Hello. Like most people who write here, I have a problem. I'm 15 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we were home today. We haven't had sex. We just played a little - no objects, I would even say no fingers, it just touched me. And two or three of the touches were where they shouldn't be. I was slightly moistened and felt one of his fingers on my vagina. But only this nothing else. I don't think it was enough to open me up. But something bothered me. After he left I went to the toilet and noticed some blood on the toilet. paper. She was very small and pale, I would say. It's not time for my menstrual cycle, but I don't want to think I'm no longer a virgin. January came to me twice, but now it's only been a week and it just doesn't make sense. There is no more blood now ... I'm scared! Please don't blame me for what I did. I didn't want anything to happen. And I know and my boyfriend knows I don't want to and I don't have time yet. Give me advice on what to do. If I go to a gynecologist, will they tell me if I'm still a virgin? Tell me, is what I think possible? Help !!!!
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Don't worry, it didn't happen. First - even during the first sexual intercourse, defloration may not take place immediately, but what about light touches? I think you can look in the mirror first. It is obvious - in a virgin girl the opening is very small / to bleed during menstruation /, it is obvious if there are tears. As for this slight spotting - it happens when ovulation occurs, and as far as I know it can be provoked by very strong arousal. So if there is no more blood, wait and if it reappears or the cycle continues to be very irregular, I think you should go to the doctor. If there is bleeding during ovulation, you should have your period after about 14-15 days. But that wasn't the case with such a young girl either.
You are a virgin :) He only scratched you. If he had torn the skin, you would have understood, believe me :) Boronia
A girl is a virgin until the penis penetrates her vagina
Calm girl, you're still with the excise label :) And next time be more careful. Do not try to put sprays where you want but do not give and "can not" :) These are the first steps to sex. Play like this, deliver your orgasms, get to know your bodies and I guarantee you that soon you will ask for it yourself and you will do it, but do not rush and use condoms. PS: And please talk to mom and dad on these topics, don't just rely on forums, the internet and stupid advice from friends. Surely mom and dad had more sex than you.
Thank you very much. You calmed me down. This bleeding hadn't happened to me before, and maybe that's why I panicked so much. It's very important to me to still be a virgin, really. It may sound strange, but it is. Once again thank you. Have a nice day everyone.
I think you are a virgin :)
There is no doubt that you are a virgin. Number 3 said it most accurately :)))
I think so too. You are a virgin.
You may or may not be a virgin. When you sleep with a boy you will understand. : d