2 years I separated because at home I could not stand the scandals between my parents who were separating at that time. My wife went to another man, but by coincidence, after 3 months we met again, we went to live with my grandmother and to avoid our scandals. Not long after she became pregnant, a wonderful son was born to us, things went well for about 3 years. We bought a house, moved, I started repairing it. I had to buy a lot of things and I got a lot of loans. Over time, I worked on the house at work wondering how to repay loans and provide everything needed for the family. So we gradually became estranged, we almost stopped having sex. The mood in the house became heavy. She didn't give me what I wanted and you did it. And so, until three months ago, when she changed, I noticed that she was texting other men and then she started dating them. I couldn't stand it anymore, we had a big scandal, she said she cared about our family but she needed to see other men from time to time. She offered me to be like a normal family, she would give me everything like her husband, but two or three times a month each of us to meet others just for sex, it was not infidelity. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful. I couldn't stand it anymore, we had a big scandal, she said she cared about our family but she needed to see other men from time to time. She offered me to be like a normal family, she would give me everything like her husband, but two or three times a month each of us to meet others just for sex, it was not infidelity. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful. I couldn't stand it anymore, we had a big scandal, she said she cared about our family but she needed to see other men from time to time. She offered me to be like a normal family, she would give me everything like her husband, but two or three times a month each of us to meet others just for sex, it was not infidelity. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful. I agreed I don't know why I love her so much and the child and the loans and everything. I do not know what to do. We are not married, I proposed marriage with a ring as it should be, but it doesn't seem to help. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful.
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It sounds stupid, but you decide. You are not married and technically do not owe you fidelity by law, but you are together on a family basis and flirting with other men for many people are mutually exclusive in this situation. You can stomp your foot and say that you will not tolerate cheating on you while you are together, which I think most people choose. You may resign yourself, but this is very conditional and honestly I don't see it leading to anything that involves both of you but your child. I don't think he's doing the right thing on his own, as well as you and your son. I don't think it's about your family, and I definitely think it's infidelity. I would not agree and I do not think that this with the proposal and the ring is a good solution at all, much less as a solution to the problem, it will even aggravate it with legal problems and breached obligations. I can't tell you what to do with the big picture of the problem, because I don't feel what you are and I'm not in the situation you are in, but about her infidelities, I definitely don't agree with her and I don't think you should either. to be. USA
It's disgusting, I just can't believe it.
First let me explain to you that "hello" and "I separated" are written together, do not expose yourself. Second, I hope you didn't write the house in her name. You can tell her you're going abroad, the house goes with the loans. If he wants to pay them and have a house, otherwise they will come looking for the money and the house will leave. To do the math. Bluff, or you can just disappear in 1 month to realize. The other option is to offer her to take the fuckers home - you will prepare their breakfast and claim that you are her brother. Someone can stay, will you be patient?
Emmy brother, you have an open relationship! If you agreed, then it is not infidelity, but if you did not know or was not okay with it would be considered as such. I will ask you a few questions to answer for yourself and decide how you will act from now on: 1. Do you really agree with this proposal of hers? Forget about the fact that you can see women, and think about whether you would like to share yours. 2. If so, will you use protective equipment? You can catch a disease or get your wife pregnant by someone else. 3. Most likely she offered it to you because she liked a man and even if she didn't, she will soon find her lover to fall in love with, so are you okay with that? 4. Do you think it is right to show wrong love to your child? I mean the following: you are not on good terms and the child will one day also have a lot of problems in their relationships, because he didn't see how you were doing at home or how close you were. 5. Do you really want to be with this woman to the end?
You are pure luT! I would not tolerate such a thing. If we are going to create a family, this cannot exist / others /. The family is close people to whom you can share and tell everything. But that stays in the family. Not to mention what she gives that is only for her husband. I may not be broad-minded, but yours is not a family.
Your wife is light. Very light. Judge for yourself.
Of course you're crazy ... If she cared a little about you and what you do for her, she'd want you to look for balance in your relationship. She just already wrote you off, and went to the next one. But if someone can provide her with a home, money and peace of mind at the same time ... Then roar here what women were like ... You make them like that for me, princess ... Maybe you should give her a room from the house for " guests' and, huh? Or just make your bed and you go to the movies ...
She cheated on you a lot, just tell her you're breaking up! If he can take care of the child, take him, if you don't look after him. How can you stand this, she doesn't love you!