I am very scared. So far I have not slept with a man without a condom, only sometimes with mine, but I am sure that he is healthy! I have been seeing another man for 4 months and we only sleep with him with a condom, but the last time we had sex without a condom. It didn't end in me, but I started to worry terribly, and paranoia became that. I'm so scared I might get infected. Tell me something, people, calm me down in some way. Now I'm crying when I think about my child. How could I sleep with a man without a condom, I'm just amazed at myself ...
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Go and examine yourself !!! What have you been up to .. = you have been with this person for 4 months, he has to see something if he is sick ...
Hello! what happened-happened! There is nothing more you can do! Just go and do some research! No need to bother for no reason! I hope all is well! But the test will only show - do not waste time! If it is an elementary disease - you will be cured! May God protect you from something more serious! My advice is - DON'T SLEEP WITH YOUR HUSBAND UNTIL YOU UNDERSTAND THAT YOU HAVE NOTHING! OR AT LEAST WITHOUT A CONDOM! If he is healthy as you say and you infect him ...... I don't think about the consequences! Do not give up! Go to the doctor as soon as possible! Write about the result! I wish you all the best and good luck! At least for another time you will know - NEVER WITHOUT A CONDOM! SUCCESS!
I'm not mean, but let me ask you - what do you do with foreign men after you're married and have children. Know that everything comes back!
Why sleep with other men when you have your own. Marriage is until death do you part. Do you know how much trouble you will save if you follow this rule.
To the one who wasn't supposed to be mean ... you're either very jealous of your husband and that's why you wrote this, because you're trembling for a woman like this not to steal it from you (which suggests that there's reason to be jealous - you're ugly or fat and you tremble not to fall for someone more beautiful or your husband does not have regular sex with you ...) or you have already suffered from the breakdown of yours or you doubt that he does ... do not be afraid, women, of sex with foreign men! just use condoms so as not to infect us men, because we also have families ... :)
I asked for advice number 3 and I did not need criticism. We are here to help each other and it is not good to threaten that everything comes back, because only I know my husband and my life. I made a mistake and admitted it to so many people. Now I suffer and worry. And I wish you all the best, but you're not right that you're not at least a little mean ...
I want to tell everyone that the man in question is not married but divorced and I don't think I stole anyone's husband or father. This is a side relationship that happens to a lot of women, and I think it's better to help each other here than to spit.
That's right, unknown woman! we are with you! keep up the good work! so far no one has been harmed by a little extramarital sex, on the contrary :)
number 3 and number 4 - eeee, it can be malice but ..... we are not in the 18th century were people. listening to you, you must be aging dissatisfied aunts. and do your husbands go? but how else, with people like you .... to the author. don't be sorry keep in touch. but be sure to examine yourself. and from now on you know your dad on his own, always with a condom. I wish you good health and good luck. I fully support you.
number 6 - congratulations on the right thinking! I'm number 2. however, I did not understand whether (the author) is going to be examined! Write a result! Fingers crossed!
to 9. - do you know who is harmed by extramarital sex ?! children's!!!!!! ... Well, people say that every next generation becomes more and more "shoddy", "liberated", etc ... How can it not be shoddy with such parents ?! I am 16 years old, I have seen a lot, but I still have a lot to see! 2 things I can't explain - -1vo - marriage on account (or just without love) -2ro - infidelity (especially women) Okay, what is this for? Doesn't your husband give you enough love? Do you want your child to become like you - to cheat on your spouse? Well, you hardly want that ... I don't want to blame you, but in this case you don't regret that you had sex with someone else, that you cheated on your lover, on the contrary you regret it only because you are afraid of not being. caught something! 3. is very right! You have a husband, a child, the fact that he has no family does not justify you! I don't know what else to advise you but to stop having extramarital sex! This is from me if you want to follow my advice, if you want to say to yourself "Abe get out of here was a paw!" But this concerns us children! And whenever you have sex with someone other than your husband, think about your child and what you are doing to him!
Number 12, apparently your favorite dad cheated on mom and that's why you are so angry with the poor woman ... When you grow up, get married or just start an active sex life, you will understand her ... We are with you, woman! Just use condoms another time! PS there will be another time, right :)
Thank you all very much for being with me / without some people /. It takes a while for me to get tested for AIDS, and I have nothing else, I did my research.
I'm number 10. Well done! I am sincerely glad that you have nothing else! It is treatable, but why get in trouble is an inconvenience! I am very, very happy! Wait a little longer for AIDS, there will probably be nothing, but still be calm, do some research! We are with you! Fingers crossed! And on number 9 I will say that God forbid he gets married in a few years we will see if he will think the same way! Yes, some women don't get enough love and understanding at home and that's why they look for it outside! And what can we regret ??? I have everything at home and abroad! Is there anyone happier than me? And the fact that my child would become such, to cheat ... is here we can argue! But why am I explaining myself! Everyone knows themselves! And only God has the right to judge! NO OTHER! We are here not to judge, but to SUPPORT!
Don't blame the woman! If you have everything in your marriage, you don't look elsewhere. Everyone lives their own and unique life and must decide for themselves how to live it so as not to regret anything.
Number 15, I'm 9. Either I don't understand what you want to tell me or you want to tell me ... as far as I understand we both agree. What are these remarks on my address? PS about who will become children - and become, like us, infidels, what of it?!? There is nothing wrong with infidelity! Once you get to her, there is obviously something you are missing with your regular partner and that's why you looked for him with someone else!
number 9 sorry a lot !!! this comment of mine is aimed at number 12! I was wrong! very very sorry! do not be angry!
if you are infected with something (I hope you are not) it will just serve as a lesson not to go after other men
there is nothing, number 18 :) and as for number 19, obviously you are from the team of unscrupulous villains ... PS it is written "with something" and not "with something" ...
Eh, that word is infidelity, it's good that it comforts your fortified brains. Their 16-year-olds have been forgiven - they are still in the clouds and that's how it should be, but when a normally sexually active woman starts telling me, I'm surprised. My husband and I have other partners and since we started the sex between us has become superb! Neither his rubbed, nor mine broke, come on health. By the way, when you have a heart, you are not jealous of the body. And a jealous person for me is the one who clearly realizes that something is lame (missing) and someone else can give it to the "faithful half". We are waiting for the result of the AIDS test! What are you not doing like us, first examining your partner (s) and then having sex (again with a condom)?
To the author: Did you notice here how much they took aim at you ... when they start changing you like a handkerchief, you will sing another song. Up to number 15, you are absolutely right - only God has the right to judge, but open the Bible and read what it says about fornication and sex. Then decide for yourself what he will condemn you to. Read the marriage vow and see if anyone has the right to separate spouses except death. To the author - this also applies to you. I fully support number 12. The girl is 16 years old, but she understands many more things than most here.
Quite an old topic! It doesn't bother me so much that the author didn't keep her promise to give an account if she "caught something", but opinions like "poor wife" !? I am not a moralist and a saint, but to call a married woman with a small child "poor wife" given that she puts her husband's horns seems quite inappropriate to me! By no means do I judge her, but I do not regret or justify her! In my opinion, there are similar manifestations, but it is good not to give them publicity, ie if she has allowed herself to break up with her husband and has not taken precautionary measures, it is best to resort to publicizing the incident and to take personal responsibility! Point