I don't know why, but I feel pretty weird and different. It's not about the way I dress or behave, it's about my thinking. I'm 14 years old, girl ... All my classmates are boys, some have boyfriends, others have already done it, others are 'fishing' with boys. Something completely normal, but I don't want to move on to that. There is no 1 boy I like and want to be with him. There are many decent and nice ones, but I feel like friends, I can't look at them any other way. I'm sure I'm not the opposite, because just thinking about something like that and uh, I'm just not!
All the girls look elegant, frizzy with hairstyles, and I dress more loosely (I'm not a metalhead), I just like to walk more casually. Every girl wants to have beautiful and well-shaped hair, and I cut mine. I have very nice and thick hair, but I cut it as a boy and left longer locks on top of my head and bangs. I don't have to shape it for 2 hours, volume, nonsense. I don't know why I'm like that. Why don't I care about boys, high heels, make-up ... During the summer I went to my aunt's in Switzerland and I really liked their way of life there. Maybe I took the example of the casual style of most young people and I really like it.
The others don't make fun of me, but they look at my way of dressing strangely and I've often heard comments jokingly about a 'fallen German'. Yes, they look at me strangely. Especially the girls after I give them the answer 'Honestly, I don't care'. Maybe I realized this when I was at sea and there was a big guy on our floor who was with a different girl every day.
Did I wonder what kind of person is this? Okay, he's alive, but is this the most important thing? Then I went downstairs and saw a picture that I will remember forever. There was a man about 30 years old, I don't know, and I saw him hug his child and start to enjoy him and hug him. This softened me a lot. Then I made a comparison of who I would prefer 'the cool dude or the caring person' and yes ... That's another topic, but if you're still reading I want to ask you is it weird? I don't want a boyfriend, it's easy for me and I feel great. I'm worried if I don't have a very strange vision? I want to start with these things at least in 2-3 years. Am I that bad? the cool dude or the caring person 'and yes ...
That's another topic, but if you're still reading I want to ask you is it weird? I don't want a boyfriend, it's easy for me and I feel great. I'm worried if I don't have a very strange vision? I want to start with these things at least in 2-3 years. Am I that bad? the cool dude or the caring person 'and yes ... That's another topic, but if you're still reading I want to ask you is it weird? I don't want a boyfriend, it's easy for me and I feel great. I'm worried if I don't have a very strange vision? I want to start with these things at least in 2-3 years. Am I that bad?
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Not bad, you are a wonderful girl I would like to know.
Being different is not a bad thing at all. After all, such people are like roses in weeds. There must always be someone different, otherwise it would be boring. And if you're fine ... why do you ask yourself such a thing
You are completely normal! It's as if I wrote the article! And I don't see the point in school for all the girls (at least in my class) to put on make-up, do hairstyles (which take a lot of time, I just don't care, especially in the morning), and almost always someone complains about their weight ... . Do not pay attention to them! Just because they are doesn't mean you have to be!
You're very well, girl. Don't start something like that early, especially if you don't feel it's right and you want it. In time, your friends will be worn out by relationships and boyfriends worn out by life. What you saw in Switzerland here is exactly the difference between chalga and good upbringing. Be a person, have fun as a person. And everything with its time. I did not live fast and early and I do not regret it. Do not follow other people's minds and people's tales, be yourself.
You think normally - as a person. I think so too. You are not strange but different from the others, you are human, and they are muffins
Echo, it's your turn! Ah, there is no age for the worldview! You have a heart and you grow mentally! You will always be bothered by your peers, there are more! life is short! Fall in love with what you love to do! read books, terribly cheer up! especially fantasy and terry pratchett! live! think! works with results! look at Japanese series! They have heart and warmth! Happy Holidays!
you are not the opposite, you are just a man :)) which is nice in my opinion. Sometimes I am; it's not bad to dress the way you want the MONKEY AND WITH SILK IT STILL REMAINS THE MONKEY it doesn't matter what you wear !! Be yourself and don't change !!! :))
It doesn't have to be male. It's just different from dolls that run non-stop. But I don't like them, they have a big ego and are only interested in their appearance. I prefer a casually dressed girl, either sporty or just elegant. Shiny, battered, powdered, made up, with heels, I wouldn't marry one like that ...
Nowadays it is "BAD" to be different - if you do not smoke, drink unconsciously, do not dress like "others", do not listen to chalga, etc. so you are DIFFERENT ... Always different have been rejected by society ... >>> Tishanski <<<
I've always dreamed of a girl like you. Be yourself and don't care about others
Hey, that bitch insulted me! ; dd I'm kidding, of course;] And yes, I'm metal and I'm proud of it! Not because of the metal itself, but because I am different from everyone else! Respect the individual, be different from that stupid flock of sheep I see on the streets every day! Keep up the good work, girl! =)
Bravo darling !!! I am glad to know that there are others like me in this monotonous and monotonous everyday life! I think you, me and other girls like us are "more normal" than all the other clones among us.
I feel the same way ....; (My best friend recently told me that I was stuck and I really felt pretty bad. And I'm not ugly in principle, I'm just not a muffin, my favorite subject is math and I play piano That's why everyone looks at me like I'm something ... I don't know ... some mistake of nature Another thing that worries me is that my closest person so far is a boy Please tell me what to do I'm small, still 13 years old, but everyone around me thinks only of boys and even some have already lost their virginity I don't want a boyfriend, so far I don't seem to have really fallen in love, so I feel a little strange different ?!
