Hello, I am a girl of almost 16 years! I don't want to sound like a depressant, but what's wrong with me? !! So, let me tell you the situation. I like a boy, the son of my teacher, I had written such a topic before ... In essence ... I listened to the advice of some of you, I hinted to the lady if she is comfortable bringing her children to school sometime, however, they are too busy ... So far I understand. After all, we saw the boy in question, so I was afraid to send him an invitation. And I'm not the first girl from our school to send him. However, he declined my invitation. Where am I wrong? !! I have absolutely not shared anything on the subject with anyone, only my best friend, who does not study at my school and does not know any of them. Why did he decline my invitation when he accepted those of strangers? !! Is it possible that someone told him something bad about me? (Still, we have a lot in common). Tell me honestly, is there anything wrong with my appearance that is repulsive? I admit that I am not the most attractive - I have dark blond hair with light locks, light blue eyes, and a little acne, but almost invisible ... Maybe the problem is that I am relatively flat ... What should I do? I'm sorry, if I made mistakes, I was in too much of a hurry to correct myself! Thank you in advance! to fix myself! Thank you in advance! to fix myself! Thank you in advance!
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Girl, there will always be people who don't like you if you want Angelina Jolie. The problem is not in you. And when you "lose", sometimes you don't know what you're winning. The boy in question may not be for you at all and after a while you will regret it. Let things happen naturally when you don't like them - ok. Someone else will be found.
Look, it's not good to make movies like this for every boy you like. There will be people in this life who don't like you, people who will die for you, but you won't like them. And sometimes you will like exactly who likes you. There are no guarantees here and you should not put it on if someone does not like you, which happened in the case when he did not accept your invitation. You say that other people have sent him invitations, which means that he likes a boy. And likeable teenagers love to be able to do whatever they want and choose who they want. You better turn your attention elsewhere. Brother.
He just doesn't like you and that's why he didn't accept you. In principle, some people do not accept others if they do not know them, for example, they did not accept me because they do not know me, but they wrote to me if we know each other and who I am. At least they wrote to me. And recently the son of a folk singer accepted me as a friend, and he doesn't know me at all and I liked the photos and even wrote me that I was beautiful. People who don't know me because of my appearance often accept my invitations. You're not his type, obviously.
I guess the teacher knew where you were going and told him, but for some reason he wasn't interested. As you describe yourself, you look good. There is nothing more you can do but calm down and move on.
First, it's a little strange what you wrote, yes. Second, how do we tell you if you're beautiful or not, when we can't see you? Third: You want something at all costs, but life is not like that. When a person doesn't like you, you put up with it and that's it. If he removes the invitation, then he doesn't like you. There is nothing more to think about. You find someone else and you're done.
From the author: Thanks to those who have commented so far! I know I have to get over it, but ... I'm still sick, but I guess it's normal, it happened soon. I don't know if I'll forget it, but I'll try to really calm down so I don't make stupid dramas.
To number 3: What types are you talking about? By "type" for a woman what do I mean? That she has dark blond hair? Give a little explanation on this!
Maybe he just doesn't like thick khakis. Calm down, you're going to catch a clown.
From the author to number 8: I rather have the opposite problem because I am too weak (according to people). I don't know how it sounds to you: Height 164 and 50 kg? I don't think it's fat or thin, but maybe it depends on the gene, I don't know. And by the way, number eight, I understand you're having fun, but think that someone might be offended by this comment of yours!