I want to share with you and if possible and there is a way for someone to give me advice. I am a 23 year old girl and my problem is the following, I am too jealous of everything, not only boyfriends in general and friends. I still have the feeling that my destiny is such that I am always alone, I can't have friends and a boyfriend this way, I am still cautious for fear of being dumped and hurt. I really want to know that there are people I can count on. I even think I have mental problems. Is this possible and what should I do besides talking to a psychologist, can I deal with these problems on my own.
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Hello from me. I am writing to you because I have the same problem and I am your age, I do not know what is happening to me and why I am like that. The other problem I have is that I am very ashamed and worried at times by people. I don't know how to advise you because I am too. But I'm sure we need to change, but I don't know how .....
I don't think your problems are mental. That's just the way life is. You can only rely on true friends. Mostly to himself. A vicious circle appears - you need friends, but it turns out that these friends are not real to you. I have noticed that there is some dependence on interests. When life confronts you with many contacts, both personal and professional, you have the opportunity to make a selection and out of 100 people you can say that you have at least 1 to define as a friend. Responsive are people who are interested in you or in other words you can be useful to them. But the opposite is not valid - ie God forbid you are addicted. Then the transmission on the touch line begins. Nobody wants to do a job for 5 stotinki if there are no interests. Friends gather in moments of good or bad. But if you don't keep in touch with them, you just remember - nothing connects you, ie. the other factor is shared experiences and emotions. And in general, a person in most cases is alone - even if he is among the people. You should not be afraid that you will be dumped. If there's one thing that's bothering you, it's fear. Accept people as they are and don't expect anything from them. Try to rely on yourself and be yourself. Don't shut up - be open but careful and don't trust others. Happy are those who have more close people around them and good friends. But these lucky ones are few. And this is the magic of communication - an art that few can ..... You should not be afraid that you will be dumped. If there's one thing that's bothering you, it's fear. Accept people as they are and don't expect anything from them. Try to rely on yourself and be yourself. Don't shut up - be open but careful and don't trust others. Happy are those who have more close people around them and good friends. But these lucky ones are few. And this is the magic of communication - an art that few can ..... You should not be afraid that you will be dumped. If there's one thing that's bothering you, it's fear. Accept people as they are and don't expect anything from them. Try to rely on yourself and be yourself. Don't shut up - be open but careful and don't trust others. Happy are those who have more close people around them and good friends. But these lucky ones are few. And this is the magic of communication - an art that few can .....
Darling, I'm like that, I've had a friend for 3 years, but soon I think I might get bored of him ... they're constantly so, always pretending and unbelieving ... she set herself the goal of believing, there's no one to help you anymore.
Apparently you suffer from a complex, that you are ugly or fat and that you do not deserve anyone. Tighten up a little, smile and look ahead, life is wonderful.