Girls, don't worry when you grow up, go to university or start a job, people like you will be liked because you have values and principles.
That's right! I am very glad that there are still such people. Believe me - to be different is not bad at all. Once you reach a certain age, girls like you will be valued and worthy of respect. I liked how you realized the difference between men.
Well done! Believe me, you are great! Glad you're not like the others. I'm different too (I'm a boy) and I'm proud of that. There should be more such people, but unfortunately there are none - the table is muffins, idiots, simpletons, pedals, etc. People like us are very rare. If I knew you, I would be your friend instantly. However, there are no such girls in my environment - it is full of muffins and idiots. I don't know about you, but the situation must be the same. The others must be counting. A man is best when he is natural. And they put on make-up, heels, nonsense ... And what do they think - that way they are more beautiful? Nothing of the kind. In addition, appearance (which they cover up with all sorts of rubbish) is not important, but character is important. So you can only be proud that you are not interested in such things - if you are great inside, you don't need to pay much attention to how you look on the outside. And the fact that you guys don't care doesn't bother you at all. You can just befriend a boy, if he's more honest, you don't have to like someone. And something important - NEVER CHANGE. Be yourself, rejoice without being interested in others. I hope you will be appreciated in time. Success!
You have nothing. 1st you are only 14 you have time. 2nd you're just a decent girl and that's how it should be. Honestly, your girlfriends are in a hurry to grow up. Live your childhood, you have a lot of time for boyfriends and so, Dad, you have to dress the way you like and not let them make fun of you. Makeup is to hide old features :) you definitely don't need it. I was just like you. You are not strangely cool at all and if you tell me that you do not listen to chalga I will hug you: D
Yayayaya, I see that there are new comments :)) Number 13: This sucks :( I've never been told that I'm stuck, but it also depends on your behavior. I'm one of the girls I like in class (boys behave good with me, I'm even surprised because I have classmates who think they are very important, and constant tease and insult them). I treat everyone well => and they treat me well :) I'm a little frivolous, but it there are no perfect people. Number 17: I'm sending you a virtual hug! I don't like the chalga at all ... not to mention anything else. Otherwise, I listen to everything, but there is a German band that is my favorite (I am very inspired by these people). To me, this is generally not the case with me, who knows what change ... the author :)
I have the feeling that I wrote this. Absolutely every word of yours applies to me. Sometimes I've asked myself these questions about whether I'm weird and why I'm not like the others. Even my mother once told me that it is not normal not to like anyone. Just like you, there are 2-3 guys who are nice to me, but only that many. I think we should be glad that we are not like everyone else and that we are different.
I'll tell you one thing. rejoice that you are like that. You are a wonderful and amazing girl. You are really different from them, but in a good way. That is, you have a mind compared to others, you look at things as a mature person. You for a mastiff and really unique, well done to you. Girl on the 13th.
I also asked myself these questions, but from what I've read so far I understand that I'm not the only one different in the world. Every day when I enter school I am surrounded by muffins, then I started to wonder if I was okay, but when I saw all these comments I calmed down and realized that being different is a good thing, not a disadvantage. Do not change for the sake of others, be yourself and someday you will be appreciated as you are !!!
It's as if I wrote this, only I'm 18. I've always been more serious than the others and I couldn't stand the Liglians. I don't know if it's because of my character or something else, but I don't care about boys my age at all, they're just my friends. My mother has been asking me about boyfriends for some time and repeating to me that at my age it was normal (not to say obligatory) to have a boyfriend. And what can I do if I don't like these liglevtsi at school - they irritate me and I can't stand them. I'm also different in that I don't listen to chalga, they only play that at discos and that's why I don't go to discos. If I have to be honest, that's what I want - to go out with friends and have fun, but knowing that I have to listen to greasy chalga and I prefer to stay at home. Are there others?
I don't think you're weird at all. I tell you and I look like you. I like to play with boys and boys' games. The girls are pretty boring to me. They like to put on make-up and make their own hairstyles and play cooking games. I don't like these things. It and learning is not fun at all. But I still have to learn. I wanted to enroll in acrobatics but my father wouldn't let me. And now I hate him.! . Мннооооооооого го мрааааааааазяяяяяяяя !!!
I am a girl but if you visit me you will say that I am a boy !!! To look like a boy makes me kkkkkeeeeeee fffffffiiiii !!!! My name is Sisi
Look, so am I. I've been surfing the internet for a while now because I have the same worries! I never cared much about my appearance - jeans, sweatshirt sneakers and "stick on a stick" :) For a long time I thought why I'm not like other girls, why I'm not interested in the same things ... But lately I stopped criticize, I thought why should I care how others see me? Life is one I prefer to live it the way I like it, without bothering my head with unnecessary things! btw - Ever since I started searching the internet, I've been better off by the fact that people like me are more than I think! And to know everything, but everything is fine! ;)
I'm writing a second comment, but ... do you happen to be involved in some extreme sport? : D
You're not bad, you just have other views, other ideas about a young 14-year-old girl. And it's great that today's ladies are obsessed with the idea of having a boyfriend, some even change them like handkerchiefs. So don't worry, you have a lot of time to enter the period of "the favorite boy next to me". Don't worry, be yourself. This makes you unique! You are just a girl, different, misunderstood by others, but unique in its own way! That should make you happy! Good luck :))
You are not at all strange, you are calm and reasonable and this is not bad, it is even wonderful. Girls like you are rare these days, even at this age. You should be proud of yourself.